Vani Secondary School - Centinary Colony - GDK Confessions

WORDS ON MARBLE - Be Hopeful.

Life's challenges come in all shapes and sizes. Your journey is yours alone. It’s unique to you. Don’t expect anything from anyone. If you want something done well, do it yourself. Trust the Almighty who’s keeping watch over you. Wherever life takes you, it’s part of His Plan.

Love is a universal solution to all human problems. It heals wounds, mends broken hearts, unite enemies and encourages growth. Love is all we need everyday and everywhere.

No matter the nature of your problem, don't mind the degree of your misfortune. Don't lose hope and never submit yourself to frustration, because life is a mixture of sorrows and happiness.

I AM SORRY

Welcome to the generation of proud people. A generation that can afford to loose a 1-3years relationship just because of I AM SORRY. A generation where a woman prefers to pack her bags back to her parents house rather than to say I AM SORRY. A generation where a man prefers to loose his marriage and keep his ego.

Welcome to the generation where everyone is right. A generation that never accepts to be wrong, a generation that knows all, a generation of ignorance, a generation that prefers to argue for a year rather than spilling out I AM SORRY!

Welcome to the generation of fault finders. A generation that always seek to judge people, a generation that only sees the bad in others, a generation that prefers to win an argument rather than saying I AM SORRY!

Welcome to a generation of Selfishness. A generation that wants people to always apologize to them, a generation of self respect, they prefer to move on rather than sort of things with their partners, a Generation that makes apology very difficult, they want people to beg and roll on the floor before the accept apology, a generation that is so full of themselves, a generation that is too big to say I AM SORRY!

This is the reason why many of you are yet to get married. Watch the news and see how many people are stabbing their partners to death, marriage has now become a slaughter ground all because of I AM SORRY!

Can you do me a favour? Pls pronounce "I AM SORRY" how did u feel when you pronounced it? Did your name change? Did your skin colour change? Did your bank credit you when you said it? Did your blood reduce when you said it? Did you contact corona virus when you said it? So why is it that you prefer to loose that beautiful lady because of pride? Why is it that you prefer to loose that handsome man because of pride?

Pride goes before a fall, some of you have lost your real spouses because of I AM SORRY.

I did not Marry you to Play with you

They got married with a beautiful beginning, and after two weeks the husband woke up to go to work. He went to the bathroom to wash his face, and in the mirror he saw his face full of drawings of different colors.

His wife was young, childish, and had an innocent heart. She scribbled on his face as he was sleeping, and she did so with a great love, that they would laugh about it in the morning.

The husband washed his face while upset, and went to the kitchen to drink the coffee which he usually does every morning. He did not find the coffee, and he became more upset, and went to her.

She smiled because she thought he would laugh at her, and say something romantic.
But he slapped her until she fell down, and yelled at her saying: "I did not marry you to play with you, I am a man and not a young child. I married you to start a family, to have children, to be a man in the eyes of everyone. Do you want to live a love story of the films and those novels that you read? Wake up, these stories do not make a home, nor provide food, nor raise children.

Today I will invite my friends for lunch, I want everything to be ready when I come back. Do you understand?"

He went out and saw himself as the master of the house. He left her broken, crying so hard that she could not breathe well.

She is sick and when she cries she almost breaks out.💔

Then she hurriedly went to prepare lunch, and tears did not leave her cheeks.

The husband went and told his friend what had happened while laughing:

"They think that marriage is all love and romance. This is how women should be treated, my friend, otherwise she will never learn responsibility. She will not be a good mother. She must know that marriage is not as she sees or reads about it. These are just stories to gain profits. They need to learn that marriage is not a game or a novel."

But fortunately his friend was not like him, he did not let him to finish his conversation, he cut him saying: "What kind of a man are you? Why are you so harsh on your wife? Is this how a good husband is supposed to be?

(Be gentle with ladies, they are like glasses.)

You have to deal with them gently and be soft on them, and do not break their hearts. This world is temporary joys, and the best temporary joy of this world is a righteous wife.
Beware what you mentioned a little while ago about cooking and raising the children. It is not compulsory for her, but being nice to her will make her love you more, and be passion on you, and she will do all these without you telling her. You should know that she is not your maid. Go back to your wife and honor her and do not make her sad again."

The husband felt sad and regretted what he did. He then decided to call her to tell her that he had cancelled the lunch invitation of his friends, and to prepare lunch for them alone.

The phone rang but there was no answer
He went back to the house quickly and rang the bell but no one answered. He forgot his keys in the morning, because he came out while upset.
Suddenly his phone rang, it was his wife's brother. His wife called his brother when she felt she was not well, to take her to the hospital. His wife's brother said to him: "Brother, we are in the hospital." His voice was full of sadness, which made the husband's heart almost to stop from fear, and the idea that something bad had happened to his wife.

