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14/10/2019

Fighting depression: a battle against the need for attention

Many children today are battling with depression. Clinical depression is on the rise, and it seems to be crippling the productivity of the newer generations. However, the reason behind it may be simpler than you think.

Children these days have been brought up while receiving appreciation for their accomplishments, so much so that it’s been wired into their neurology to be overwhelmed with praise when they achieve something. These pathways, once formed, begin to form a pattern and dependence. The children begin to seek appreciation for even the smallest of their achievements.

What happens when they don’t receive any acknowledgement?

A lack of acknowledgement, or even the absence of it, can make these children feel dejected. Initially, they will start to feel low as they begin to receive less acknowledgement for carrying out more ā€˜every-day’ tasks, this state of dejection can be considered to be the first rung on the ladder towards depression.

To compensate for the dejection and to allow the release of chemicals (hormones) that induce happiness, these children will start performing chores that they believe will receive praise. As this behaviour progresses, they may even forget the intended objective of the tasks they need to perform. They will act solely to be the focus of people’s attention.

Achieving higher grades, performing well in sports, looking good and dressing well, all of these actions become subsets of their need for acknowledgement. They’ll believe that these actions will get them the attention that they desire. What might have started as praise for the extraordinary, like when a child takes its first steps, will eventually culminate into an ecosystem that revolves around seeking acknowledgement.

Eventually, the brain will start enabling actions by default to attract attention and acknowledgement. However, things will soon start to become challenging when these individuals do not receive the acknowledgement they desire, which can eventually lead to conflict with siblings, spouses, co-workers, employers and so on.

To avoid this massive pitfall, it is crucial to create a neutral ecosystem right from early childhood. Parents must give their children the space to grow. If children fall and cry, as long as they aren’t in any danger, it’s okay to stay back and let the emotion subside. If children achieve something, let the satisfaction come from within first instead of through claps, cheers, awards and celebrations. Children know neurologically when they have achieved something. By celebrating every small victory, we’re leading them to believe that external appreciation is the only means to validate their achievements.

Do we really want our children to be dependent on external validation?

Happiness and content should come from within. Our actions, even though they come from the right place, have unintended consequences. Failing to curb this attention-seeking behaviour could eventually lead our children down a path of depression and aggression later in life. As they grow, children need to learn to be happy with themselves. They should not feel low or bored after get-togethers and festivals, just because they are alone.
Sonal Ahuja

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27/09/2019

Dear All,

Knowledge is power !!

Psychiatry and Psychology / psychotherapy are different subjects and use completely different tools.

Psychiatry is a medical field for diagnosis & giving treatment and medicines for mental ailments. Done by medical Doctors.

It has not much connection with Psychotherapy/ psychology & psychotherapy uses many tools which are unconnected with psychiatry.

The psychometric analysis / DMIA is purely outside medical / psychiatric domain.

Please find below a short research on one of the analysis tools ( dermatoglyphics) used by Psychologist/ psychotherapist.

Please read all related studies / researches done on dermatoglyphics it will help you explain about world of this study.

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