AMU Confessions

#16039

"AMU MBA ke group discussion me kya tayyari karni hoti hai? Ang suggestion would be helpful. Written bohot accha nahi hua tha magar gd list me naam hai.. Aisa kya tayyar karun ke gd accha ho jaaye.
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#16038

Ye ladke jo scooter ke samne se lehraati Nagin ki tarah bike se jo guzar jaate hain unko sarkar ye sab karne ka kya deti hai? Jo is dedication ke sath karte hain.
Tumhare is nagin stunt ki wajah se koi sadak pe sticker ban jayega. Tameez se chala liya karo chhapriyon. Kisi din mere hatthe pad gaye to bhool jaungi ki tum admi ho.
Begairat log.


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#16037

Alright guys. Suggestions time.
I liked a boy for almost 8 years and we began talking 1.5 yrs back only (on and off), the compatibility was tailor made, and he talked to his mother twice about me but she said no. I told my mother as well. The guy was struggling and wasn't employed yet.. So his mother's stance was justified...
The level of my attachment to him is beyond explanation...I can't seem to think about anyone else.. I even told him that I'd wait it out but he ultimately left.. I wouldn't say he was a bad guy bcz he was having a really hard time, being unemployed in late twenties must be pressurizing for men. He taught me thousands of good things and the best thing I've learnt from him is taqwa..so I'd say it was not a loss at all bcz I'm on my way to find God alhamdulillah..only bcz of the guidance I got through him. He was a good man. I've not seen a more beautiful man inside and out.. And it's so painful to give up on the biggest desire I've ever had for myself in terms of duniya, which would have bettered my akhirah as well..
And I struggle time and again with my feelings bcz they don't follow logic, and I find it really consuming sometimes. I cry like psychos. In the bathroom, in the classroom, on prayer mat and whatnot.
Whatever we had, it's over, and we've parted ways for once and all..
Any suggestion or advice would be helpful..
And please pray for my peace.
Jazakallah.


It is very touching to see how you have stayed so strong and faithful during such a difficult time. You are showing great character by focusing on your faith and the good influence this person had on your spiritual life, even while you are sad about the breakup.
​Please know that your feelings are completely normal. You are grieving the loss of the future you imagined, a close bond, and someone you really respected. Being sad is just part of being human.
​May Allah bring peace to your heart, turn your sadness into contentment, and reward your patience with a future even better than you ever hoped for. Ameen.

#16036

University Drama Club 🎭 From Theatre Club to Laundiyabazi ka Adda 💀

Hum bachpan se CEC dekhte aaye hain, aur sach kahun to UDC ko is haal mein dekhna kaafi depressing bhi hai aur funny bhi.

Ye wahi UDC hai na jo CEC ki shaan hua karta tha? Jo har saal awards jeetta tha, zonal aur national level par naam kamata tha, SAUFEST 2019 mein India represent karta tha. Ye wahi club tha jiske seniors ko dekh kar log theatre join karte the. Talent tha, dedication tha, vision tha aur sabse important, kaam hota tha.

Ek time tha jab UDC literally har jagah nazar aata tha. Halls mein plays, faculty grounds mein performances, awareness nukkads, social campaigns, protests, festivals — har jagah UDC. Ek academic year mein 200+ shows karna aam baat thi. Theatre in logon ke liye attendance ya post ki politics nahi, passion tha.

Aur phir aaye naye yug ke mahan log.

Inhone socha hoga ki itni badi legacy sambhalna bahut mainstream kaam hai. Kuch hatke karte hain.

Result?

Aaj UDC ki sabse badi performance stage par nahi, apne downfall mein nazar aa rahi hai.

Jo club pehle shows ke liye dates manage nahi kar pata tha, aaj shows hi nahi hain manage karne ke liye. Jo club har event ka hissa hota tha, aaj khud apni presence ke liye struggle kar raha hai. Aur to aur, opening feast tak conduct na kar pana apne aap mein ek symbolic performance hai.

Sabse zyada dukh is baat ka nahi ki UDC gir gaya.

Dukh is baat ka hai ki jin logon ko ek legacy mili thi, unhone usse aage badhane ke bajay us par experiment kar diya.

Purane seniors ne saalon ki mehnat, paseena aur countless rehearsals dekar jis naam ko banaya tha, us naam ko maintain karne ki minimum responsibility bhi shayad bahut zyada lag gayi.

Ab sawaal ye hai ki zimmedar kaun hai?

Kya sirf secretaries?

Kya sirf seniors?

Kya sirf leadership?

Ya phir wo poori generation jo club chalane se zyada club ki politics chalane mein busy rahi?

Kyuki institutions ek din mein nahi girte. Unhe giraya jaata hai. Dheere dheere. Galat decisions se. Lack of vision se. Aur kabhi kabhi pure incompetence se.

Aaj haal ye hai ki log UDC ke future ke baare mein baat nahi karte. Log UDC ke past ko yaad karte hain.

Aur kisi bhi institution ke liye isse badi tragedy shayad koi nahi hoti.

Purana UDC actors banata tha.

