15/10/2026
I didn’t realise my career confidence had dipped until years after I’d finally navigated my way out of it. At the time, everything felt heavy. I was constantly second‑guessing myself, wondering if I’d lost my mojo, and I was tired, really tired.
For a long time, I genuinely thought I was the only one who felt this way. I didn’t even tell my friends until I announced I’d resigned from my “good” job… in the middle of a pandemic. It was only when I began studying coaching psychology during my master’s, and started coaching clients in the middle of their careers, that I realised something important: what I was feeling and what my clients kept describing wasn’t a personal failing. It was a pattern.
The Sigmoid Curve, and Charles Handy’s application of it to careers, explains this beautifully. Our careers move through stages of growth, maturity and (eventually) plateau. It’s simply the nature of our career story. The real opportunity comes when we begin shaping our second curve ideally before the first one declines.The challenge is that most of us don’t identify where we are on the curve in time. As humans, we have a tendency to only take note of how we’re feeling only when we’re struggling, whether it’s motivation, confidence or that sense of being stuck.
I’m firmly in my second curve now, but I absolutely hit that plateau. If I’d known this model back then, I think it would have helped me to take control of my next chapter much sooner. So if your confidence feels shaky right now, it doesn’t mean something is “wrong”. It might simply mean your first curve is levelling off and your second curve is ready to be shaped.
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PS: The model in the image was created with the help of Copilot to illustrate what I’m sharing.