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16/07/2016

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13/06/2016

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08/02/2016

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11/01/2016

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10/01/2016

How to Handle the Digital Stress and Distractions: 10 Small Habits

09/01/2016

Cockroach Theory
A beautiful speech by Sundar Pichai - an IIT-MIT Alumnus :
The cockroach theory for self development

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear.

With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to understand............LIFE.

Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!

09/01/2016

"When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete,
everybody will respect you."
Lao Tzu

Hi!

One destructive habit is to constantly compare your life and yourself to other
people and their lives.

You compare cars, houses, jobs, shoes, money, relationships, social popularity
and so on.

And at the end of the day you create a lot of negative feelings within. And perhaps
also outside of yourself.

But how can you stop doing it? Or at least get control of it and use it in a better
way? Well, here are five tips that have helped me.

1. Be kind.

The way you behave and think towards others seems to have a big, big effect on
how you behave towards yourself and think about yourself.

Judge people more and you tend to judge yourself more. Be more kind to other
people and help them and you tend to be more kind and helpful to yourself.

A bit counter intuitive perhaps, but that has been my experience. The more you
love other people, the more your love yourself.

So focus your mind on helping people and being kind. This is very helpful to move
away from judging yourself and others so much. And instead focus on the positive
things in yourself and the people around you.

You become more OK with yourself and the people in your world instead of
ranking them and yourself and creating differences in your mind.

You are OK and so are they.

2. Don't fall into the trap of hero worship.

When you start to make myths out of people - even though they may have
produced extraordinary results - you run the risk of becoming disconnected from
them.

You can start to feel like you could never achieve similar things that they did
because they are so very different. So it's important to keep in mind that everyone
is just a human being no matter who they are.

When you have some heroes you are likely to think more about the opposite too.
And place people into neat and tidy folders. You may create villain-like images of
people in your world.

But in truth, things can be kinda messy. Putting someone on a pedestal or making
a villain out of them create barriers in your head and life. It may give you a sense
of being right. But it can hold you back from positive experiences too.

Openness is in the long run more fun than being judgmental.

3. Just realize that you can't win.

Just consciously realizing this can be helpful. No matter what you do you can
pretty much always find someone else in the world that has more than you or are
better than you at something.

Yes, you may feel good for a while when you get a nicer car than you neighbor. But
a week or two later you'll see someone from the next block with an even finer car
than yours.

4. Give up both sides of comparing.

If you can't stop doing the negative comparisons then stop doing them both.
Because if you're in the headspace where you compare to feel better about
yourself then it's hard to stop it and not also start to compare in way that make
you feel worse and inferior.

So you may need to step out of that whole comparing habit because the two sides
are often connected. Give up the upside to be able to move away from the
downside.

5. Compare yourself to yourself.

Instead of comparing yourself to other people create the habit of comparing
yourself to yourself. See how much you have grown, what you have achieved and
what progress you have made towards your goals.

This habit has the benefit of creating gratitude, appreciation and kindness
towards yourself as you observe how far you have come, the obstacles you have
overcome and the good stuff you have done. You feel good about yourself without
having to think less of other people.

Have a great and self-kind day!