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Green Flags for people bring out the best in you
Red Flags! OOPS Just the opposite.
Know the difference. Walk the path with grace!

Why do we get happy and why do we get sad. Is it always the external trigger or sometimes internal. Still exploring and still learning but the science behind Happiness chemicals amazes me.

We need to release more of these happiness chemicals. I believe I have hacked all the four and most of you would have done that. The challenge is to hack them more often...get happy more often!

Ask yourself Are you ready? What would you like to hack today





Wishing you all a beautiful and fulfilling week!

"You are only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it" These lines written by Robin Williams, love them!

We often try to 'fit in' with things, people and places. The goal is to be accepted, appreciated, acknowledged, admired, loved, respected and god knows what else! But the fact is it doesn't work. The joy is in 'belonging'. Belonging to things, people and places. That's where our authentic self lies and that is sure to lead us to fulfillment!

I wish we invest our energies in 'belonging' and not 'fitting in'. Still the choice is yours. Choose wisely because 'Fitting in' is your fake identity, 'Belonging' is authentic self. Walk the path you wish to!

Certain things in our lives are absolutely in our control.....
And there are others...we just can't control no matter how hard we try.

Understanding and being mindful of this basic life mechanism makes our world less complex. We would be living a much fulfilled life😇😇😇

If you feel the need to pause....just pause....
A lot of magic exists in the pause...just pause and fear nothing.
Let the magic unfold!

The glass is half full...
The glass is half empty...
Same goes with life...Is it half full or half empty?
How about other perspective?






What's your perspective???

Power of Integrity😇😇😇
Honesty is being true to others while integrity is about being true to yourself. As we progress in our lives, we are confronted with both scenarios.

While we may hold a lot of value for both honesty and integrity, integrity is comparatively a challenge. To question ourselves at every point in our lives and realise the deeper truths behind our motives and actions, takes a lot of courage.

Take the challenge. Ask yourself, 'Where do I stand on the integrity scale?' Check out the pointers below. The question as well as the answer is for 'you' alone.

22 Golden Rules I read and they made my day. I hope you find them useful too....😇😇😇



1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with small things like umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem.

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all.

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're.

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately.

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness.

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.

16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.

17. Never give advice until you’re asked.

18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.

19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it.

20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. More so, eye contact is as important as your speech.

21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22. After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the post"



Better ettiquettes will lead to a better life! What do you think???