Embodied Tantra

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Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs; Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes; Being vexed, a sea nourished with loving tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet, A choking gall, and a preserving sweet. Here’s what love is: a smoke made out of lovers' sighs. When the smoke clears, love is a fire burning in your lover’s eyes. If you frustrate love, you get an ocean made out of lovers' tears. What else is love? It’s a wise form of madness. It’s a sweet lozenge that you choke on - William Shakespeare

The relationship is the space where two people come together to help each other heal and become whole through interdependence abs two person psychology, both are compelled to recreate adversity from childhood relationships. This is unavoidable. Therefore, therapy is not about focusing on the conflict or even helping to avoid such conflicts, but about helping the couple to see the conflict in a new way, instead of placing blame, so to speak, but rather explore with curiosity

"what did we just reenact, what can we learn from this, what roles did we each play in the reenactment and what agreements can we put into place to help each other heal from the past.”

The brain is a map of experience, we can only behave, respond differently when a new pathway is developed through new experience in the knowing of past experience.

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When we reveal ourselves to our partner and find that this brings healing rather than harm, we make an important discovery ~ that intimate relationship can provide a sanctuary from the world of facades, a sacred space where we can be ourselves, as we are. This kind of unmasking ~ speaking our truth, sharing our inner struggles, and revealing our raw edges ~ is a sacred activity, which allows two souls to meet and touch more deeply. ~ John Welwood

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"Crawl inside this Body. Find me where I'm most Ruined. Love me there" - Rune Lazuli

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close. ~ Pablo Neruda

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Happy International Woman’s Day from The Trauma Recovery Institute. If you want to change the world, love a Woman- Lisa Citore.

If you want to change the world… love a woman-really love her. Find the one who calls to your soul, who doesn’t make sense. Throw away your check list and put your ear to her heart and listen.
Hear the names, the prayers, the songs of every living thing every winged one, every furry and scaled one, every underground and underwater one, every green and flowering one, every not yet born and dying one…

Hear their melancholy praises back to the One who gave them life. If you haven’t heard your own name yet, you haven’t listened long enough. If your eyes aren’t filled with tears, if you aren’t bowing at her feet, you haven’t ever grieved having almost lost her.

If you want to change the world… love a woman-one woman beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason, beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety and all your superficial concepts of freedom. We have given ourselves so many choices we have forgotten that true liberation
comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire
and burning through our resistance to Love.
There is only one Goddess. Look into Her eyes and see-really see if she is the one to bring the axe to your head. If not, walk away. Right now. Don’t waste time “trying.” Know that your decision has nothing to do with her because ultimately it’s not with who,
but when we choose to surrender.

If you want to change the world… love a woman.
Love her for life-beyond your fear of death,
beyond your fear of being manipulated by the Mother inside your head. Don’t tell her you’re willing to die for her. Say you’re willing to LIVE with her, plant trees with her and watch them grow.
Be her hero by telling her how beautiful she is in her vulnerable majesty, by helping her to remember every day that she IS Goddess through your adoration and devotion.

If you want to change the world… love a woman
in all her faces, through all her seasons
and she will heal you of your schizophrenia-
your double-mindedness and half-heartedness
which keeps your Spirit and body separate-
which keeps you alone and always looking outside your Self for something to make your life worth living. There will always be another woman.
Soon the new shiny one will become the old dull one and you’ll grow restless again, trading in women like cars, trading in the Goddess for the latest object of your desire. Man doesn’t need any more choices. What man needs is Woman, the Way of the Feminine, of Patience and Compassion, non-seeking, non-doing, of breathing in one place and sinking deep intertwining roots strong enough to hold the Earth together while she shakes off the cement and steel from her skin.

If you want to change the world… love a woman, just one woman . Love and protect her as if she is the last holy vessel. Love her through her fear of abandonment which she has been holding for all of humanity. No, the wound is not hers to heal alone.
No, she is not weak in her codependence.

If you want to change the world… love a woman
all the way through until she believes you, until her instincts, her visions, her voice, her art, her passion, her wildness have returned to her- until she is a force of love more powerful than all the political media demons who seek to devalue and destroy her.

