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"...I knew something was wrong in my marriage… but I didn’t want to believe it.
Four years after our wedding, I started noticing a pattern. She was always awake at dawn, typing on her phone. Sometimes she would leave the bed quietly and stay in the bathroom for almost an hour. At first, I told myself not to overthink it. I said maybe I was being insecure. But one day, I got access to her phone.
The first message I saw nearly made me collapse. She wrote to another man: “You can’t take my daughter abroad without me, so prepare for the two of us.”
The man replied: “So you’ll leave your husband and come live with us?”
And she answered: “What husband? Consider me single. This marriage is nothing to write home about.” That was the moment I realized there was something more painful than I’ve ever experienced in life…
I am still hurt, I am down, and I am yet to know where I am in this part of the world. Sometimes, a person can still sleep beside you while their heart has already left the marriage. Not every betrayal starts in the bedroom. Some begin with secret conversations, emotional distance, and silent disrespect.
Now I'm wondering whether to confront them, investigate more, or walk away..."

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If there is one ability we should all covet, it should be the ability to communicate well. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it, makes you outstanding and memorable. John Joseph Powel said, “Honest, open communication is the only street that leads us into the real world… We then begin to grow as never before. And once we are on this road, happiness cannot be far away.”

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HE SAID; SHE SAID, my 50th play in 14 years, shows at the National Theatre on Sept 3, 4, 10 & 11 at 4 & 8pm daily.

ABOUT THE PLAY - Two married couples, each drowning in its own issues, discover that the survival of their marriages depend on their reaching out to each other. But will they find the peace of mind to save each other’s marriage and in the process save their own?

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Often times, it is best to ignore. At times, a word is enough to shut them up. Brevity!!

Someone loves you just because you're YOU! Don't pretend in any circumstance which could be your turning point!

Trust God for the process!

Happy birthday, Sardis

Be found!