15/04/2026
🐾 Building Connections Through Presence 🐾
Welcome back from Easter break!
Picture this: It’s yard duty. Everyone’s rushing around, catching up on Easter stories. Then you see one student sitting alone on the bench, counting down the clock until the structure and safety of the timetable begins again. In that moment, what do you do? Will you notice them, or will you rush past like everyone else? What if you slowed down for just a moment?
I like to take it slow. I quietly move over and sit beside them, tail wagging, letting them know I’m glad to see them — No judgment. No conditions. Just presence. Sometimes they talk. Sometimes they don’t. That’s okay. They know I’ve seen them.
I take time to stay with them. My presence is all the words they need. As they stroke my coat, their breathing slows, shoulders relax, and a sigh releases their tension. In that unhurried moment, they no longer feel alone. They feel seen. They feel heard. They have my complete attention. Through my presence, I’m telling them: You matter. I’m glad you’re back.
You have what I don’t — words. You can ask “How was your Easter?” and mean it. You can remember that Sarah’s grandmother was sick, that Conor worried about his dentist appointment. You can notice who’s struggling to settle back and check in privately.
The Wellbeing Policy Statement and Framework for Practice (2018-2023) call this “relationships and partnerships.” It emphasizes that positive, respectful relationships aren’t separate from learning; they’re the foundation that makes learning possible. Cosán reminds us that teaching is, at its heart, relational work.
This week, remember to create space for connection. Be present. Ask about their break. Listen — really listen. Remember. Notice who hangs back after class. Let them know you see them as an individual, as a young person on their own journey.
That’s teaching. 🐾💛