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STD stands for S*xually Transmitted Disease, which is a disease that is spread through s*xual behavior like va**nal in*******se, oral s*x, a**l s*x or sometimes intimate skin-to-skin contact. Some types of STDs are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Herpes, HPV and HIV.
There is no way to know for sure without being tested. Many STDs don’t have obvious symptoms.
About 1 out of 4 young adults have an STD.
It could be even more because many people who are infected don’t realize it.

There are many things you can do to reduce your chances of getting an STD.

• Be faithful. Have s*x with only one other person whom you trust. Having s*xual contact only with someone who is not infected means that you won’t get an STD from them and they won’t get one from you.
• Use condoms. Used correctly every time you have s*x, latex or polyurethane condoms can be very good protection against many STDs.
• Have fewer partners. The more people you have s*x with, the greater your chances of getting an STD. Go with new partners to get tested.
• Don’t mix drugs and alcohol with s*x. Getting drunk or high can affect your ability to make smart decisions about s*x.
• Don’t use IV street drugs and never share needles. Many STDs are transmitted through blood.
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*S*x education is a key step to eradicate r**e culture.:-*
R**e culture is defined as “an environment in which r**e is prevalent and in which s*xual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture.”
Young men in India mature and develop in a male-dominated environment, with little or no s*x education. And in rural areas, with very little contact with female peers after puberty. Together, this leads to misdirected masculinity, characterised by male s*xual dominance and unequal gender attitudes and behaviour. Differences in gender roles intensify during adolescence when boys enjoy new privileges reserved only for men – such as autonomy, mobility, opportunity, and power. Whereas girls have to start enduring restrictions. Their parents curtail their mobility, monitor their interactions with males and in some cases even withdraw them from school. This is why India is in great need of comprehensive s*xuality education or modules focusing on s*xual violence and exploitation awareness.S*x education should, at minimum, educate students about medically-accurate anatomy and diseases. Girls should no longer implicitly or explicitly learn that they are responsible for male actions, that their voices are not equal, or that their gender defines their power. Boys should learn to respect boundaries and seek consent before any physical encounter. Additionally, all s*xes should be taught that traditional gender roles do not define them or others. Boys and girls should learn to universally respect others, their wishes, and their bodies. R**e culture does not begin or end with adults but rather with how we educate our children. R**e culture will prevail if children continue to learn that a survivor’s assault can be excused by what actions they did or did not take. However, the end of r**e culture will begin when our children learn to respect all genders and their boundaries, and to communicate their needs and dislikes. Therefore, an effective comprehensive s*x education would greatly help to end the current pervasive r**e culture we see and experience today.
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Lack of S*X education leads to? Kid’s find their way to know about ‘s*x’ from P**N.
Po*******hy exists within a broader sociocultural context in which stereotypes about gender, s*xism, s*xual objectification and violence-supportive attitudes are also at play
A recent survey says that an alarming number of children aged 12 to 13 are addicted to online p**n. Po*******hy addiction in kids usually starts when kids spend too much time in front of the computer unmonitored.It starts of as a curiosity which becomes a habit.A major cause of p**n addiction in children is peer pressure. No influence in a teenager’s life is as powerful as that of a peer. Peer pressure can impair good judgment and fuel risk-taking behavior, drawing a child away from the family and positive influences and luring him into dangerous activities. The more the child is comfortable with his/her identity, the less susceptible he/she will be towards peer pressure. Po*******hy can have adverse impact on kids. Knowing about s*x through p**nography can damage a young mind and gives them an unhealthy idea about s*x. When they grow up they expect their s*x life to be similar to the p**nography that they watch. Exposure to p**n may also incite children to act out s*xually against other children. Children often imitate what they've seen, read, or heard. Studies suggest that exposure to p**nography can prompt kids to act out s*xually against younger, smaller, and more vulnerable children.The most important thing for parents is to be open about the topic of p**n and s*x, they should be free to discuss and bring the topic out with their children. They can ask questions such as “Have you ever seen p**n, when did you start, why do you watch it?” if their children are watching p**n, parents should not overreact; they should take responsibility of the act and try to figure out solutions.



