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Are you shopping for Happiness?

For most of us, the answer is yes. We shop for happiness by spending money on these things:
• Travel destinations- from plane tickets, accommodation, pocket money, even for souvenirs so that we can also make the people who weren’t with us during the trip theoretically happy
• Big and small material purchases, whether it’s an avocado sandwich, a movie ticket, or a new ferrari
• Fun and relaxing activities, such as amusement parks, bar hopping, resorts, spas and salons that some of us frequent weekly
• Bucket list items like cliff diving or seeing a Lady Gaga concert that costs about a month’s worth of salary
• Life milestones, be it getting an education or buying your dream house, each costing us more and more money
This never-ending search for happiness in the next big thing or activity or important event that we can afford is actually leading us further away from that seemingly elusive happiness.
It just doesn’t work. Sure, maybe for those few precious moments, you felt happy. But we weren’t meant to live a life with only a small part of it being happy. It isn’t right for us to think that we can only be happy when we have money to buy us happy experiences. After all, don’t we often hear the phrase “money can’t buy happiness?”
Then, where can we find happiness?
We are not saying don’t travel, or eat good food, or go out with friends, or buy that green scarf. You just have to remember that you can be happy with or without all these things, simply because happiness comes from within ourselves. It is not found in all the things and experiences in the world, but inside each one of us.
We shouldn’t look for happiness in the next person or activity, but rather look inside of ourselves. Take being in a relationship, for example. A healthy and happy relationship is when two happy people come together and share and grow that happiness, not one or both of them looking for someone and depending on that person in order to feel happy.
See, happiness is in the knowledge that you are a whole and complete human being, and wholeheartedly accepting yourself. It is in fully living and being in the present.
Happiness is in you, in this moment, right now.

Pearls of Wisdom.....

Have you ever found yourself stuck in an infinite loop of ‘Doing it later’?

From snoozing the alarm for later to putting away a critical task that needs to completion, many of us are often stuck in the viscous cycle of procrastination.

How many times have you noticed when every “Now” turns into yesterday and yesterday and one more yesterday? This cycle of postponing may run ceaselessly until we stop it by force.

There are two kinds of forces that can break this endless loop of “doing it later“:

Wisdom of foreseeing the consequences before it happens
Wounds of the consequences after it happens
Unfortunately, most of the people opt the second force. They wait for things to go worse and opportunities to slip from their hands before they take action.

But in reality, are these Actions or simply Reactions?

Actions Vs. Reactions

Actions are always taken out of wisdom by foreseeing the outcomes. That’s why they give us an opportunity to have some control over the future. Reactions are expressed as response to the wounds. That’s why they often make us the prisoners of the past.

For example, trying to manage your anger is a reaction whereas catching your irritations which will lead to anger is an action.

Action is always at the source whereas reaction is always around (just before or after) the outcome. Reactions bring more of fear, panic, & anxiety whereas actions bring more clarity, ease & joy.

The Present

If truth be told, it does not really matter how you were at the last moment. The only thing that matters is how are you NOW at this moment!

At this moment, oh not that one, this one, yes this one, this one and yes this one too! Every moment is presenting you with an opportunity to choose. Probably, that’s why its called the Present.

This very moment, you’re given a chance to choose –

Are you going to choose to be Happy?

Or are your just going to be a fixed set of emotions, beliefs, values and judgment?

9 Things To Give Up If You Want To Be Happy 😂

Life has two coins.

One with the Fear,

ONE WITH THE FAITH.

whichever you win or lose,

you still need to keep going.

Fear will drive you to become faithful.

And Faith will help you to overcome Fear.

Share your thoughts.

Rather than focusing on the end game, focus on the journey. Enjoy the experience, the moments, and the trip you take as you chase perfection. This is what makes the journey worth taking.
What do you say ........😀

The most critical and thought provoking question that you can ask yourself as an entrepreneur or a businessman is this…
𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙄𝙣 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝘽𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨?
The answer to this question will define your growth path.
Go ahead and ask yourself
Why are you in the business (whichever business you may be in)?
Are you there by accident?
Did you inherit it?
You had no other choice?
You just wanted to make a living?
Or
You wanted to create something that might leave your legacy
You wanted to be independent
You wanted to create something that others didn't see or imagine as possible
You wanted to help others by solving their problems and earning satisfaction and money in return
OR
Anything else.
Whatever it might be
Think…
𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙄𝙣 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝘽𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨?

You are your real Competition – It’s You vs YOU😊

If you are a competitive person, you might find yourself competing with others. But that’s often not a good idea. You have no insight into other people’s processes or achievements. However, you can use this competitiveness to motivate yourself by competing against yourself.

You know yourself better than anyone, and you can trace your achievements to do better today than you did yesterday.
What can you do?

Type YES if you agree!

In Life -
You Will Never Get What You Want
You Will Always Get What You Are

Change the Inside & the World Outside Changes!

Let’s focus on becoming a better version of ourselves then we will start manifesting things aligned to who we are !

Why most people do not get rich?

1. They look for shortcuts
2. They are not willing to learn from mentors
3. They have an ego that's stopping them from accepting their reality
4. They are poor money managers
5. They do not add value to people around them
6. They bing on random stuff Netflix and YouTube
7. They conform to societies norms
8. They are too worried about what others would think about them
9. They are people pleasers
10. They have a low self esteem
11. They do not believe that they can change their reality
12. They have friends with limiting beliefs
13. They are not readers
14. They despise rich people
15. They think having more money is bad
17. They worry too much and consume negativity
18. They do not use the full potential of their mind
19. They blame and complain about everything
20. They feel entitled, without taking personal responsibility
21. They do not continuously in their personal growth and learning

You cannot afford to be cheap on your journey to greatness.

To get rich, you need to work inside out.

Everything that is worthwhile does not come easy.

Everything that comes easy is usually not worthwhile.

Get to work.

Work on yourself daily.

Today is DAY ONE.

Successful people never stop acquiring specialised knowledge related to their major purpose of life.

A true influencer is one who has these 3 traits:
Authenticity - No filters. Integrity. Walk the talk.
Logic - Present information that has depth.
Empathy - Genuinely care for people.
When these 3 combine, you build a deep level of trust with your audience, and that gives you the influence.
Today, the word "influencer" has no real meaning if you match up the above 3 points.
Most of them chase after "short term gigs". So they have to act and promote brands even though they may not use that product. There is no integrity.
Many of them present information that is just entertaining. No real depth in content.
A lot of them may care for their audience, as long as they are getting more likes and views on their content. Genuine care is when you are helping your audience progress and win.
So next time you watch any content of an "influencer", check if these 3 points match up.

(Siddharth Rajsekar)

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