Willing Wellness

I am not buying into the pressures of New Year New Me!

As a coach and wellness practitioner I understand the value of goal setting BUT not under the pressures from society and social media!

In my work at Willing Wellness I met women who are hanging on by a thread, tired, doing it all, overwhelmed, exhausted and feeling under valued, working , parenting, and caring.

❌If this is you, adding new goals just because you feel pressure to will only add to your stress.

✅Allow yourself to let go of old patterns of doing too much for everyone else and find some calm in 2026.

I was once this person stuck in cycles of stress and my nervous system was never relaxed.

Now I embrace:

❤️ caring for myself as well those I love

❤️ rest and recovery

❤️ nervous system reset

❤️boundaries

❤️reflection

❤️joy

❤️nature

❤️calm

❤️gratitude

Instead of setting new goals I am making a promise to look after ME again in 2026 for my own happiness and to bring the best version of myself to those I love most ❤️

❓Are you longing for calm?
❓Would you like to start the New Year with some simple practical tips that will help you?

If so click link in bio for a copy of The Calm Start !

Gill x

Excited to attend this Masterclass with the best! Lorna .

See you all there ladies! ❤️
2026 is going to be great!

❤️For the ladies here who have been putting others needs before their own since they were children! ❤️

🌟We take on roles as children without our knowledge and sometimes without our parents intent,it just happens organically at times.

🌟Young girls typically eldest daughters tend to take on a caring or helper roles in their early years.

🌟This can look like minding siblings and helping with parental responsibilities.

🌟 This early responsibility leads to a child taking on an identity often for life.

🌟The child scarifies their emotional needs for others.

🌟This leads to an adult who never asks for help and when they do it is not reciprocated.

🌟it leads to an adult who continues to care for others in their lives and sacrifice their own needs.

🌟if you have been this person and feel burnout being the doer, the organisers, the planner, the emotional support ect it’s time to change.

✅Take back your power and learn to create healthy boundaries to protect your energy.

✅Delegate responsibilities and ask for help.

✅Make time for yourself.

✅Prioritise your own emotional needs.

✅Practice self compassion.

✅Tell yourself you are worthy.

✅Add yourself to the list to the list of people you care about.

Gill 🤗
PM OF YOU WANT TO HEAR HOW YOU CAN WORK WITH ME, SOME AVAILABILITY LEFT FOR JAN/FEB 2026.

Behind every “perfect “ Christmas is a woman quietly holding it all.

🤶Planning
🤶Shopping
🤶Preparing
🤶Caring
🤶Keeping the peace
🤶Attending school activities
🤶Feeling overwhelmed
🤶Feeling stressed
🤶Feeling exhausted
🤶Feeling emotional

You may share responsibilities with you partner but as women we tend to take on the detail, the remembering the shopping the planning ect this is very real and know as the mental load!

This can become very overwhelming at Christmas!

✅This year be mindful of how much you take on.
✅Ask yourself could you delegate or remove some items from the to do list.
✅ Ask for help
✅ Choose ease where you can.
✅ Plan.. make lists
✅ Plan rest times

Give yourself permission to simplify,soften and slow down!

Remember if a man was doing all you are they would be know as a fabulous dad!!!

Follow for more supportive tips.

You didn’t lose yourself.
You adapted to survive.

And now something inside you is whispering,
“Is this it?”

That whisper isn’t dissatisfaction.
It’s your next chapter calling you forward.

I work with midlife professional women who:
• Are outwardly successful
• Emotionally exhausted
• Craving something more meaningful
• Afraid to change — but more afraid to stay the same

To:
• Reconnect with themselves
• Regulate stress & overwhelm
• Let go of old limiting beliefs
• Redesign lives that finally feel like theirs

If this feels like you, I see you.
And you are not alone in this season.

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✨ Save this for the days you forget who you are
✨ Share this with a woman who needs permission to choose herself again

Your next chapter doesn’t begin with pressure.
It begins with willingness.