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We are a species obsessed with s*x, and a lot of that comes down to our natural instincts and desire to connect. This s*xual intimacy can come fraught with problems, however, especially when we pressure our partners or otherwise ask too much of them.Not every person shares our s*xual desires, and not everyone we choose to build our lives with will always be able to match our s*xual drive. We have to learn to meet our partners in the middle and come to see s*x as an important expression of intimacy between one partner and another. Start expressing your needs openly and let your partner do the same. Don’t push them in directions they don’t want to go.Not every person shares our s*xual desires, and not everyone we choose to build our lives with will always be able to match our s*xual drive. We have to learn to meet our partners in the middle and come to see s*x as an important expression of intimacy between one partner and another. We can put pressure on our partners without even realizing it, and this can lead to some serious complications in our relationships and the way we relate to one another. Whether the pressure is intentional or not makes no difference; if one partner feels as though they “have” to be intimate, the line has already been crossed. That’s because intimacy isn’t about a zero-sum game.Entitlement is the gate key to abuse and narcissism alike, and one of the most common ways by which we might pressure our partners into giving in to us s*xually. Entitlement is abusive, harmful and wrong — no matter what way you look at it.Self-centered people and narcissists don’t care about the needs of others, and that includes the intimate relationships they share with their partners behind closed doors.Self-centered people and narcissists don’t care about the needs of others, and that includes the intimate relationships they share with their partners behind closed doors.Some people believe that all relationships fall into certain dynamics. These dynamics can be the result of personal choices, or they can result of the outward pressure of things like society or religion.


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• Coercion!
Coercion might seem obvious to most people.The most obvious form of coercion is actual violence and force. S*xual coercion is an unwanted s*xual activity that happens after being pressured in a non physical too. Having s*x without your consent is actually assault. S*xual coercion is most likely to happen with someone you already have some type of relationship with.
If you are pressured into a s*xual activity, that maybe a type of s*xual assault and it maybe against the law. S*xual coercion is not your fault. If you are feeling pressured to do something you don't want to do,speak up and fight against it.
• Cooperation!
What does it mean to say to someone, “Touch me?” To tell them exactly how you want to be kissed, licked, petted? Or to tell them just what it is you want to do with them? For one thing, it means that you are
taking the bull, as it were, by the horns. You’re letting your lover—
and yourself—know what you’re looking for, rather than leaving it
up to the imagination. You’re giving them explicit instructions and
thereby saying “yes” so loudly, they have to hear you. But we do everyone a service when we recognize that cooperation
is not simply a legal term, and should encompass more than simply yes or no. Say a woman agrees to have s*x with her boyfriend, fully
giving legal consent, but really she’d rather be off with her friends or at home in front of the TV. She agrees because it’s what’s expected, their routine. She’s bored, and he might as well be having s*x with
himself. Or maybe she doesn’t like having the same kind of s*x they always have, but doesn’t know how to bring up her own fantasies.
• Consent…
Choosing s*xual in*******se with a partner is an important decision that should not be made lightly. If you are choosing to have in*******se because you feel social pressure to do so (from your partner, friends or anyone), this is not a good reason. The decision to have s*xual in*******se (and all other kinds of s*x play and touch, for that matter) should come from within you—from your desire to be intimate with someone who feels the same way about you. Trust yourself to know when the time is right. *xedforall **e

Slut shamming?

Whether it’s a gang of girls speaking in hushed voices or a bunch of entitled guys name-calling and labelling women. Be it the aunties piling their gaze with judgement. Slut-shaming is everywhere and there is no way to escape it. Being in a relationship, flirting, hooking up for casual s*x; the moment a woman walks away from the norms of society she becomes vulnerable to the slt stigma.


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"Parents talking about s*x education."

•If parents do not teach the children about s*x and s*xuality ,then they will learn about from somewhere else and on opportunity to instill family values may be missed. Curiosity about the s*x is a natural step from learning about the body. S*x education helps kids feel positive about their body parts.

•Discussing s*x is also part of starting open communication with your child. Early,honest and open communication between parents and kids is very important, especially when your child becomes an adolescent.If open communication is normal,kids are more likely to speak with parents about all the other trails of adolescence,such as anxiety , depression , relationships, as well as s*xual issues.

•In India Parents just don't look at their children as s*xual beings and vice versa. While in rural areas of India or conservative families a dialogue around s*x may not even be an option. It important for the parents to talk about it because they can know about the children problems they face.





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Virginity!

“India’s obsession with ‘purity’ could be the reason for this mentality. Virginity is interlinked with purity in our indian psyche and sita having to prove her ‘purity’ is an example of how deep rooted the mind set is in our culture. Men also tend to view s*x as a way of claiming ownership over a woman.” As far as parenting goes, once a girl attains puberty, virginity feels like an elephant in the room. Something every parent wants to acknowledge and protect but doesn’t want to address and strangely it extends to girl child. Women’s expression of their s*xuality is an issue balancing on a thin line. While promiscuity is extolled among men and worn on their sleeve with much pride, women are slut-shamed for the same, highlighting the double standard.


