We’ve got it BACKWARDS. We think the worst case scenario is failure. So we don’t take action, because what if it doesn’t work, what if we look stupid, what if we fall flat?
But failure isn’t even the worst case scenario!! The worst case scenario is EVERYTHING you want NEVER HAPPENING!! The life you imagine, the work you’re meant to make, the version of you that’s waiting on the other side of action. Gone. Cos you never gave it a shot.
Sit with that for a second.
You’re so busy protecting yourself from one fear that you’re walking straight into another bigger one. The slow ache of a life unlived. The nagging “what if” that follows you around for years.
If you’re going to be afraid anyway, be afraid of the right thing. Let the fear of your best case scenario not happening be louder than the fear of failing. One fear cancels out the other. And then you move. The clock’s ticking on the good stuff too, ok?
What have you been putting off cos you’re scared it won’t work? Tell me below. I’d love to know👇
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Podcast + Life & Business Coaching It is our dream to create a safe, non-competitive space where creative souls can share, learn and grow together.
Where it is okay for us to break down, fall apart and not be judged. Where no one laughs when we fall flat on our faces (or bum bums).
31/05/2026
Ah Mah.
She was always there to hold me. My primary caregiver from the time I was a baby, the one who raised this rascal and somehow still had room in her heart for all the other rascals too.
That’s the thing about her. A whole house full of grandkids, and every single one of us is convinced we’re her favourite. That’s the size of a heart that never once ran out of love.
People ask me how I learned to care so deeply for strangers, how I hold space for people I’ve only just met. I didn’t learn it from a book or a coaching certification.
I learned it from my Ah Mah. Watching, over and over, what unconditional love actually looks like when it’s lived and not just spoken.
Everything I give, I’m only passing on. I’m a mirror of what she showed me was possible.
I owe her everything.
51 today. Today isn’t really about me. It’s about everyone who gave me this life and nourished me along the way. If you’re here, I’m wishing you a bountiful year ahead.💖
Today, Julie’s Biscuits sent flowers. And a handwritten note from their director. I’m still a bit gobsmacked. Full story in the reel. Thank you, Mr. Tzy Horng Sai and the whole Julie’s team. Mum would have loved this.💖
Walked 10 minutes to Subway instead of Grabbing it. Saved S$6.60. Doesn’t sound like much until you do the maths. That’s S$1,700 a year. From one walk. For a sandwich. Turns out I’ve been paying Grab to keep me sedentary. 🥪🚶♂️
First time at Hua Bee. The place has been here for 80+ years. I’ve lived around the corner for five.
Two decades of being a nocturnal entrepreneur will do that to you. You forget breakfast exists.
Celeste took me for early birthday noodles. Cash only. I forgot my cash. She paid anyway. Happy birthday to me, courtesy of a friend with better planning.🤭
The mornings are nice, actually. Who knew.
The crying wasn’t a breakdown. It was information.
Took me about six months after the toilet cubicle to actually hear what my body had been saying.
Anyone else been here? The body knowing first, the brain catching up later. Could be a job, a relationship, anything really.
Drop your version below if you want. I read every one.
twenty years a vampire. sleeping at five am, waking up at three pm, no meetings before three, the whole identity. and now suddenly I’m up before eight. weirdest plot twist of the fitness thing nobody warned me about.
02/05/2026
A quick reintroduction, in crayons.🖍️ I’m Dan. I help creative entrepreneurs be their own boss and build businesses that pay them, fit them, and feel like theirs.
I talk about mindset, marketing, money, relationships, the occasional rabbit hole. I believe freedom beats approval, your voice matters more than your strategy, and love 💖 is genuinely the best business model I’ve ever found.
I love sharing what I learn along the way in business and in life. If any of that sounds like your kind of corner of the internet, HI 👋🏼 . So glad you’re here! 🐰
Why I only eat this brand of Soh Ta Pia.
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