Mr Ngeno Dominic

Nobody is your friend unless they defend your name in your absence.

Your health is your Wealth.
Self hygiene keep doctors Away.

There's is no such an amazing perennial thing like being in an atmosphere of temptation to retaliate but because of incontinence and self restraint,,you manage to pop out something good.... command your abstract and let your concrete conversion be a replica of your intellect.... abstain from immortal desires like anger, resentment and wrath.Leave vengeance for the avenger and potray the attribute of the most high.. Let's be vigilant enough to tarnish the current wave of temptation..

WEDDING is different from MARRIAGE

Wedding is for a DAY .
Marriage is for a LIFETIME

Wedding is an OCCASION
Marriage is an INSTITUTION

Wedding is a PARTY
Marriage is REALITY.

One of the challenges that couples face immediately after their wedding is DEBT.

Debts incurred from putting the Wedding together.

DEBT can cause resentment to fester amongst a newly Wed couple, blame trading, accusation and counter accusation, lies told to evade debtors, quarrels become frequent and soon full blown fights break out.

Future salaries forfeited to settle debts.

This can be avoided....

Dear Young Man, help yourself..
Dear young lady, help yourself and your Man.

Do not INSIST on too many friviloties

Pre wedding SHOOT, Intra wedding SHOT, post wedding SHAT, shower this, bath that..

Do as your strength can carry and leave the rest for those coming after you..

Do not spend all your money planning WEDDING and forget to keep some money for what you will EAT in MARRIAGE.

Don't depend on the money they will spray you during your dance, it can disappoint.

Don't borrow money or use your life savings to plan a wedding and become broke/enter into debts trying to impress people that don't care...

After wedding, there's house rent, school fees, Nepa bill. Baby food don cost oh...

Your wedding gown mustn't be the most expensive one or an imported one, after wedding day, will you use it again?

You mustn't buy wedding shoes of N100,000, is shoe na, is not car.

The food mustn't be prepared by an official catering firm that will charge you N300,000, after 3 days people will forget how the food tasted, find a less expensive alternative.

Don't go for a cake that will cost you N250,000, when you actually don't have the money for it.

Wedding is for a Day.
Marriage is for a Lifetime

They don't give award for most expensive wedding......
You can even save costs from wedding and use it to live large in marriage..

YOUNG MEN
Keep Your Options Open Until You Meet A Woman Like This:

Most men settle down for a woman who's not even good enough for them.

That results in break up/ divorce or a miserable life. That's why i want to help you AVOID these things.

You will do that by settling down with her ONLY if she's willing to do these for you:

1.SILENCE & PEACE:

The most important thing you need as a man; peace. Women tend to be dramatic human beings, but for the right man, she will WANT to bring him peace. If she truly loves you, she will want to make you happy. And nothing can make a man happier than PEACE.

2.COOKS FOR YOU

Women who hate cooking are the ones who are filled with negative vibrations & don't have a nurturing side in them. Dating or marrying such a woman will result in hating your own life.

3.DOESN'T QUESTION YOUR DECISIONS

You're the leader in your relationship and you're supposed to make a lot of decisions. That isn't necessarily easy and it can be stressful a lot. That's why you need to find a woman who WON'T question your decision but will support them.

4.TAKES CARE OF HER BODY

Whoever told you attraction & looks don't matter; they lied to you. She should be working out & taking care of her looks. Because if you lose attraction; you will slowly start to lose interest. And then she will wonder why did you cheat on her.

5.LADY LIKE MANNERS

A Woman who avoids conflicts, doesn't argue in a public spaces, smiles all the time & acts polite? That is what you should look for. There's nothing more repulsive than a woman who acts like a guy, fights with you in front of other people, acts arrogant.

6.SUPPORT

It's expected from you, as a man, that you work on your purpose & future by yourself. But, when you have a woman who supports you? Everything can feel easier. That's why you need to find a woman who will support you in ANYTHING you do.

YOU NEED THEM IN YOUR LIFE

No human being is an island and no tree can make a forest. You need the following sets of people in your life.

1. THE ENCOURAGERS
Even in discouraging situations of life, these people keep you going with encouraging words; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

2. THE HAND LIFTERS
They are those whose hands are strong enough to hold yours up when you are weak; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

3. DESTINY HELPERS
They provide shoulders upon which you ride to fulfilling your dream and destiny; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

4. The GIVERS
These will give you their time, talent, and treasure in your hour of need;
MAY YOU MEET THEM.

5. THE RECOMMENDERS
These are the ones who mention your name in quarters where your skills and talents will be celebrated; MAY YOU MEET THEM?

6. The CORRECTORS
These are the ones who honestly tell you when you are wrong; they prevent you from digging a grave of mistakes that may bury your destiny

7. THE BURDEN BEARERS:
These are those who are ever willing to wipe away tears from your eyes and help you to overcome any loss, crisis or challenge.

Nurture every positive relationship in your life because each good person that comes into your life has a major role to play in your life.

The lizard would like to stand erect, but his tail will not permit him.
Leave alone the past and focus on your future 🙏

Look for your goats when it's still day, if you don't want to cry like them in the night.
TAFAKARI HAYO

Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal.

“One part at a time, one day at a time, we can accomplish any goal we set for ourselves.
A micro step forward if what lifes demand. @

Be wise enough to recognize every opportunity that comes your way. Wisdom is the recognition to pivot and change directions at any given time. A wise man doesn't look for the path to success, he paves it.

Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away. “Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.” “What we think, or what we know, or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence.

Graduating from the university may seem to be success,but overcoming the pressure from the society that comes along,is the ultimate success ,that most of the graduates have succumbed to it.
In one year time ,every folk will have their eyes pinned on you.Your parents would want to see you landing a lucrative job, your uncles would want to see you driving ,while the society would be eagerly waiting for the wedding.
That beautiful wife ,the eye-catching mansion and the glimmering limousine is what they are waiting to see in you to affirm the importance of education.

Graduates,you cannot achieve all that in your twenties.You have to give yourself time ,to grow ,build ,interact and connect.You have to give yourself the space to work.No matter how much you try ,you can never satisfy the desires of a society, that only looks at you from a judgemental point of view. No one has ever made it in life ,without undergoing some cycles of turmoils and tribulations, after all life wouldn't been meaningful without the struggles.Why kill yourselves to prove an ever unsatisfied society ?
I understand that the worst price you can pay to the society is being educated and jobless.But I still affirm that the best price you can give yourself is hope and an ever ending effort of trying.
We HOPE and We KEEP TRYING Because Tomorrow is More Promising than today.💯