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Teenage Myths - What Parents Should Do?
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A Holistic Approach to Coaching and Counselling
Case 1: As a student, he was excellent until the pandemic. The online classes exposed him to the smartphone, and he became addicted.
With no play or interaction with friends, the smartphone became his only companion. When his parents tried to keep the phone away from him, he became aggressive. His marks began to dip, he became moody, ignored his parents, and isolated himself. The parents wanted to get their child back on track and thought counseling the child would help.

Case 2: A young boy was being bullied at school. He was in the 8th grade. His father lost his job as the company was on a cost-cutting spree. Mother was employed. The stress made the father aggressive. When the bullying continued, the boy discontinued his studies and stopped going to school. The parents had no clue what to do. They were worried about the consequences of his dropping out. Thus, they sought the help of a counselor.

Case 3: Both parents had major compatibility issues. Their only daughter longed for love. Constant fights between the parents and each one's need to act better than the other had a psychological impact on the child. She hated her parents, began having panic attacks and was aggressive towards her mother. The parents were worried about their daughter and decided to try counseling.
In all the above cases, the parents were worried about their children. They were willing to entrust the counseling job to a counselor.

There are two challenges here-
1) Unless the child feels that he needs help, it would not work. Many times, parents take their children to a counselor without their consent. Such actions may be counterproductive as the child may misunderstand their parents' intentions. They may even retaliate aggressively.

2) Even if the child is aware that he needs help, that is only one part of the job. Parents need to be consciously aware of their actions and responses that impact children. If there is a change in the child after counseling and coaching, but the parents continue with their old parenting, the result will be short-lived.

A Holistic Approach- Coaching and Counseling parents, along with the children, will bring better outcomes and a lasting impact.

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Understanding Teens - PART 1
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‼️Parents of Teenagers‼️
Having a Teen child can be a daunting task for parents.
It is equally challenging for the child as well.

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Parenting Styles and Its Impact on Growing Children.
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Parenting Styles and Its Impact on Growing Children.

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All of us feel that Parenting is simple until we encounter resistance or behavior that is totally unacceptable. Initially, we try our own methods, speak to our friends, look for our own quick fixes, and sometimes we act out of control and realize that things are just spiraling out.

Wouldn't it be good to learn the nuances by not waiting for things to spin out of control and later look for help?
Let's look at what children actually look for!

BE THERE : Our role is to make children realize that we are there for them whenever they need us. This does not mean providing them with material things, but understanding their world as they see it, speaking to them in a manner that they understand, and creating a safe space for them to express themselves without fear.
Now how do you create this environment at home?

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE: Parents who constantly judge their children will not be able to accept them the way they are. The moment children feel that their parents' love is based on certain behavior of theirs, they begin to manipulate. They will not grow up to face challenges and adversities.

MAKE THEM RESPONSIBLE: Parents can do things for their children or let them do, make mistakes and learn from the mistakes. Boasting that my child never does anything wrong is not making them ready and responsible to face the world.

WORK IN THEIR STRENGTHS: Every child is gifted. Work on their strengths and stop labeling their weakness. Labeling kills self-esteem, and they might get into a shell.

Our Parent as Coach and Counselor course helps every parent recreate the magic at home and bring the best out of their children.
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🌿My son does not listen to me!
❗How do I tackle this?

🌿My daughter is always on the phone.
❗What can I do to stop this?

🌿My children do not help me with the chores.
❗How can I make them help me?

🌿My son does not write.
❗How can I make him write?

The truth is that there are no quick fixes in parenting, and you cannot fix someone else 's behavior.

What's your take on this?🤔

Do you think quick fixes can solve deep-rooted behavioural issues, or do they require a different approach?

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🍷Few friends decided to have a get-together. All of them inching towards their fifties. After the gala time during dinner, the conversation drifted toward their careers and the plans for their children.

🤵One who was a businessman was elated that he ventured into business and not regular employment. He was able to build a fortune, unlike his dad, who was a government employee. He wanted his son to take over his business. However, his wife loathed the idea, as she could never spend quality time with her husband. He was always busy with his business. Having seen the tension, pressure, and uncertainty in the business world, she wanted her son to study well and get into a well-paying corporate job.

🧑‍⚕️There were quite a few doctors in the friend group. Here too, the opinion was divided. Some of them wanted their children to become doctors for the service, and a few others for the status symbol associated with being a doctor. However, a few doctors vehemently opposed the idea of their children becoming doctors due to the stress and lack of personal life.

💻The IT professionals in the group had a lot to say too. A few of them wanted their children to follow in their footsteps for the scope and success. The rest was against this due to the lack of social life.

🙋‍♀️Do you see the pattern here? Everyone is talking about what they want their children to become. Not one knew what their children wanted. This is the biggest mistake parents make!

🚩The success of your profession does not equal your efficiency as a parent. Even at home, most children meet only the professional side of their parents. Understanding your children has nothing to do with your profession. Children expect to see their dad and mom at home, not a doctor, businessman, or IT professional.

🥳To know your children, understand them, and help them reach their full potential, become a "Coach and Counsellor" to your children.

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