Naya UDC excuses banata hai.

Purana UDC performances ke liye jaana jaata tha.

Naya UDC nostalgia ke liye.

Bas itna hi.

Kuch saal pehle log kehte the, “UDC mein selection ho gaya?”

Aaj log poochte hain, “UDC ab bhi exist karta hai?” 💀

#16035

Salaam all, achcha lage toh post kar dena
Baat yeh hai ki AMU mein itne sare kashmiri kya kar rahe hain phir chahe wo student ho ya job wale.. bhai tumhara kashmir tumhare pas hai tumhe AMU aane ki kya zaroorat hai, isko up bihari aur bengali ke liye rehne do .. waise bhi Aligarh bahot garam jagah hai aur tum log hume kuch samajhte nahi aur dil mein bughz alag hai toh meherbani kar ke kashmir mein hi raho. Kyun bechare gareeb musalmano ka haq kha rahe ho.


Allama iqbal ke ek sher ki tarz per 2 line keh raha hu
"University toh banali shab bhar me ilm ki hararat walon ne..
Mann apna purana jahil tha barson me insaa'n ban na saka."

Ye ilm ka azeem idara kisi ek qaum ki milkiyat nahi hai.

#16034

Ye mardo ki mohabbat ladki k haan karte hi badal kyu jati hai aur mohabbat ka saboot hado ko par karna hi kyu hota hai??
This man was after me for about 3 years wooing me with his love.. He WAS understanding, supportive... with time I fell for him and said yes and last month we got engaged formally... Hamari shadi ki date November mai fix hui hai... Ab jab sab formal ho gaya hai to problem shuru hui hai ya ab asli nature samne araha hai... Wo jo understanding nature tha wo badal gaya hai.. Ab har baat par galat matlab nikala jata hai, har cheez jo mai pehle karti thi wo ab kharab hai, dusro se comparison hone laga hai... I thought work pressure hoga, zimmedari hai inka asar hota hai.. Lekin ye ab har baar ka hai..ek controlled schedule har kaam ka... Yaha tak k shadi k baad mayeke ane ka bhi fix kar dia hai ye bol k ki mayke ki zimmedari bhai ki hai tumhe zada pareshan hone ki zarurat nahi, tum bas mujhe khush rakha karo.. Khush karne ka tareeka??? Pictures bhejo, video call par khud ko dikhao...aur mana karne par gussa, narazgi, mangni todne ki dhamki, badnami ki dhamki.. Phir emotional karna k tum mujhe mohabbat nahi karti mai tumhara hone wala shohar hu... I told my mom about it (not about pictures and video calls), she said zadatar mard ka mizaaj aurat ko kaboo karne ka hota hai.. Use wahi aurat achchi lagti hai jise wo apne khwaish ka qaidi bana k rakhe, tabhi uski anaa ko taskeen hoti hai.. Aur is burai ko koi burai na samajhta hai na hi kehta hai.. Aur jo aurat bolegi wo buri aurat kehlati hai.. She said abhi adjust karne ki koshish karo, abhi shadi mai time hai.. Lekin meri samajh nahi araha kaise adjust karu... Iske liye to mujhe apne dil dimag ko marna padega.. Aisi khokhli mohabbat kyu hoti hai mard ki jo aurat ko bewakoof samajhte hai aur khud ko uska malik... Sirf isliye k mard k pass talaq deke aurat ko nikalne ka haq hai?? Kitna adjust karna chahiye mujhe aur mohabbat k naam par kab tak?? Mard ki mohabbat kya bas dusri ladki na dekhne tak hai aur ye support, understanding bas ladki k haan karne se pehle tak hi hoti hai?

#16033

Mera pet dog Nagar nigam wale utha kr le gye h
Kya koi help kr skta h unhe wapas lane m
Ya phir koi contact btaye jha bat kr skte h


Jab bhi wo kaam jo aajkal internet aur AI ke daur me asani se kuch clicks pe hosakte ho, unke liye yahn confession dekhta hu tab tab lagta hai.."Saala apunich bhagwan hai".

#16032

Salaam
I want to ask men and women who are part of arranged marriages, how do you feel and deal with it, when you find out that your spouse wanted to marry someone else but couldn't for some reasons and is still emotionally attached to that person (not in contact) while still performing his/her marriage duties properly. And I'm specifically asking this question to religious people, who think they're God conscious or at least on their way to God consciousness.


Salam Saab.

#16031

Assalamualaikum,
I am posting here with the hope of finding online tuition opportunities. Currently, I am staying in a place where there are no earning opportunities for me, so any support or referral would truly mean a lot.
I have completed my Master’s in Science (Mathematics stream) and teach in a simple, concept-based way.
I have personally qualified AMU entrance exams for both Class 9th and 11th, and have also helped students secure selection through the same approach.
A free demo class can be arranged first. If you find my teaching helpful, we can continue; otherwise, you are completely free to say no.
Interested students/guardians may contact me: 9241038690


Walaikumassalam.

Hum admins thoda masroof kya hue, aap members toh bewafa hogaye.😒

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