Freewill

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Wish everyone a Happy New Year. Smile all the time!

Moments 2014.

The forenoon class!

Way with Words:

1. Skipper is a noun that means captain of a ship or a sports team.

M S Dhoni is the skipper of the Indian Cricket Team.

2. Peanuts – always used in plural is a kind of edible nut that grows under the ground. It is also called groundnuts or monkeynuts.

I am paid peanuts! - a very small sum of money which has almost no value. (derogatory)

3. Tonsure – a religious ceremony during which all the hair on the head is removed.

Pilgrims visiting Tirupathi tonsure their head to keep the vow made to Lord Balaji.

This article 'Drifting kites' is a must read, not because it's written by Twinkle Khanna, but because it's something we parents need to look at......

10 am: I'm enjoying Sunday breakfast with the whole family. My in-laws always put enough food on the table to feed half of Amritsar. We're digging into aloo parathas with home-made ghee and as I am despairing at the horrific number of calories being consumed, the phone rings and we get some terrible news. A family friend has lost her young son. The young man, in his early 20s, went to America to attend a friend's wedding, left a su***de note on Facebook and killed himself before anyone could reach him.
I cannot even begin to imagine what his mother is going through. There is no pain greater than losing a child. You start worrying about these tiny beings -- from the time they are in your stomach; from hearing their heartbeats on the sonogram and counting kicks in your last trimester -- you begin your journey of worry. You worry about their health, their education, their careers, their spouses, their children... Worrying, but not really believing that one unlucky day your greatest fear may actually come true.
You lose a child to an accident or an illness and with a broken heart. You console yourself that you did your best, it's perhaps God's will, he has gone to a better place; but when your child decides that the life he has been given, the life where everything he knows is what you have taught him, is not worth living, how do you live with that? How do you stop blaming yourself? How do you go on?

We teach our children to study hard, to strive to succeed but do we teach them that it's okay to fail? That life is about accepting yourself? That there is no stigma in seeking help? Our Indian culture is based on worshiping our parents. We grow up listening to words like respect, obedience and tradition. Can we not add the words communication, unconditional love and support to this list?

I look at the WHO research. The highest rate of su***de in India is among the age group of 15 to 29. Do we even talk to our teens about this?

2 pm: We normally spend our Sunday by the poolside or going to the cinema, but today we just get a few groceries and spend time quietly in our kitchen, putting a small meal together.

6.30 pm: I am standing in the balcony, sipping some coffee and looking at the sunset. The children have taken the dogs and gone down to play on the beach. I spot my son. He is standing on the sand, right at the edge of the ocean and is flying a blue kite.

The kite goes high and then swings low till it almost seems to fall into the water and all I want to say to him is that soon he will see that life is just like flying a kite. Sometimes you have to leave it loose, sometimes you have to hold on tight, sometimes your kite will fly effortlessly, sometimes you will not be able to control it and even when you are struggling to keep it afloat and the string is cutting into your hand, don't let go.
The wind will change in your favour once again, my son. Just don't let go...

Watch this video. Excellent pitch.

They said India doesn't innovate...

Proverbs Plenty:
I came across this proverb that was really hilarious!

“Why keep a dog and bark yourself?”

It means that you shouldn't hire someone for the job and then do it yourself. In other words trust your employees to discharge their duties.

Our evening batch on Teachers' Day!