06/04/2019
Isha Shree presents:
'Key to Happiness.'
Key to Happiness & Key to Success
Key to Happiness ( for adults) & Key to Success ( for teenager / adolescent students) Key to Happiness: Date: 27th April in Nashik Time: 3:00 to 5:00 PM We, ...
05/04/2019
'Key to Happiness' on 27th April 2019.
12/03/2019
I feel necessary to write this because I was invited by Amrutvahini college on international Women's Day to conduct a session on empowering women to be happy and successful in life and I gathered few problems of female. Also I have experienced relationship problems and from my mentees and also for my YouTube channel 'QuickFix through Bhagavad Gita', I have received maximum questions on relationship problems. All this made me write this:
And I want to say this to all the girls and women that we don't need men to complete us. Please don't misunderstand me because I am not against men and in fact, I feel that men are an important part of the society just as women are. I don't understand why men and women are treated as different species when we are one, only with some biological difference majorly for a purpose. But this society places too much of a premium on women being attached to a man for their identity; at first the father and then the husband and then the son. Please know and understand that NO ONE is more important than YOU in this world. We have to first understand that the most important relationship is the one which we have with ourselves. And no one will ever be able to make you happy if you are not happy with yourself. It doesn't mean that you have to be alone to prove a point. It means you should understand the difference between wanting someone in your life and needing someone in your life. It is better to be single than to be in an unhealthy and unhappy relationship. You have the right to be happy and healthy and you should be, you deserve to be. And you should execute your right and do anything which is necessary for you to be happy and healthy provided you are not intentionally harming anyone else. Too many women hang on to abusive partners and unhappy relationships because they are afraid of being alone. Because society judges and labels single women and blames also only women. Remember Sita & Draupadi? But also understand that what people say doesn't matter. Don't be affected by log kya Kahenge (LKK) factor. The more you get tortured and victimized, the more strength you get; IF YOU CHOSE. Because life is like an arrow, it needs to be pulled back so that it can go ahead. And the more it is pulled back, the more it will go ahead with more force and more speed. So just think of it as a passing phase and I can guarantee you that positive thinking, being strong and the willingness will get you what you want.
Divorced men are more easily accepted in the society then divorced or single women but WE ARE THE CHANGE. We are as much as anyone else in the society and nothing of this will matter if we feel complete by ourselves. Being single is not a big deal anymore. Know that you are not the only one and you are not alone. Everyone in a way is alone at the end of the life. It's better and a blessing that we have got to know now that we are alone. And being alone is not loneliness but it's solitude; it is enjoying being with ourselves and finding ourselves within us.
So love yourself because you deserve all that wonderful love which life has to give you because you are just beautiful the way that you are.
Be happy, be yourself, be free, be Isha Shree,
Manju Rathi. 😊