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Yasmeen Iqbal, Tiruchirappalli (2026)

17/08/2022

Do you love your wife?

I know you will say YES.
But that is not the question.
The real question is: does your wife feel loved?
Think about it and keep the answer aside.

When a woman feels loved, she cannot hide it.
The signs appear all over her.
She makes it clear in her speech and in her actions.
She blushes when her man is mentioned.
She hardly completes a conversation without mentioning him.
She develops goosebumps when she sees or holds him.
She loves him more than she loves anyone else.
She rushes to talk to him whenever she needs to talk.
She feels totally safe around him.

When a woman feels loved,
She obeys her husband wholeheartedly.
She treats him like a king without feeling like a servant.
She behaves like a queen without any sign of arrogance.
She defends his honour and protects his property.
She guards him jealously.
She stays with him, no matter what.
She supports him when he is rising and encourages him when he falls.

Dear men, when you love your woman, make sure she feels it.
Say it loud and clear.
Show it openly.
Love the people who matter to her.
Love her aspirations and dreams. Love the things she's passionate about.
If there is anything you don't love about her, tell her and help her change.
Marriage is meant to be laden with love and mercy.
When a woman feels loved, she can move mountains just for you.

"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought".
(Qur'an chapter 30 verse 21)

29/07/2022

𝕋ℍ𝔼 ℙ𝔼ℝ𝔽𝔼ℂ𝕋 ℍ𝕌𝕊𝔹𝔸ℕ𝔻

17/07/2022

8 Important factors that can Insha’Allah strengthen a marriage relationship in Islam!

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Say “Alhamdulillah” for whatever Allah gives us. Accept each other completely. As our Prophet (PBHH) said, if you dislike one of his/her characteristics, you will be pleased with another.

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Our Prophet (PBUH) stressed the importance of men helping their wives. Allah tells us the importance of women being mates and helpers to their husbands. This is a real “win-win” situation. Husband and wife helping and supporting each other will result in a strong relationship.

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They should never expose their secrets to a third person. Prophet (PBUH) said in Sahih Muslim that the most wicked among the people in the eye of Allah on the Day of judgment will be those men who divulges their wife’s secrets to others.

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You get respect when you give respect. This is mandatory for all Muslims toward all people, how much more toward the spouse?

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Our Prophet (PBUH) used to entertain His Wife Ayesha (R.A) and She used to play and race with Him.

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Whoever does not forgive – will not be forgiven. This comes from Allah, Himself. We must learn to forgive each others for a good spouse relationship in Islam.

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Spend time together. Go for walks. Take a bus ride. Visit a friend or someone who is ill (you get big rewards for that). Fast together on Mondays & Thursdays if you can. Make hajj – this is a great way to get a “new start” on life.

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Our Prophet (PBUH) used to lead His Wife in Prayer, even though He lived connected to the mosque. He told us not to make our homes like grave yards. We should offer some of our Sunnah prayers at home.

Tag & Share with your friends because our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “The one who guides to something good has the reward similar to that one doing it.”

May Allah SWT bless all our marriages Aameen.

05/07/2022

A good husband must fulfill a variety of roles; he must be like a father, a mother, and a sibling to his wife.

For she left her father, mother, brothers, sisters for him.

So she should find in him the gentleness of a father, the compassion of a mother, the leniency of a brother and the companionship of a sister.

“He who marries a woman should certainly respect her, because the wife of anyone of you is a means of your happiness, so the one who marries a woman should not spoil or disgrace her by disregarding her respectable rights.”

The value of Women's tears is not easy to understand if your heart is not true, if she ever drops a tear that just shows her husband, that he means more to her then he knows. If you genuinely loved someone, do not decorate his/her eyes with tears, ear with lies, and heart with wounds. So wipe her tears away and make sure she has that permanent smile..

If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worth it.

“A man should be like a child with his wife, but if she needs him, he should act like a man.”

Don't ever neglect when your wife wants to talk or spend her time with you because you are the most comfortable person for her to share everything.

01/07/2022

, Don't worry if you are single. When the right time comes Allah SWT will send your gift to you in unexpected ways. Allah SWT is saving you a perfect match. Insha'Allah. His plans for you is always for the best.

Being single doesn't mean you are weak; it means you are strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.

When people walk away from you...let them go... your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you... and it doesn't mean they are bad people...it just means that their part in your story is over.

Nothing is permanent in this world - not even our troubles. So always have hope.

“In life we all lose one thing or the other; might be a job, relationship etc. It's very normal. But don't grieve over your losses. Why? Because Allah always has a better replacement for them. So whenever you lose something, tell yourself, there's something better waiting for me.”

O'Allah, please make it easy for all our brothers and sisters who are finding it difficult to get married, and remove any burdens from them.
Aameen.

30/06/2022

A short beautiful note, why I wanted to get married?

