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Does a husband n wife’s relation change after kids ?

The answer is yes it changes considerably in a way that ur kid is always around n the couple hardly get time to chill or hang out with each other!

It requires support from other people, play areas n obviously it’s the parents who need to ask for help from others to babysit their kids so that they could spend some time together!

Also the kids need to be trained n made understood that if he stays away from his parents for a while it’s ok. N he is just being away for some time!

Communication with the children is the key ! N I believe they really understand if u request a favour out of them ! 😊
Happy parenting!

Some places are just magical 🧙‍♀️

They make u feel so small in this world 🌎 no amount of worries seem bigger cuz we n are worries are a just a tiny part of this beautiful nature !

Reflecting my inner self here ! Also creating memories that can never fade away n would hopefully become my adventure go to story to tell my grand kids 😆😍

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Pc :

Why do dads have less pictures with their kids ?

Cuz possibly they are the ones clicking pictures of their kids with moms ( holds true atleast in my case) 😄😍

Should kids always be scared of their dads ? The answer is NO

But still@they are or atleast they see them in awe possibly because they spend major time of their day with their moms n so feel less comfortable in opening up to their dads !

Fatherhood is often underrated cuz they hardly express but that doesn’t mean we should glorify dads doing basic parenting duties.

It’s not baby sitting which they might be doing in some peoples eyes , it’s called equal parenting. If they change diapers, play with kids , take them to parks or even make their formula milk it’s their duty n not an option.

Fathers are a very important part of our childhood. Mother’s expect their husbands somewhat to be like their dads cuz they have grown up seeing someone as perfect so thy have an example set in front of their eyes 👀

Comparison makes a relation weak totally agreed. But I feel fathers should change with times and even have to take part in parenting. This way thy ll achieve a stronger bond with their kids . Swipe to see the best pic 😉

Comment below have u ever compared ur husband with ur father ?

Why am I posting this picture??
Because moms often spend hours preparing meals but when it comes to eat … they either find no time or find limited time to jus sit n finish their meal 🥘

Seldom does any mom sits in peace without being distracted by kids for eating meals at home or outside.

Here also u can see Siddy boy holding my arm to listen to him but I was determined to get that damn pic !

N also eat it out 😃😃😃

So this is a reminder to all moms to go n grab your meal 🥘 first and then do remaining jobs cuz u can’t serve from an empty cup ?!

Take care of yourself first so that u are able to look after family .
P.c—

This Mother’s Day let’s ask ourselves do we judge other mothers for asking help ??
We often tell new mothers to ask for help if they need any ( physical n mental ) but when they do we are sure to judge them .

If a mother appoints a cook to help her with meal making in the kitchen the entire neighbourhood thinks she has no other work in the house 🏡 since her cook does the major work.

If a mother appoints a nanny to look after her kids so that she can better focus on other work ..the family n society are quick to say — Wow the nanny is raising her kids - she need not worry .

But let me tell u one thing today n that is the amount of mental preparedness a mother needs to assign her duties / chores to maids or cook or Nanny is huge . Also they need to be trained by a mom according to her n family’s needs and this job of giving training also always rests on the MOTHER.

So while others are happy to think that a mothers job is lightened with these house helps ( cook / maid / nanny ) let me tell u that mom is still doubting her decision of doing so in her head only for fear of being judged.
- [ ] So let’s just remember that all a mother ever needs is help cuz she might be mentally tired of completing the to do lists .
- [ ] Happiest Mother’s Day to all the mothers !! 🥰🥰

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