Lifecoachhashmi

We all seem to have lost/forgotten the true spirit of a festival. It's the same with Eid Ul Adha as well. We now just sacrifice an animal, just to fulfill our duty attached to the festival and go back to what we usually do, without realising that we actually do not learn and perform what we are actually supposed to do.

This festival signifies and celebrates the spirit of Sacrificing what we hold dear to the benefits of others who need it much more than us. It includes Money and all our materialistic possessions. We may like to hold the money tight to our chest but today there are proven theories about the psychology of money that we attract money in abundance by spending it, especially for fulfilling the needs of the poor & needy and not by becoming a miser. This Eid invokes compassion for those in need so we must sacrifice our money and worldly possessions as much as we can.

In addition, we must let go of our superficial desires and our inflated ego, only then we'd be able to see the blessings we have been enjoying in our life. This Eid is a time to express our Gratitude towards those who have been helpful and supportive to us.

Just like all the festivals, this festival is also not limited to just one community but to everyone on the Earth.

So, let's understand the true spirit of the festival and practice these morals throughout our lives.

Happy Eid ul Adha!

Lots of Love, Hamid

Boya ped Babool ka to Aam kahan se paawe..!

Just like you are careful physically, make sure that you consciously sow the seeds of Love, Peace & Harmony in the Garden of Your Mind if you wish to lead a Life full of Blessings & Abundance!

Stay Blessed!
Love, Hamid 🥰🤲✨

Happy Independence Day!

We celebrate this day as our beloved country got free from slavery and today we enjoy the Freedom!

We may be physically free but are we really free mentally?

I feel a disturbed when I see well educated people getting influenced by the so called 'facts' shared on Social Media against a film, person, community, caste, religion etc. The consumption of such cooked up stories, mostly politically influenced, lead to forming a belief which eventually converts a Happy Soul to a negative one. Once we believe in that story, we then start talking about and even start posting similar posts on Social Media influencing many other happy souls to join the bandwagon. Soon, the entire country has a majority of such Disturbed Souls.

How do we know if a post is true or not?

You should NOT worry about the truthness of the post. You should only check on your emotions - if after consuming an information, you feel angry, agitated, sad, fearful, jealous or hateful; you should immediately stay away from such messages, simply because it's robbing you of your Happiness & Peace of Mind. It's not worth it!

We're Educated & Intelligent, Good Humans; we can't become Disturbed Soul!

Well, it's a Myth! The reason we start spreading the info is to just safeguard our friends & family from the so called 'evil' of that info we got influenced from. Mostly such messages are in the disguise of Patriotism, Country, Religion or something we hold close to our hearts. So, our intention is good but we're not realizing we're unknowingly releasing negative energy in the environment which will make more people angry & hateful etc. Ultimately, we are distancing ourselves from our friends, colleagues...our fellow HUMANS. Mind you, our own children we love so much are watching our actions and are also picking on this negative energy to eventually become a flag bearer of an evil ideology as belief when they grow up. This is something we never want!!!

How to re-convert a Disturbed Soul to a Happy One?

It's very simple! You just need to reverse the process..! The way Negative Energy is picked up, the positive energy is also absorbed. Just keep believing, talking and posting about Humanity at the Top of everything, about our country's unity in diversity, about real patriotism like encouraging our family or children to build a career in our country's defence, treating & respecting each human as only Pure Human and nothing else! Make sure to not forward and discard immediately any message that turns your emotions from happy to anything negative. Practice and Inculcate only Love, Peace and Harmony in our surrounding, among our own children, friends and family to further spread the same ahead. When we all start releasing happy messages to the Universe, soon the entire Universe will get engulfed by the Positive Energy and it will become a much happier place to live!

Discarding the negative energy and embracing & spreading Positive one will set us free. That will be the Real Freedom!

May we all become free Physically & Mentally and live a Happy Life!

Happy Independence Day!

Love Hamid!

Tu Hindu Banega Na Musalman Banega (H) - Dhool Ka Phool (1959) Movie: Dhool Ka Phool (1959), Singer: Mohammed Rafi

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Eid Mubarak!

"Pyar baante chalo.. Pyar baante chalo..
Kya Hindu, Kya Musalman..hum sab hain Bhai-Bhai..!!