-Because I want my eyes to see someone special, someone halal, knowing that he/she is my gift from Allah.

-Because I want someone who loves Allah and loves me because he/she loves Allah.

-Because I want somebody to share my happiness and praise Allah with me, someone to cry my tears with me and make dua with me and someone to love and love Allah with me.

-Because I want to have children of my own to love and care and share with a gift from Allah.

-Because I want to share Allah’s beautiful creations and praise His name with someone who Allah has fated to be with me since I was born.

-Because verily, with a halal partner, my life and everything I do with my spouse will be halal in the eyes of Allah completing half my Deen.

-Because I am a gift from Allah to someone, and I want to let him/her feel Allah’s love through me.

“Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and children the coolness to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
[Surah Furqan, verse 74]

28/06/2022

Secrets of your Spouse

1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search: Mostly Women Search for Character of Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of Women so if he find better one he can forget her but if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to forgive her.

Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relation with your spouse 😊

Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤

1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.

Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤

1. Behave like a female, all the tenderness of a female-a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and yells, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! Like don't say, "well her husband doesn't do that, why do you"
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl and ask him to pray with you.

May Allah SWT preserve marriages. Aameen.

27/06/2022

KNOWING HIS WORTH AND RESPECTING IT ♥✨

He is your Husband, the one Allah has chosen for you against all odds.

He is your Mahram, the one Allah has permitted you to love and bears offsprings.

He is your Imam, a leader whom Allah has blessed with the wisdom to guide you and protect you as a woman. To give you the dignity and the respect every woman should posses.

Know his worth and Cherish it💝

Honour your Husband. Obey him and be submissive to him always. On no account should you prioritize anyone or anything more than your Husband, remember to always put Allah first in all your affairs specially your Marriage, follow the teachings of our Noble Prophet Muhammad SAW and every other thing follow suits.

Love your Husband. Cherish him. Appreciate him, and never belittle him no matter how poor or gullible he is. He still remains your Husband and you still remains his wife. ALRIJALU QAWWAMUNA ALAL NISA'E. Don't be fooled into Feminism, it's all scam and a trap set for the shallow minded to lose their focus and ends up losers. Wiseup!

Always give your Husband the respect he deserves. Jannah is the biggest dream of everyone and yours lies in the feet of that Honourable man. Honour your Jannah, pet it, cherish it, polish it, water it, dust it, sprays on it the most beautiful garment of love, trust and Taqwa... Make sure you earn it, don't lose it.

Always be calm and collected. Composed and charming. Never let anyone distract your focus..

Jannah lies in his feet remember!

10/05/2022

ᴛʜᴇ ʙᴇᴀᴜᴛʏ ᴏғ ᴀ ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴ ʟɪᴇs ɪɴ ʜᴇʀ ʙᴇɪɴɢ sᴇɴsɪᴛɪᴠᴇ, ғʀᴀɢɪʟᴇ, ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟ, ᴀɴᴅ sᴇᴇᴋɪɴɢ ᴀᴛᴛᴇɴᴛɪᴏɴ.

𝙼𝚎𝚊𝚗𝚒𝚗𝚐 : 𝙽𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝙰𝚋𝚞 𝙷𝚞𝚛𝚊𝚢𝚛𝚊𝚑, 𝚁𝚊𝚜𝚞𝚕𝚞𝚕𝚕𝚊𝚑 ﷺ 𝚜𝚊𝚒𝚍 : 𝚃𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗 𝚗𝚒𝚌𝚎𝚕𝚢, 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚊 𝚠𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗 𝚒𝚜 𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚊 𝚛𝚒𝚋, 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚌𝚞𝚛𝚟𝚎𝚍 𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚛𝚒𝚋 𝚒𝚜 𝚒𝚝𝚜 𝚞𝚙𝚙𝚎𝚛 𝚙𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗, 𝚜𝚘, 𝚒𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚕𝚍 𝚝𝚛𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚒𝚝, 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚋𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚔, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝚒𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚕𝚎𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚒𝚝 𝚊𝚜 𝚒𝚝 𝚒𝚜, 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚛𝚎𝚖𝚊𝚒𝚗 𝚌𝚛𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚍.

The hadith in which the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) likened a woman to a rib and advised the man to “enjoy her with her crookedness” and not try to straighten her, is not meant to degrade her; rather, the man is being encouraged to appreciate the fact that she is created differently from him, and thus naturally more sensitive and emotional, so he should handle her with care. Her sensitive nature may seem crooked to a man, but that is what makes her a woman and beautiful – similar to a rib whose beauty and well-being lies in it being crooked. Furthermore, the husband is being reminded that, just as a rib snaps if straightened, it would be wrong and foolish of him to try and mould his wife into being like him. As such, to say a woman is sensitive or attention-seeker is not a criticism, rather it is describing beautiful feminine characteristics. Without such feminine attributes, she loses her beauty.

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