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YOUR ATTITUDE NOT YOUR APTITUDE WILL DETERMINE YOUR ALTITUDE

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In this video I have spoken about how you would be able to experience true Self-awareness when you go beyond just taking an action randomly and try to get behind the emotions you are experiencing. This will give you the wisdom to understand the benefit of even a negative emotion you are experience. When you have that kind of knowledge, you experience true self-awareness.

Workshop on Emotional Intelligence - 15 & 16 Feb 2020 at Hotel Oakland Plaza, Nehru Enclave, New Delhi.

When a group of 21 Business / Life Coaches, NLP Coaches / Hr Professionals / Soft Skills Trainers / Image Consultant / Entrepreneurs / Businessmen come together and share uninhibitedly, the energy in the workshop is bound to be high.

Experienced all kinds of emotions during the 2 day workshop.

Thank you Asif Ebrahim for organizing the workshop and allowing me to conducting it. It would not have been possible without your support. Gratitude.

Gratitude also to the Divine and all the participants.

Here are a few pics...

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Wednesday Wisdom on Self-Awareness

Unreal means something that does not exist independently and Real is what exists independent of anything else.

What is it that exists independently?

Cold and heat, for example, do not exist independently because they depend upon a number of factors. There is no absolute cold existing by itself. That something is cold depends upon something else. The temperature cannot reveal itself to you by itself unless you have a perception. Therefore, your perception is essential in order to understand that something is cold and something else is hot.

When you say, 'This is a pot,' does the word 'pot' reveal an object that exists by itself or does the object indicated by the word 'pot' depend for its existence upon something else? If it depends on something else, clay, because of which the pot is there and unto which it will go back, that clay becomes the cause or the "karana", for the pot. The word 'pot' has no real object outside of the word itself; it has no existence apart from
clay. That which has a cause, that which depends upon something for its existence, that which does not independently exist, is called "Unreal".

We can summarise “Self Awareness” as that awareness which exists in all three periods of time, which is eternal,unchanging, and imperishable.

This “Self” is called differently by different people as “Consciousness, Truth, Ultimate truth, Reality, etc., etc.

It is there in every individual. But he does not know of its presence within. He has to be told about it by a wise man, or one who has realized the presence of this Awareness. This Awareness cannot be taught. The wise man can facilitate it.
Emotional Intelligence makes one aware of this faculty within oneself. Yes, it is difficult to experience this Awareness..!..But it is not impossible...

It requires practice, and a will to practice.

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EI is the foundation for Critical Skills

How to use Emotional Intelligence to deal with tricky negotiators:

1. Exaggerated Bluff “You can’t be serious!!!”
2. The Invisible Competition “Your competitor quoted lower.”
3. No-way Jose “It’s against our organization policy.”
4. Salami (a thin slice at a time)
5. Deadline Dilemma (using delays and deadlines)
6. Blowing Hot and Cold (Initial enthusiasm, sudden cooling off)
7. “I don’t have the authority.” (need to refer to the decision maker)
8. All Change (new faces, predecessor had “no authority”)
9. Raising the Roof (each concession followed by a raised demand)
10. Over My Dead Body -refusal/preconditions

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Facilitated A Session titled "Introduction to the Art of Facilitative Leadership" at Vego Home Science Pvt. Ltd. on 6 October 2018. Wonderful experience. Processes used:

1. Check In
2. Image Introduction
3. World Cafe and Ambassador Sharing
4. Process 35

16 participants including the CEO and the Owner also attended the session. Was extremely well received. Sharing a collage of a few pics here.