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Medical Friendship is unique like No other…
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MEDICAL FRIENDSHIP: 👇🏼

Mommy, Is Rishi Uncle your rakhi brother?? My elder one asks me !

No sweetie...!

OK Is he your platonic friend then ??

No sweetheart, he's momma's Medical Friend!!!

So what's a Medical Friend momma ??

You might not know this but your papa and Jaya aunty will totally relate to it, since they both are medicos!!!
Let me try to elaborate....

Medical Friendship is for life long. Every where !!

Since medical College life of 5 years is one of the toughest to navigate, friendships formed during these formative years remain for life.

Dissection Hall friendships are unique and unbreakable.
Later amongst enormous load of studies, ward duties, living with each other for 5 years in ups and downs forms a bond which no other profession can boast off....!

You learn to go through good and bad phases of your medical life with the support of these friends. They know you through your lowest point!!

Also the special thing about medical friendship is it, being unisex, means both boys and girls are your equal friends…!!
Medical studies and life does not differentiate between sexes. A male and a female can be a great medical friend !!

And this medical friendship can be tested in later part of life.

Once a batchmate, always a batchmate aka medical friend.

And when you meet them after 25yrs, 50 years, 60 years or so in your silver jubilee, golden Jubilee , Diamond Jubilee etc… you meet them at the same level as you were in college.

No matter he is a Group Captain in Air Force today, or a big shot Cardiologist or a Nephrologist etc etc. You still use expletives for them and open your hearts and hug them without comparing. You get rejuvinated after meeting them and it is most cathartic for you. But you need to be a medico to realise the depth of this unique relationship!!

યોગ્ય સમયની રાહ જોવાનું બંધ કરો
સમય તમારી રાહ જોતો નથી..
જ્યારે આપણને ખ્યાલ આવે કે એક સરસ દિવસ આપણે મરી જવાના છીએ અને તે ક્યારે આવશે તે તમે જાણતા નથી, તમારી પાસે જે છે તે "હવે" છે તમારા લક્ષ્યોમાં વિલંબ કરશો નહીં..

Stop waiting for right time
The time is not waiting for you ..
When we realise that one fine day we are going to die & you don’t know when it will be , All that you have is “now” Don’t delay your goals..

PLEASE READ WITHOUT FAIL

A Good Doctor’s Daughter*
©️ Dr. Rajas Deshpande

We sat inside her home, not able to speak. It was a Sunday. The doorbell rang. My classmate Siya looked at me, indicating with her eyes to please answer it.

Siya had lost her father that early morning. We had just finished the last rites and returned with that feeling of emptiness of life which prevails at such moments.

Her father was a successful pediatrician, known for his excellent diagnosis and humanitarian approach. He had passed away at a very early age due to a rare cancer. He had kept working till the day he was admitted. His devastated family was staring at a long dark tunnel.

I went and opened the door.

“Doctorsaab hai kya? (Is the doctor home?)” asked a man in his thirties. Behind him were his wife and a son, about ten years old.

“No” I replied, but his wife immediately said: “Please, my son is his patient since last ten years, he has fever since last three days, we must meet the doctor”.

I requested him to please clear the door, shut it behind myself, and whispered to him: “Doctorsaab passed away early this morning”.

They looked at each other.
“How?” the husband asked.

“He had a cancer, he had some sudden complication” I replied.

After a pause. The husband asked “ Can you suggest some good pediatrician nearby?”

I did, and they went away.

There was no word of feeling sorry for the doctor who had treated their son for ten years. Not even a formal gesture of condolence. Their child wasn’t very sick either, to skip the basic courtesy. For the next few days, I was at their place on and off, and somehow expected that man to return to express some form of condolence or gratitude. It never happened.

Then over a period of years, the truth gradually dawned: that this is normal. No one comes back to ask a dead or retired doctor’s family if they need any help.

Another young colleague of mine, a diabetologist, passed away recently. He had done phenomenal social work, treating many patients free, and even arranging for many patients' education. Every time he referred a poor patient to me, he called up, requested me to see the patient free. We all gladly did. We had many common patients who followed up later with me, after his death. Unfortunately none of the patients who he had called about ever expressed anything beyond “He was a good doctor. Now I go to this doctor”.

I wonder how many of these patients will ever realize that every time this doctor had seen them free, he had taken a share of what his own children would have inherited, and given it to that patient.

I am a fan of Ayn Rand. I believe that it is nobody’s duty to help me, and that I should rely only upon myself. But unless this stands on both sides, it becomes meaningless. While the expectations from every doctor are expressed in heaps, when it comes to rewarding the good results “blessings, satisfaction of saving a life and good wishes” are conveniently considered enough. I sincerely doubt whether the future generations of doctors will be able to buy their petrol with blessings and satisfaction.

Why is the compulsion of “courteous, polite speaking” only applied to the doctors? Why cannot our society learn the same? The idiotic claim (often supported by some media legal officers) that ‘a patient is in distress and so doctors must accept the anger, impolite behavior, violence or abuse’ is so stupid and meaningless! Will a judge ever accept such reactions by an angry criminal? By the way, if the patient is stressed, is the doctor also not stressed for years? Is the doctor then allowed to misbehave? If the doctors can learn courtesy, why cannot others?