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• 5-8 years old

Try to answer their questions as honestly and matter-of-facts as possible. Ask them ‘what do you think?’ – this helps you to work out what they already know and what they want to know. Make sure that you give them enough information so that they don’t make wrong conclusions. Check that they have understood what you have said and to see if they have any more questions.
Some kids don’t ask questions, which means that it is up to you to start the conversation. You can do this by looking for everyday opportunities to start a conversation.
Parents often tell children about ways to keep themselves safe: Among them is talking about s*xual abuse.
And many parents delay talking to their kids about inappropriate touching.
It is important for the kids to understand about the appropriate touch.
Parents should not force their kids for any physical contact(a hug also) with any family member or anyone bcoz kids may feel uncomfortable at different times for different reasons.
Preach then about good touch and bad touch;
Safe (good) touches feel caring, like pats on the back or wanted hugs. Unsafe (or bad) touches hurt your body or feelings, such as pinching or hitting. Children should know it’s ok to say *"NO"* to everybody.

• 9-12 years old

This age is full of emotional and social changes, and girls in particular may struggle with body issues. Parents should check in with their children about how they’re feeling and what they’re wondering about. “At this age, it’s really just emphasizing over and over again that it’s normal,” when it comes to how their bodies are changing. Something else you want to normalize is safe s*x. “By 11, you want to start having conversations about s*xual choices and safer s*x." Since this age group generally has more freedom online, it’s a good idea to periodically chat about internet safety and to build on your already established digital rules and values. For example, talk frankly about how sharing n**e or s*xually explicit photos of themselves or their peers may be illegal. “They could be charged with making or distributing child p**nography.”

• Teens

This is the last chance for the parents to talk to their kids about s*x education because the kids at this age rely mostly on their friends for the answers and the information. Adolescence is when s*x education really starts to get s*xual!
There are many topics to discuss with them such as dating, contraception,when to have s*x and how to say 'no'.
At this age children should receive more detailed information about the menstruation and different changes in their body and should know that they are normal and healthy.
Parents should make their kids understand the importance of consent in a s*xual relationship.
Teens are mostly private people .
However, if parents have spoken to their child early about s*x, it increases the chance that teens will approach parents when difficult or dangerous things come up later or when they have questions or concerns about their changing bodies and identities.





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Heteros*xuals in*******se occurs whenever a man puts his p***s into a woman’s va**na. That’s the minimal definition. But s*x is about more than that simple act. As such, you may be curious, or you may want to know how to describe s*x to a teenager. When a man becomes aroused, the nerves surrounding his p***s become active, causing the muscles around the arteries to relax and more blood to flow into the p***s. The additional blood makes the p***s stiff and hard, or erect. This er****on tightens the veins so the blood can’t leave the p***s, enabling the p***s to remain erect.The sensual pleasure of s*x comes in large part from the movement of the p***s in the va**na.After a man ej******es or if his arousal fades, detumescence occurs, in which the brain sends a signal to allow the blood to leave the erect p***s, and it returns to its flaccid state.





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The objectives of s*x education are:-

• To help children understand the body structures of men and women and acquire the knowledge about birth.
• Teach children to establish and accept the role and responsibility of their own gender by
acquiring the knowledge of s*x. Understanding
the differences and similarities between two genders in terms of body and mind will set up a
foundation for the future development in their
acquaintance with friends and lovers and their interpersonal relationship.
• S*x education is a kind of holistic education. It teaches an individual about self-acceptance and the attitude and skills of interpersonal
relationship. It also helps an individual to cultivate a sense of responsibility towards others as well as oneself.
Each person’s views on s*x can influence his/her attitude towards life. S*x is a part of personality and s*x education can
help develop a complete personality. That is why s*x education should be an important part of family education, and should be given at home since childhood. If parents can
communicate well with
their children and also adopt the methods suggested above, they will find it easier to discuss s*x with their children.
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The inner walls of your va**nal ca**l are pleated,similar to the way an accordian looks.
This organ is elastic in nature and which allows you expand during s*xual in*******se or even while giving birth.
There can also be swelling in your va**na if the s*xual in*******se is too aggressive but it soon comes back to normal shape.
There are three holes in female body as compared to a Male body.
The va**nal shape of the female body differs from the shape and size of the women.
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