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Students can fare well in exams while retaining inner powers of peace and health.
It is important to remain that way even during results.
Let us see how to make that happen.

Role As A Student -
Talents and capacities of students differ, so I should never compare my result with others.
The only question to answer is - "Did I perform to the best of MY ability?"

If I had given my best in the exams, no need to worry.
Creating anxiety before results are announced will impact my health, not my scores.

If I had not given my best and hence scored low, I should not go into pain but should promise myself to put in my best of efforts next time.
From time to time, my mind will create thoughts of guilt. With understanding, I immediately change the thought to - "I will not waste energy or time dwelling in the past.
It is over, finished.
I focus on what to do at present so I excel in future exams."

If I had performed to my highest potential yet scored low, I should not feel guilty but create one thought - "I am proud of having given my best and will continue doing so, without losing enthusiasm and will learn from my mistakes and shortcomings to do better next time."

Role As A Parent or A Family Member -
Students with poor scores fear parents' impulsive reaction more than the result.
By creating anger or hurt, by discussing results often or even by thinking about it, I radiate rejection to my child who is already in pain.

My first role is to accept the situation by responding with emotional stability, realizing that my child now needs empathy.

My second role is to empower my child by radiating unconditional love and compassion, which boosts my child's inner power to perform well next time.
It also builds a strong emotional bond between us.

Exams and good scores are very important.
But I cannot allow poor results to affect health, happiness or harmony at home.

God bless you beautiful souls...🙏🏻🙏🏻

Your child is appearing for his/her boards ...

Its indeed a proud moment that your child has excelled beautifully in his/her journey till class 10th/12th.

But dear parents, now that they are starting with their exams, next 30 days is going to be crucial for them as well as you too.
Lot of mood swings, sadness, enthusiasm, relaxed behavior, rudeness etc can be expected from the children.
And it's ok since lot of unnecessary stress has been built up by our education system , when it comes to Board Exams.

Let's support our children. ..

How you can do that?🤔

Some simple tips which can be implemented from your end, to help your child cope up with the stress.

1..Please wake them up in the morning with a positive stroke, a touch/ hug which a child expects from his parents.

2.. Start your child's day with a positive statement - I love you,come let's start this beautiful day together etc

3.. Take care about the communication you have with your child, before s/he leaves for his exams. I am sure you will excel, I am sure you will give your best, all luck to you, I will be waiting for you to come back sweetheart....etc

4.. Do not let your anxiety pass on to your child. Whatever the situation is, last moment positive support from your end will give a boost to your child's confidence

5..When the child comes back, please avoid asking only how was the exam, instead ask....how was the experience....
Let's unwind for the day, let's go out for sometime / let's have a cup of coffee together etc

Avoid talking about the subject.

Gone is gone...you can't alter that but atleast you can support the child for the coming one.

6.. Please ensure that a very happy and healthy atmosphere is given to the child in the house during his exams.

Avoid unnecessary arguments within the family, differences can be solved later;
Don't forget- that will affect your child and that will add to his stress

7..Please play soft instrumental music while the child is having his breakfast or relaxing with you

8..Avoid giving marks target to the child.He is sensible enough to understand his targets

9..Keep fresh flowers in the house, that brings lots of positivity in the house

10..Avoid nagging for any reasons

11..With a positive stroke, make the child sleep..your two minutes will give him sound sleep for some hours, that will help the child to combat with the situation

12...Avoid advice pls, give the child his space

13..Stand by your child even if the exam has not gone as per your or his expectations..It's ok...

14..Most important:
From today, don't let the child meet the relatives or friends, last moment negative statements or expectations might prove detrimental for the child.

Lots of love to your child and
Yes - you please be calm, be patient and all luck to you too ,
Dear parents.
With love and positive vibes
Best wishes

अभिवादनशीलस्य नित्यं वृद्धोपसेविनः।
चत्वारि तस्य वर्धन्ते आयुरविद्या यशोबलम ।।
(मनुस्मृति अ 2 /मंत्र 96)
जो व्यक्ति विनम्र है एवं अपने बडे- बुजुर्गों की सेवा, आदर,सत्कार करता है उसे लम्बी आयु, यश ,कीर्ति , एवं थन बल की कभी कमी नहीं होती ।

A person who is polite, respects & serves elders, will always be benefitted by longevity, wisdom fame & strength. It is always important in any society for the young to respect their elders.

🌷अभिवादनशीलस्य नित्यं वृद्धोपसेविन:।
चत्वारि तस्य वर्धन्त आयुर्विधा यशोबलम्।।(मनुस्मृति )

🌷 जो सदा नम्र और सुशील स्वभाव वाला होता है और विद्वानों एवं वृद्धों की सेवा करता है , उसकी आयु, विद्या , कीर्ति और बल ये चार सदा बढ़ते है