26/09/2026
True Loving Is Giving
“True loving is not a passive ‘taking’ but a dynamic ‘giving’.” — Swami Chinmayananda
True love is active. It expresses itself through our words, actions, time, patience, understanding and willingness to help. A loving person does not simply wait for someone else to make life better. He or she takes the initiative to make life better for others.
The greatest beauty of giving is that it does not always require money or material possessions. A kind word can be a gift. Listening patiently can be a gift. Forgiving someone can be a gift. Encouraging a child, helping an elderly person, supporting a friend in difficulty, or simply being present when someone needs us—these are all expressions of love.
The image of a child helping an elderly person beautifully expresses this spirit. The child is not thinking about what she will receive in return. She simply participates, helps and shares the work. In that simple act, love becomes visible.
When love becomes only a demand, relationships slowly become transactional. We begin to expect attention, recognition and appreciation. But when love becomes giving, our relationships become richer and more meaningful. We begin to experience the happiness that comes from making someone else happy.
Giving also transforms the giver. When we give selflessly, our heart becomes wider. We become less self-centred and more sensitive to the needs of others. Service, therefore, is not merely something we do for others; it is also a way of discovering the goodness within ourselves.
Swami Chinmayananda’s message encourages us to make love a dynamic force in life. Let our love move from thought into action, from expectation into contribution, and from taking into giving.
Every day gives us countless opportunities to practise this kind of love. Let us give our time to someone who needs us, our words to someone who needs encouragement, our patience to someone who is struggling, and our hands to someone who needs help.
Ultimately, love is not measured by how much we receive, but by how much happiness, strength and goodness we are able to give to others.
Let us therefore make our relationships, our families, our communities and our society places where love is not merely spoken—but lived through giving.
Hari Om !!