John Wangwe

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NOBODY OWES YOU YOUR HAPPINESS 😊

1. Happiness is subjective: What brings happiness to one person may not necessarily bring happiness to another. Therefore, it is up to each individual to define and pursue their own happiness.

2. Personal responsibility: Ultimately, you are responsible for your own happiness. Relying on others to make you happy puts the power and control in their hands, which can lead to disappointment and frustration.

3. Self-awareness: Understanding yourself and what truly makes you happy is crucial. It is important to identify your own needs, desires, and values, rather than relying on others to fulfill them.

4. Independence: Owning your happiness means being self-reliant and not depending on others for validation or fulfillment. It allows you to have a sense of autonomy and freedom in pursuing what truly brings you joy.

5. Empowerment: Taking ownership of your happiness empowers you to make choices that align with your values and desires. It allows you to prioritize your own well-being and take control of your life.

6. Avoiding codependency: Relying on others for happiness can lead to unhealthy codependent relationships. By owning your happiness, you can maintain healthy boundaries and foster healthier relationships.

7. Personal growth: Taking responsibility for your own happiness encourages personal growth and self-improvement. It allows you to focus on your own development and pursue activities that bring you fulfillment.

8. Emotional resilience: When you own your happiness, you become more resilient to external circumstances. You are better equipped to handle challenges and setbacks, as your happiness is not dependent on external factors.

9. Authenticity: Owning your happiness means being true to yourself and living authentically. It allows you to pursue what genuinely brings you joy, rather than conforming to societal expectations or seeking validation from others.

10. Long-term fulfillment: By owning your happiness, you prioritize long-term fulfillment over short-term gratification. You can make choices that align with your values and contribute to your overall well-being, leading to a more sustainable and lasting happiness.

GOD BLESS YOU🙏❤️

EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

THE SYSTEM WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE IN THESE 6 LIES...

You have to Wake up before it gets late:

1. News
The news is there to hack your attention. Not to keep you informed.
They want you to:
• Be Distracted
• Believe their lies
• Stay under their control
Observe with your mind not your eyes.

2. Failure
"You should avoid failure there is one correct answer."
Wrong.
Make mistakes so you can:
• Grow
• Learn
• Strengthen your skills
Nobody is born perfect. Embrace failure and see it as an opportunity to grow.

3. Work hard
You should work smart, not hard.
Don't get me wrong, it will still get hard sometimes, but they want you to trade your time for money your whole life.
1 Minute of your life is worth more than all money combined.
Stop valuing it more than your time.

4. Money
Until 1971, money was tied to gold, which gave money value.
Nowadays, money is tied to nothing. Money is basically worthless.
Learn how:
• To create money with no money
• To make money work for you
• Money works
or you will work your entire life for it.

5. Consumerism
Many people think fulfillment lies in materialistic things.
It lies in:
• Personal growth
• Relationships
• Self-love
and in contributing to something greater than ourselves.
You won't find fulfillment anywhere else.

6. Change is impossible
“Life is the way it is”
That's a lie. Life is what you make out of it.
Before you can live the life you want, you must become a person.
Change how you:
• Think
• Feel
• Act
and you can become almost anybody.