If you want to change the world,
lay down your causes, your guns and protest signs.
Lay down your inner war, your righteous anger
and love a woman… beyond all of your striving for greatness, beyond your tenacious quest for enlightenment. The holy grail stands before you
if you would only take her in your arms and let go of searching for something beyond this intimacy.

What if peace is a dream which can only be re-membered through the heart of Woman?
What if a man’s love for Woman, the Way of the Feminine is the key to opening Her heart?

If you want to change the world…love a woman
to the depths of your shadow, to the highest reaches of your Being, back to the Garden where you first met her, to the gateway of the rainbow realm where you walk through together as Light as One,to the point of no return, to the ends and the beginning of a new Earth.

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When we meet our partners, we make an unconscious contract to help each other resolve emotional injuries of the past , we unconsciously pick or hire the perfect person to trigger this stored painful memory of our past , it is for this exact reason we have come together . Relationships are not a problem to be solved but an adventure to be embraced. Conflict is a gift to be unpacked , to embrace, an opportunity to grow , resolve and mature .

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Neuroscientific Complex Trauma Recovery At The Trauma Recovery Institute. It is a joy to be hidden and disaster not to be found - D.W. Winnicott.

The core dilemma of complex trauma is that our longing for connection conflicts with memories that tell us relationships are not safe. Being traumatized is continuing to organize your life as if the trauma was still going on unchanged and every new encounter or event is contaminated by the past. After trauma the world is experienced with a different nervous system, a survivor’s energy now becomes about suppressing inner chaos at the expense of spontaneous involvement in life. The Trauma Recovery Institute is a leading International centre for complex trauma recovery for clients and trauma informed training for Clinicians.

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Explore the Neuroscience of Love: Trauma and Polyvagal Informed Relationship Coaching & Embodied Ta**ra at The Trauma Recovery Institute.

When we reveal ourselves to our partner and find that this brings healing rather than harm, we make an important discovery ~ that intimate relationship can provide a sanctuary from the world of facades, a sacred space where we can be ourselves, as we are. This kind of unmasking ~ speaking our truth, sharing our inner struggles, and revealing our raw edges ~ is a sacred activity, which allows two souls to meet and touch more deeply. ~ John Welwood

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Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.~ Maya Angelou

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The Subject Tonight is Love, The subject tonight is Love,And for tomorrow night as well, As a matter of fact I know of no better topic For us to discuss Until we all Die! - Hafiz

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I don’t want a love with soft edges
or a love that’s gentle, polite or timid.
I want a love that licks its lips
and begs for seconds.
I want a love that breaks headboards
and disturbs the neighbours.
I want a love that sleeps in
and a love that stays out late.
I want a love that smears its lipstick
down my neck like warpaint.
I want a love run wild.
I want a love like sun fire.
I want a love that starts riots
and roars in defiance.
I want a love that’s mad,
fierce and full of fight.
I want you, now, here, all night. - By Beau Taplin

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When we meet our partners, we make an unconscious contract to help each other resolve emotional injuries of the past , we unconsciously pick or hire the perfect person to trigger this stored painful memory of our past , it is for this exact reason we have come together . Relationships are not a problem to be solved but an adventure to be embraced. Conflict is a gift to be unpacked , to embrace, an opportunity to grow , resolve and mature .

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Look inward: see me
with embryo wings, one
feathered in soot, the other
blazing ciliations of ember, pale
flare-pinions. Well--
could I go
on one wing,
the white one?

Fly into love’s country on light and no shadow ? Not a chance , as we shall see.

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The Ultimate Relationship Program - The Relationship is not the Problem , the problem is that we are unskilled at Relationships.

When we meet our partners, we make an unconscious contract to help each other resolve emotional injuries of the past , we unconsciously pick or hire the perfect person to trigger this stored painful memory of our past , it is for this exact reason we have come together .

Love Rewires Our Brain - The Ultimate Relationship Program at The Trauma Recovery Institute. Trauma Informed Relationship Coaching based on the latest research in Neuroscience and Interpersonal Neurobiology.

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