He stopped the Taxi and went to the hospital, and found all her family there. There was sadness on their faces.He thought that they would be angry at him, but it seems they did not know what had happened. He greeted them and waited for the doctor. After several hours the doctor came out to them head down and told them: "With great sadness and sorrow, the weakness of her heart came to us late."

Everyone cried, especially the husband. He regretted and blamed himself. she was buried the same day.
In the evening the husband returned home after taking the keys from the brother of his deceased wife.

He entered the house and found the table covered. He removed the cover and found the best delicious dishes, and saw a paper hanging on the door of the refrigerator.

It was written: 'My love, I am sorry because I wanted you to betray the customs and traditions of your community. I am sorry because I wanted you to get out of this stone heart of a man, and to hear from you some romantic words, and hug me and tell me that you love me. Forgive me because of my childish mind I wanted you to treat me like a child. I hope your friends will like the food, and I promise that I will never make you sad or upset again. I promise you. I love you so much."

He looked at the table and threw the food everywhere, and sat down crying, crying and saying: "What did I do to you my love, I killed you with my cruelty, forgive me?"

These days, we dishonour a man who loves and spoils his wife. We have forgotten that, you are considered a great man if you have mercy on your wife.

Remember your wife is from yourself, when she is happy, you will live a happy life.
Know that building a happy home requires, Patience, Honesty and Love❤

POISON THAT KILLS MEN

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse.

One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me mother?"

The mother answered:

- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached.

The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out"

OK, said the mother,

1..You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.

2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him

3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him

4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient

5. Spend your money for him and don’t get angry even when he refuses to give you money for whatever

6. Don’t raise your voice against but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.

Can you do all of that?
Asked the mother.
Yes i can. She replied
OK, said the mother.

Take this powder and pour a bit in his every day meal, it will slowly kill him.

After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.

Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again. As of now I have grown to love him because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet husband than I ever imagined.

What can i do to stop the poison from killing him?

Please help me mother.

She pleaded in a sorrowful tone.

The mother answered;
Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him.

In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.

It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him that you saw him change to a nice and sweet husband.

Men are not really wicked, but our way of relating with them determines their responses and feelings towards us.

Women if you can only show respect, dedication, love, care and commitment to your husband he will 100% be there for you.

Thank you for your time and effort for reading this.

What a lovely mother and intimidating daughter. Behind every men there will be a hard pressed story of his women.

Secrets of your Spouse ...

1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.

2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.

3. Search: Mostly Women Search for Character of Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of Women so if he find better one he can forget her but if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to forgive her.

Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relation with your spouse 😊

Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤

1. Make her feel secure - don’t threaten her with divorce.

2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.

3. Be a good listener.

4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.

5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, The husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.

6. Sit down and eat meals together.

7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.

8. Don’t leave home in anger.

Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤

1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.

2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.

3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.

4. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”

5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.

6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.

7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.

8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.

10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don't say, "well her husband doesn't do that, why do you" (thats a killer!)

~ Family only by Title ~

Family is sacred, a safe place, a place of love and happiness . Now what if your family is only by title? Families of the past had a unique understanding, love and unity that in reality is a dream for many today.

Today we see families being torn apart due to inheritance, jealousy, lack of communication, self absorption, technology, toxic relationships and so much more.

There are individuals who do the best they can to unite and be the glue to their family as well as tirelessly 'chase' after them but that love, sacrifice and attention is not gifted back.

These individuals are then emotionally exhausted by all the effort and energy they use to maintain family relationships and, yet when they need that love and attention there is nobody in sight.

There are sisters and brothers who have not spoken or seen each other in years not because of a misunderstanding but due to them just 'not having time'. Priority is key. If your family member calls to check up on you everyday but one day just stops calling. Would you call them to enquire about their well being or are you content in not receiving that 'annoying call' everyday.

If a family member visits you and finds happiness in your company, are you happy to accommodate them or are you irritated by their regular visits.

This is the mentality of families today. We feel overwhelmed and anxious when visitors come over, to a point of relief once they leave so we can go back to our smartphone in isolation.

We roll our eyes when we see certain numbers appear on our screen. We lock ourselves up in our homes with our eyes, hands, heart, mind and soul shackled to our cell phones.

This is the reality in so many homes and we wonder what has happened to family bonds.

It is time to switch off the wifi connection and reconnect to the people who are yearning for your love, understanding, strength and comfort. We need to introspect and evaluate every relationship in our lives as this life is so temporary.

Stop chasing and forcing relationships rather make peace with what it is and maintain the relationship by keeping a happy and peaceful bond rather than an emotionally unstable one. Be around people who bring out the best in you instead of suffocating in the company of those who will try to emotionally drain, blackmail and control your every thought, action and opinion.

~ C A R I N G ~

It's very easy to show someone how much they mean to you. One of them which is the easiest is "caring by words". Always make it a habit to check out on each other. When one of you are out of home, when there's even a short time apart, even when he/she is right next to you, speak out some caring words or drop a text.