It is so funny that even the great politicians who keep on throwing mud and blood upon each other, use language of threats in public day in and day out, advise doctors about how they should learn courtesy, humanity and communication.

Siya has now become a successful practitioner. After her father's death, she wasn’t helped by the government, society or the patients that her father treated. The family had to compromise a lot to complete education of all the sibs.Yet she became an excellent doctor by her own wish, her own conviction and continues to be praised by her patients for her conduct, curing capacity….etc. After all, she is a good doctor’s daughter !

But her smile, when her patient compliments her, is hollow.

©️ Dr. Rajas Deshpande
Truth of a Dr’s life

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*‘બે જણને જોઈએ કેટલું?’*

દિકરી ને જમાઇ લઈ ગયા
અને
દિકરાને વહુ લઈ ગઈ.
અંતે તો
આપણે બે જ રહ્યા.

એક છાપું,એક દૂધની થેલી ને
રોજ એક માટલું પાણી,
બઉ થ્યું.
ચા-ખાંડના ડબ્બા,
કોફીની ડબ્બી પણ
માંડ ખાલી થાય.

‘કોલગેટ’ દોઢ મહિનો ચાલે ને
મહિનો ચાલે એંશી ગ્રામ
લક્સની એક ગોટી.

સો ગ્રામ શેમ્પુ તો કાઢ્યું ન ખૂટે.
જમવામાં શાક હોય તો
દાળ વિના ચાલે
ને ફક્ત દાળ હોય
તોય ભયોભયો!

ખીચડી એટલે
બત્રીસ પકવાન ને
છાશ હોય પછી જોઈએ શું!
‘સો ફ્લાવર, ત્રણસો દૂધી,
અઢીસો બટાકા,
ચાર પણી ભાજી,
આદુ-લીંબુ-ધાણા’
થ્યું અઠવાડિયાનું શાક.
ત્રણ મણ ઘઉં વરસ દિ’ ચાલે ને
પાચ કિલો ચોખા
નાખ-નાખ થાય!
ન કોઈ ખાસ મળવા આવે
પછી મુખવાસનું શું કામ!

નાની તપેલી, નાની વાડકી,
નાની બે થાળી, આમ
આઠ-દસ વાસણો માંડ વપરાય
તે એક ‘વિમ’ બે દોઢ મહિને
માંડ ઘસાય.

વળી રોજ ધોવામાં હોય
ચાર કપડાં
તે કિલો ‘નિરમા’
મહિને કાઢ્યો ન ખૂટે!

કોપરેલની એક શીશી
એક મહિનો ચાલે ને
પફ-પાવડર તો
ગ્યાં ક્યારના ભૂલાઈ...?

પણ પ્રેમ, સ્નેહ, વાત્સલ્ય,
આપો એટલાં ઓછા.
ઠસોઠસ હસાહસી ને ‘હોહા’ તો
લાવ લાવ થાય.

એટલે જ પ્રેમ અને સ્નેહ લઈને
બધાં
બે-ત્રણ વરસે ઊડીને આવે.
‘ઝટ્ટ આવશું, જરૂર આવશું’
કહી જાય.
તે પલકારામાં બે જણ
પાછાં હતાં એવાં થઇ જાય.

પછી પાછી
ઈ જ રટણ પડઘાય,
‘બે જણને જોઈએ કેટલું?’

દિકરીને જમાઇ લઈ ગયા
અને દિકરાને વહુ લઈ ગઈ.
અંતે તો આપણે બે જ રહ્યા.

💕💘💕

આજનુ સનાતન સત્ય. ...
ઘર ઘરની કહાણી. ..

*25 RULES TO BE OLD AND HAPPY*

*01-* Don't get involved in your children's lives.

*02-* Do not interfere with the education of grandchildren.

*03-* Love or at least tolerate your son-in-law and daughter-in-law, it was your son or daughter’s choice.

*04-* Never take sides or give your opinion on their marriage.

*05-* Don't make yourself an elderly complainer.

*06-* Don't be an elderly person feeling sorry for yourself.

*07-* Don't get attached *TO YOUR TIME,* it has passed.

*08-* Have plans for the future.

*09-* Don't talk about illnesses. Rest assured, nobody wants to know.

*10-* No matter how much you earn, save a portion every month.

*11-* Don't procrastinate. There is not much time left.

*12-* Have a health plan or save money for medical expenses.

*13-* Save money for the funeral or have a plan for that purpose.

*14-* Don't leave "problems" for your children.

*15-* Don't stay connected to the news or politics, *after all, you won't solve anything anyway*.

*16-* Only watch TV to have fun, not to be stressed.

*17-* If you like, have a pet to keep you occupied.

*18-* When you get up: walk, cook, sew, garden, but don't stand still and wait for death.

*19-* ​​Be a clean and non-smelling old man/woman.

*20-* Have joy for being old, many have already stayed along the way.

*21-* Have a house where everyone wants to go and not stay away. That just depends on you.

*22-* Use age as a bridge to the future and never a ladder to the past.
For the bridge of the future you will always have company.

*23-* Remember: it's better to leave good memories than regrets.

*24-* Have fun. Smile and make smile. A smile makes anyone's day better.

Finally,
*25-* Don't leave "that what pleases you for tomorrow, it might be too late!

*BE HAPPY!* HUGS!

🤔 Forward to another elderly person or group of them. Author unknown
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