14/07/2014
The latest hype among college students seems to be The Fault in Our Stars, a best-selling book turned blockbuster film.
So what's this hype about?
Here are some of the lessons The Fault In Our Stars teaches college students about life:
1. Stop demanding answers and start living in the questions.
Especially as college students, we live for a greater unknown that is our future. Though TFIOS may showcase a more precarious “what if?” — one of life and death, love and loss — we still understand the struggle of a looming “what’s next?” in our lives.
As we start to make more decisions for ourselves, answers may not be apparent immediately and it may be long before we reach our goals. Like Hazel and Gus, who also have an ominous question mark looming above their futures, we must learn to fully embrace the uncertainties of what lies ahead.
2. Live in the moment.
Because the future always remains an enigma, we must cherish the time spent with people in our present. As Hazel beautifully acknowledges, “some infinities are bigger than other infinities.” Sometimes we are spontaneously given more or less time with people we care about deeply.
Hazel is given a smaller “infinity” with Gus. We are given four short years with people we will call our lifelong friends, and we must make the most of it.
3. Be happy with your place in this world.
Simply as John Green originally wrote, “The world is not a wish-granting factory.”
There will always be a “bigger and better” out there, and there is no reason we cannot optimistically aspire for loftier goals. In certain situations though, there will come a time when we must be happy with “enough” — an appreciation for all that we do have, rather than a dejection of the life we’ve been given.
Some predicaments are harder than others — some people must battle cancer, and others must struggle through their studies in school. We all must face the harsh truths we’ve been handed in this world.
4. Go for the risk.
Some opportunities are genuinely what they call “once in a lifetime.” Some friendships change our lives. Some risks will be worth the sacrifice.
As Gus tells us, “Oblivion is inevitable,” so we must take those risks for the possibility that something greater may be in store. For our fears about traveling far away from our hometowns, our qualms about taking certain internships or opportunities, often just “doing it” will lead us to a surprise upturn.
Courtesy: college.usatoday.com