27/05/2026
PROACTIVE REFLECTIONS:
YOU MAY GAIN MANY HUMANS BY GOING AGAINST THE GRAIN.
_Exodus 23:2; "Do not follow the crowd in doing wrong."_
I have personally not been very comfortable with the oft mentioned proverb "If you can't beat them, join them". I think this adage was coined with a defeatist attitude. Likewise I am usually terrified by one Swahili proverb " Mwenye nguvu mpishe" (Give way to the strong man). I think the sages got it wrong; the proverb seems to support oppression of an idea or a person simply because it's unwanted by the strong man!
But I am inspired by the words of Malcolm Muggeride who averred,
"Never forget that only dead fish swim with the stream."
Now imagine if Nelson Mandela and a horde of other Nationalists in South Africa did not swim across the stream! Probably apartheid would still be practiced in South Africa until today.
If Abraham Lincolin did not go against the grain but instead danced with the racial supremacists of the time who wielded immense financial muscles and were equally strong numerically, slavery would have gone on and for a long time in the USA and in the world!
If Martin Luther King went as per the dictates of many even within the family and circle of friends, he would not have emerged as the champion of civil rights in America and the world. Indeed his very famous speech "I have a dream" would not be reverberating in our ears decades after his death. He chose to go against the dream and his exploits have seen generations ofpeople emancipated and encouraged.
If Dedan Kimathi and his dedicated team of Mau Mau fighters went with the grain, Kenya's independence would have been delayed... They chose not to run with the tide.
If Mother Teresa, the champion of charity chose to live with the comfort associated with her family, she wouldn't have saved the lives of so many vulnerable families in Calcutta. Today no one would talk of Mother Teresa.
If Wangari Maathai, the greatest heroine in Kenya did not stand her ground and swam against the very lethal political tides of the "Nyayo regime" the beautiful and serene Uhuru park would be no more. Karura forest would probably be destroyed completely now.
Geoffrey Griffith, would not have started Starehe Boys Center and National Youth Service if he went with the whims of his family and the "racial calling". He chose to abandon the Kings African Rifles where he had been enlisted to fight the Mau Mau freedom fighters and instead concentrated on uplifting the lives of poor children who had mainly been orphaned by the Mau Mau war. If he chose to swim with the tide Starehe Boys Center would not be there today.
Back in my village, a priest by the name Peter Piet Payens, born and brought up in rich settings in Netherlands, chose to change the lives of Africans (Mainly Maasai). He did this by not only giving them spiritual nourishment but also initiating infrastructures that contributed to great social development in Loitokitok. Oloitokitok Boys High School is one testimony of his great contribution to mankind.
Legend Mwalimu Elijah Koipitat went against many odds and established a tradition where all learners in DEB Primary School would wear shoes while in school. Many parents complained but he remained defiantly firm and the "Shoe revolution" took effect.
Even Jesus Christ preached the gospel of going against the grain. Luke 18:22;
When Jesus heard this, he said to him, "You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
This is a classic case of going against the grain...