The Holy month of Ramadan taught us Self Control not only over hunger but also over our Ego, Anger, Greed, Hatred and all such negative emotions! What we practiced through 30 days, let's make sure we continue practicing throughout our lives!

Let's remember what our beloved Prophet S.A.W. taught us, caring for even those who do not belong to our faith. I'd like share the parable of the beloved Prophet S.A.W when he visited the house of an old Jewish lady when she did not throw the waste & dust on him once (contrary to her daily routine out of sheer hatred) and he extended care when he found her ill.

Instead of saying, "they don't treat us well", let's not forget that we have also misbehaved.

Let's stop crying over minority rights. Let's stop dwelling in the past.

Let's forgive and forget!

Eid is a festival of brotherhood.

It's time we move forward, with open arms & a smile on our face and just embrace them, our brothers, tightly with complete warmth.

Remember, whatever you give to the Universe, it comes back to you in manifolds.

So if you want to be treated well, learn to respect them too. If you expect warmth from them, start expressing your love & care for them!

Let's stop calling them "they", let's become "we/us"!

Let's become "Humans" !!

Trust me, you'll get what you're looking for!

This Eid, let's make this evergreen song our Anthem and start spreading love around..!

"Pyar baante chalo.. Pyar baante chalo..

May you enjoy the spirit of brotherhood and live a content life filled with Love, Peace & Harmony together in abundance!

Love, Hamid 🥰👍

https://youtu.be/AFCEeZ9MKyg

Top 12 Strategies for a Blissful Life!

Strategy #12 Make your Relationships stronger

So we continue to fight or argue and spoil our relationship with our loved ones, family members as well as our friends or neighbors or even strangers over trivial things like why my point is ignored or instructions not followed, rejecting all valid justifications or...worse still; over our favorite political party or cricket team/country or parking or minor scratches on our car/bike...the list is long..!

Why proving our point becomes extremely important to us?

Why does our Ego become so important that we forget what importance the other person holds in our lives?

Hey, the pandemic has taken many people from our lives ruthlessly where in some cases, we still regret with an unfulfilled wish to have reconciled the spoiled relationship with them while they were still alive..!

Why don't we then realize the importance of those who're still alive in our lives and live in peace with them?

Do we wait for them to also go from our lives for repentance later?

How do we know when we're going to take our last breath?

See, if you & I have survived today we must not only Thank Almighty for blessing us with Life, we should also Thank Him for blessing us with whatever we have and whoever we're left with. We don't like certain people because we become judgmental, because we have not accepted them, because we want them to behave the way we want them to!

Why can't we just become flexible and accept what they are and who they are..?

Hello..it's time we recognize that if we're coming across anyone, it's not by choice. It's by Design! The Almighty has designed our life in a way where some people will come into our lives whether we like them or not and..they are unique to us as they do not exist in anyone's life the way they do in ours.

So, let's shed our Ego, our resentment, our judgements, our strong opinions, our religions, caste, creed, colour etc and just embrace them with open arms, with a lot of warmth, with all their good or bad habits/manners, with their complete bundle of personality.

"Uss Haath ko tum thaam lo, woh meherban kal ho na ho...!" Remember these golden words always!

Just make it up with those you have had some unpleasant experiences with. Just move over material things as we have recently seen precious material things lying idle where the user is gone. We must remember that one day we also have to part ways with everyone for good. Let's leave some good memories about us..!

"Ek din bik jayega maati ke mol..jag main reh jayenge pyare tere bol..! Remember these golden words always!

Let's forget, forgive and respect every individual as Human.!

Let's work towards making our relationship much stronger and bond lasting long..!

Let's make the Earth a Happy Place to be where we're around!

May we have Healthy & Happy Relationship and enjoy Blissful Life!

Love, Hamid 🥰👍

Top 12 Strategies for a Blissful Life!

Strategy #11 Plan for a Constructive Day - Part 2/2

Now that you have learned to plan your day well, this video will further add value and give you insight as to how to make it more constructive..in just a short 3.45minutes!!

And this one is from none other than "Eat that Frog" famed noted author and motivational speaker Brian Tracy who teaches the rich & famous!

Hope you find it interesting.

Have a great day! 🥰👍 Love Hamid

https://youtu.be/4ysyybi4068