To check out on each other means that your thoughts always linger around your spouse and that makes him/her feel very special because it shows how much you care and love. It proves that you are concerned about his/her well-being. It shows that you always want him/her to be happy.

"Did you have your lunch darling?" 🥘
"How was your day my love?" 🌞
"Was work too tough today honey? Come, you can rest after a good massage and a warm bath!" 💆🏻🧖‍♀️💆🏻‍♂🧖‍♂️
"You were working all day sweetie, come sit with me and let me hold your feet" 🦶🏼

Those are just few. Stir up your imagination and spoil your better half with all what you've got. 🧀
If not for them, who else?

It won't even take a minute to drop a text or peep into his/her ear and mumble some sweet words, but it definitely will make a great impact in your hearts.
Only your love is going to double up with each try.

Have a joyous day my dear brothers and sisters!

After a long time. Sorry for not getting back lately. I hope this text will humour and enlighten many.

Let me guess you’ve been calling that person several times but he or she isn’t picking your calls. You send that person many messages but you get no reply. It hurts so much and many have experience that before and knows how painful it is: the truth is such person may be in love with someone else or simple using you whenever he or she wants. STOP texting a person who doesn’t REPLY in reasonable time. I know that person may say that he/ she is ever BUSY but if that person really LOVED you he/she wouldn’t have failed to SPARE few moments to text you any short message like I miss you or I LOVE you. If you are in love with those kind person just know that he/she has no time for you but has time to text the other person that he/she LOVES and FEAR to LOSE. STOP CHASING after someone who doesn’t want to be caught. Stop CARING for someone who doesn’t APPRECIATE things you do for them. Stop having HOPES in someone who takes you as his or her SECOND option. I mean that person who only shows care when he/she needs something from you! Stop pleading and crying for someone who sees no values for your tears. Seriously you deserve someone who would gladly pickup your call when you need them most, someone who replies promptly to your texts and treats you with much respects, someone who appreciate everything you do for him or her, someone who fears to lose you just like the way you do, someone who takes you as a priority, someone who has your take and serious with you. . . STOP STOP! I KNOW IT HURTS BUT LOVE CANNOT BE FORCED.

#3

Darling when ever i read below lines it ease my heart much.

"A man does not need any degree to treat his women well. Just require a soft heart and good manners. A real man treats his woman like a priority, not an option. A real man shows his love through his everyday actions. And a real man doesn't have to be reminded".

Even though our time was very much limited but the time we spent together was like eternal bliss. The day we parted was one of the most regrettable one and that minute on that day let me down myself to none. There is one question, I always wonder why our fortune fluxed and why we have to part ways so abruptly? The way you looked in your teens still unfermented and is as new as yesterday.

"If I've known how to hold you closer, protect and cherish you back then i would have endured every hardship which is thrown at me. I've always wanted you ever since, but never dared to let you know. I always wanted to talk, hold your hands, show the world to you, but never dared to come close and ask. Contented myself with watching you from a far.. Contented of loving you from a far..” But now do i understand our worlds were and are far apart and there is not the slightest of chance that we'll be together or see each other again.

"One day may be one day you'll come across my messages and on that day you'll get to know you were my all and i was ready to bet my all for you, but it'll be too late and time will screw up my very existence". You never were and are my disappointment and that is the only thing in which i take my pride.

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This is for some one who are willing to give up.

“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive .But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

This is for some pl***oys out there from #3

Dear Men.

Close your eyes imagine you have a daughter.
Imagine She is dating a guy like you.
Did you smile?
No? Then Change..
Yes, Stop destroying her life.
If you don't intend to marry her keep your hands off of someone's future Wife and
If you intend to marry her then Keep your Hands off Until she's your wife...

Don't be a play boy, be a Real Man,
and real Man will never be a pl***oy, he will offer for marriage.

He will never ever be in relationship with someone else's daughter thinking to make it to marriage Someday.....
You will get What is Destined/written for you.
So Stop Wasting your and someone's time.

This is something that will help this generation youngsters.

What is the difference between your Mother and wife...
They both LOVE us,
Both SACRIFICES for us,
Both make us EAT,
More then we require,
Both Make our House into HOME,
Both PRAY for us,
Both are ALWAYS there for us,
Both LIVE for us,
Then Why do........
We Post funny jokes about wife and laugh and always post Respectable Qoutes for Mother...

"They Only difference I Can see is one brings you into the world and other makes you HER World".

But men always take their wives for granted and often ignore them in Important talks, matters decisions ...... Because they Think they are inefficient to handle them.
Dear Men, it's true that your mother sacrifices alot to make you a leader but a Wife sacrifices to maintain your Leadership.....Your Mother Gets your affection and care throughout her life....But a Wife gets your full intentions Only when she is near the end of your life....Waiting to get your Certification of her Soulmate....
Please Give her importance in early Age of her life so that she can feel that she is Not only the Princess of her Father But also the Queen of her Husband.!