Empower Your Child Against Sexual Abuse

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One day, a little girl told her teacher “my uncle licked my cookie” the teacher thought nothing of it and said “next time ask for another cookie”. Months go by, and the mother of the child was talking to the teacher about a rash on the child’s “cookie” and that’s when the teacher realized what the child was trying to say.

Here’s the problem. If you do not teach your children the proper names for their parts, people can miss important signs of s*xual abuse.

P***s and va**na are not bad words. Basic anatomy isn’t wrong and there’s no such thing as anatomy being “age appropriate”.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/cabinet-clears-second-labour-code-tough-law-on-child-s*xual-abuse/story-dV96yCglCrNP9JQrOsyM2K.html

Cabinet clears second labour code, tough law on child s*xual abuse Amendments to the Protection of Children from S*xual Offences (POCSO) Act, 2012, that were approved by the Cabinet propose to bring in the death penalty for aggravated s*xual offences and introduce penal provisions for child po*******hy.

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_________________हाथ मेरे सर पर जो फेरा ..
मै समझी थी इंसान ही ही होगा ...
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___________ #माँ मेरा #कसूर नहीं था......😥😥😥
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खुशी से लेकर सोचा मैन्ने ..
चाचू के पैसे से 2 rupee की चॉकलेट और भी लैनी है मैने ..
3 Rupee भइया को दुगी ..
5 Rupee की गुडिया भी लेनी है मैने..
ऐसे मै वो बाते करता घर से दुर ले ले आया मुझे..
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Another Nirbhaya in Gurugram: 3-year-old's autopsy reveals skull smashed, stick inserted in private parts | Crime News A three-year-old was brutally r***d in Gurugram, her skull crushed with a stone, and a wooden stick was inserted in her private parts. The police are launching a search operation to track down the accused.

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Katia Hetter taught her daughter an important lesson with a very simple phrase: “I would like you to hug Grandma, but I won't make you do it.” Her then four-year-old daughter was going on what she describes as “a hugging and kissing strike” -- parents might receive a hug, but even close family would not. Hetter felt it provided a good opportunity to teach her daughter “that it's OK to say no to an adult who lays a hand on her -- even a seemingly friendly hand." As she explained, "I figure her body is actually hers, not mine. It doesn't belong to her parents, preschool teacher, dance teacher or soccer coach. While she must treat people with respect, she doesn't have to offer physical affection to please them. And the earlier she learns ownership of herself and responsibility for her body, the better for her."

Hetter’s decision is backed up by many parenting experts. Ursula Wagner from FamilyWorks in Chicago says that forcing physical contact like hugs “sends a message that there are certain situations [when] it's not up to them what they do with their bodies.” That message can have multiple repercussions as children grow: Irene Vanderzand, cofounder of Kidpower Teenpower Fullpower International, says that “forc[ing] children to submit to unwanted affection in order not to offend a relative or hurt a friend's feelings, we teach them that their bodies do not really belong to them because they have to push aside their own feelings about what feels right to them... [this can lead] to children getting s*xually abused, teen girls submitting to s*xual behavior so 'he'll like me' and kids enduring bullying because everyone is 'having fun.'”

Hetter also points out that allowing children to refuse hugs does not mean allowing them to be rude: “She has to be polite when greeting people, whether she knows them or not. When family and friends greet us, I give her the option of ‘a hug or a high-five.’ Since she's been watching adults greet each other with a handshake, she sometimes offers that option.” Hetter explains to family members “why we're letting her decide who she touches.” And, as she’s already observed, there is one additional benefit to letting her daughter lead the way when it comes to physical contact: “When my child cuddled up to my mother on the sofa recently, happily talking to her about stories and socks and toes and other things, my mother's face lit up. She knew it was real.”

To read Hetter's entire article, "I don't own my child's body," on CNN, visit http://cnn.it/VLKGbO

To start teaching children -- girls and boys alike -- from a young age about the need to respect others and their personal boundaries, we highly recommend "No Means No!: Teaching Children about Personal Boundaries, Respect and Consent" for ages 3 to 6 (http://www.amightygirl.com/no-means-no), "Your Body Belongs To You” for ages 3 to 5 (http://www.amightygirl.com/your-body-belongs-to-you), and "My Body! What I Say Goes!" for ages 3 to 6 (http://www.amightygirl.com/my-body)

For older children, issues of body autonomy, boundaries, and consent are discussed in more comprehensive books that address topics such as puberty, s*x education, and health, including "It's So Amazing!" for ages 6 to 9 (http://www.amightygirl.com/it-s-so-amazing) and the more detailed "It's Perfectly Normal" for ages 10 and up (http://www.amightygirl.com/it-s-perfectly)

For more books to make it easier to discuss appropriate touching and personal boundaries with young children, we've recommended numerous titles for preschool and early elementary aged children in our blog post "Body Smart, Body Safe: Talking with Young Children about their Bodies" at http://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=11069

For resources for tweens and teens on body autonomy, as well as general resources on their changing bodies, check out our blog post, "A Time of Change: Talking with Tweens and Teens about their Bodies" at http://www.amightygirl.com/blog?p=11090

For an excellent parenting book that offers advice on how to talk to teenagers about s*x, respect, and consent, we highly recommend "For Goodness S*x: Changing the Way We Talk to Teens About S*xuality, Values, and Health" at http://www.amightygirl.com/for-goodness-s*x

And, for parents of children with special needs, "An Exceptional Child’s Guide to Touch” is especially geared toward children with special needs from ages 3 to 7 or the equivalent developmental age (http://www.amightygirl.com/an-exceptional-children-s-guide-to-touch) -- and, for parenting guidance on teaching appropriate boundaries, check out "Teaching Children With Down Syndrome About Their Bodies, Boundaries, And S*xuality" (http://www.amightygirl.com/teaching-children-with-ds).

Thanks to Safe kids, thriving families for sharing this image!

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हर दिशा में तम गहराया।
इतने दीप कहाँ से लाऊँ। j
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

एक भावना के आँगन में।
एक साधना के आसन पर।
एक उपासना के मंदिर में।
एक सत्य के सिंहासन पर।
बनूँ मैं माटी किसी दीप की।
और कभी बाती बन जाऊँ।
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

एक दिल के तहखाने में भी।
स्वप्निल तारों की छत पर भी।
एक प्यार की पगडण्डी पर।
खुले विचारों के मत पर भी।
जलूँ रात भर बिना बुझे मैं।
तेल बनूँ तिल तिल जल जाऊँ।
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

एक दोस्ती की बैठक में।
एक ईमान की राहों पर भी।
एक मन की खिड़की के ऊपर।
एक हंसी के चौराहों पर भी।
दीप की लौ है सहमी-सहमी।
तुफानों से इसे बचाऊँ।
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

बचपन के गलियों में भी एक।
और यादों के पिछवाड़े में भी।
अनुभव की तिजोरी पर एक।
और उम्र के बाडे में भी।
बाती की अपनी सीमा है।
कैसे इसकी उम्र बढ़ाऊँ।
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

हार है निश्चित अंधेरों की।
जग में एेसी आस जगाऊँ।
सुबह का सूरज जब तक आये।
मैं प्रकाश प्रहरी बन जाँऊ।
हर दिशा में तम गहराया।
इतने दीप कहाँ से लाऊँ।
जहाँ अँधेरा सबसे ज्यादा।
उन कोनों में दीप जलाऊँ।

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