After dropping out of campus, I briefly worked as a security guard in an apartment somewhere in Ruaka. I would perhaps be a security guard right now had I not quit because of what I witnessed or what the tenants made me do. One of the things that tenants turned me into was an errand boy. Some of the works I was asked to do were outrageous, some were flat-out criminal, and some were raunchy.
Initially, I loved partaking in such small errands because of the tokens I received from them. A generous tenant would pay me one or two hundred shillings for washing his/her car or refilling their gas. I loved doing them because it was from these payments that I afforded my fare and lunch or supper.
Some tenants paid me using food, fruits, or drinks. One or two tenants had unrestrained tendencies of paying me using unconventional means. One such tendency started with the D1 lady. Her sink blocked. She invited me to help her unblock it. When I walked into her house, I ended up playing a role that mirrored the title of a video on a website that you love visiting; “A plumber helps the housewife to unblock the sink. Or “The lawnmower trims the housewife’s outgrown hair.”
Most of the tenants were very generous when it came to compensating me for service or work tat I had done. Apart from one mean lady. She used to live in the house on the second floor. I had a huge crush on this babe. She was in her mid-twenties, or early twenties, or thereabouts.
She was plump, with a round face and a sizeable but. She rarely came out of the house. Unless she was picking up a delivery from her boda boda delivery guy. She loved wearing loose brief shorts and busters that enhanced the shape of her bre+sts every time she came down to pick the deliveries.
She lived alone most of the time. Occasionally, her father visited, but only over the weekend. She barely gave me attention, as other tenants did. For a very long time, I wished she did. One day, she did.
I remember the first time she invited me into her house, I was listening to my favorite radio show, Patanisho. I received a call from a strange number. The call invited me into house B3. Right away, it clicked in my mind that my crush had invited me into her house.
On my way to her house, I imagined all the possible reasons why she had invited me to her house. And none was as appealing as the thought of the title “The lonely b***y tenant gets company from the security guard.”
Lewd thoughts went through my mind. They excited me. She opened her door in a bralette and a ragged booty-short. My mind went wild. The first thing that I spotted was a large wall picture of a five-star general framed on the wall. It was her father’s picture. It was so large and conspicuously mounted opposite the door for anyone entering the house to view it. In the photo, the general was holding a gun.
Once I was standing in the sitting room, she handed me one thousand, one hundred and fifty shillings to pick up a parcel from a place called Denderu. The one fifty was my boda boda fare, while the one thousand was the payment for the parcel that she didn’t name. She had not mentioned any form of payment. I knew and prayed that the payment would be in the form of your favorite website’s video title.
At the pickup point, a guy in dreadlocks came out of an old bedsitter apartment and handed me a mid-sized pharmacy tablet dispensing envelope.
I did not check what was inside the envelope. Once I was back in her house, shockingly, she opened the parcel, pulled out two sticks of w**d, and stretched her hands to hand them to me. I declined her offer and said, “Huwa sichomi.”. My revelation that I don’t smoke seemed to disgust her. She frowned. I kept on standing there waiting for payment.
“How am I supposed to pay you then? I don’t have money with me.” I wondered how the daughter of a general could lack money to pay me. She didn’t have the money. She promised to send me money as soon as she had some. I left her house disappointed. In my mind, I blacklisted her from the list of tenants that were eligible for my help.
A week later, she called my phone again. She had not paid me yet. But as a security guard, I always heeded all the calls from tenants. It was a rule. I entered the house and found her holding the same amount as before. She extended her hand, as before, and said, “as before.”
I protested and reminded her that she had not paid me for my previous job. She looked at me with a grimace, with violent sadness and disgust, as if she did not believe that I could turn her request down. She turned her face and stared at the photo of the general. I followed her eyes. The general’s photo was staring at me, menacingly. It always did stare at me regardless of the position I was standing at.
“My father will not be happy that you have been selling me w**d,” she blackmailed. She shifted her eyes to a different location. With that threat, I picked the money and left to pick her w**d. This became a routine. She sent me to pick up her drugs and paid me with threats. I was the poorest peddler in the history of peddlers.
Sometimes I wonder if there is a heaven for Nairobi Weemen.

10 Lessons from the book The "Unfair Advantage"
by Ash Ali and Hasan Kubba:

1. The unfair advantage is not a secret formula, a silver bullet or even a guaranteed solution. It is, in fact, a way of thinking, a mindset, a set of skills and abilities that you can cultivate within yourself.

2. Your unfair advantage is unique to you. It is your combination of skills, experiences, talents, and perspectives that make you stand out from the crowd.

3. Embrace your failures and use them to your advantage. Failure is not the opposite of success, it is a stepping stone towards it.

4. To find your unfair advantage, you need to focus on your strengths and what makes you unique. Don't try to be someone else, be the best version of yourself.

5. The most successful people are not the ones who have had an easy ride, but the ones who have overcome challenges and obstacles. Use your struggles to build resilience and strength.

6. Don't be afraid to take risks and step out of your comfort zone. This is where the magic happens and where you can discover your true potential.

7. Your mindset is key to your success. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and you will be unstoppable.

8. Success is not just about working harder, it's about working smarter. Focus on your priorities, set clear goals, and stay disciplined.

9. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who will encourage and inspire you on your journey towards success.

10. Remember that success is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the process, learn from your experiences, and keep moving forward.

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Rugby won by Butula boys, after beating school from Embu. St Anthony kitale number three, goes to nationals.
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Handball boys going on. Hospital hill against Mbooni. Manyatta were number three.