Dave Jay Life Coach

04/03/2023

Hi there folks.
Just as a reminder, at www.davejaycoaching.co.uk there is an offer of a free discovery call.
If you feel that you’d like to take advantage of that just head over to the website and make a booking.
There is NO sales pitch, there is NO obligation to continue the conversation, if YOU feel that you’d benefit from continuing the conversation then we can have that chat.
If you’re here then maybe, just maybe, there might be something that you’d like to get perspective on, or just get off of your chest.
Let’s at least take that first step.
Much love.

Dave Jay is a certified life coach in Yateley, north Hampshire, who will work with you on mindset and confidence. Dave is also a pain relief and wellness practitioner, Master Practitioner of NLP and a Hypnotherapy Trainer.

13/02/2023

OK, part two, here we go.
You’ve taken some time to consider, to meditate, to even remember how you wanted to change the world when you were a teenager, you’ve identified what is your talent, your gift, the something you want to share with others?
Now we have to think about “who” we are going to share this information with: many online course providers call this our avatar, it’s just a posh name for who our ideal client is.
The reason for identifying our ideal client is that if you try to sell to everyone, it ain’t going to work.
So some things to consider:
- The gender of your ideal client: do they identify as male, or female, or another gender identity?
- How old are they?
- Are they married, in a partnership, single, widowed, what is their marital status?
- Are they parents, or carers, or foster parents, or something else.
- Their earnings if applicable.
- Consider anything that will allow you to nail down your ideal client.
Remember, everyone knows that this isn’t easy, but it is necessary.
Identify a trait for your ideal client, walk away, come back and identify another, and another, and another, until you get to the level of Mr/Mrs Jones at the end of the street (I know that you won’t get to that level, but get as close as you can).
Let’s take a week to nail this down. Take your time. Revisit this as many times as you need.

Remember what we are trying to do here,"What do I have to share with others that could change their lives and bring renewed deeper meaning to mine?" Never forget why we are on this journey.

The above is part two of an outline of the creating of an offering. If you need help and coaching with this to overcome some blocks or to be held accountable, please visit www.davejaycoaching.co.uk where you can book a FREE consultation to see if we can work together to create your dream. There will be no sales pitch, just a call, a part of the call will be how we can work together if you are interested.

Dave Jay is a certified life coach in Yateley, north Hampshire, who will work with you on mindset and confidence. Dave is also a pain relief and wellness practitioner, Master Practitioner of NLP and a Hypnotherapy Trainer.

08/02/2023

I try to imagine how many people spend their lives finding reasons they couldn’t live their life’s dream, never finding the reason why they shouldn’t live their life’s dream.
If you would like to chat about the reasons you couldn’t, book a free 1 hour call at

Dave Jay is a certified life coach in Yateley, north Hampshire, who will work with you on mindset and confidence. Dave is also a pain relief and wellness practitioner, Master Practitioner of NLP and a Hypnotherapy Trainer.

08/02/2023

Please excuse my radio silence this past week or so, I have been very much under the weather. Normal service should be resumed from next week.

23/01/2023

OK, so here we go.
Everyone has a talent, a gift, something they can share with others. Something that, in the process of sharing, you will help others, and bring a renewed deeper meaning to your life.
What for you is that something? That something that if you shared would change the world, or at the very least, your little part of the world?
Let's think about it, or let's even meditate on it as what you may think is your gift may be something completely different and quite unexpected.
You may think that your gift is teaching people how to be the next master chef, but then after a little meditation, in that quiet moment, a thought may come to you of how, as a teenager or a twenty something young person, you had a real God-given talent for just listening, really deeply listening, and being able to say just the right thing at just the right moment.
At that time you may have realised that you had been blessed with this, but that life had made this fall by the wayside, to lie there as a ripple on a pond whilst the great waves of life crashed onto the beach of responsibility.
Well, is it time for that ripple to be felt and heard?
So the first step of this process is "What do I have to share with others that could change their lives and bring renewed deeper meaning to mine?"

The above will be a part of an outline of the creating of an offering. If you need help and coaching with this to overcome some blocks or to be held accountable, please visit www.davejaycoaching.co.uk where you can book a FREE consultation to see if we can work together to create your dream. There will be no sales pitch, just a call, a part of the call will be how we can work together if you are interested.

Dave Jay is a certified life coach in Yateley, north Hampshire, who will work with you on mindset and confidence. Dave is also a pain relief and wellness practitioner, Master Practitioner of NLP and a Hypnotherapy Trainer.

20/01/2023

This morning as I was taking the kids to school there was, it seemed, a massive sun just hanging on the horizon, making everything seem an orange colour as the light was refracted through clouds and the like. We might call it a Martian dawn here on Earth.
A strange little piece of information for you: Martian dawns and Martian sunsets are actually blue as the sunlight pours through the cloudless Martian atmosphere.
I wonder if Martians call it an Earthen dawn?
Much love
Dave

20/01/2023

There’s a lesson to be learnt from my last post. No matter how much you feel you should post, if you’re exhausted, really, don’t bother.
It will be that bad that, at worst, it will make no sense to you or, more importantly, your followers. At best, it will provide no value.
So I guess I should be writing in this post about how nowadays we are so eager to post on social media our thoughts that we never take the time to actually sit with our thoughts anymore, just to sit and let the thought wash over us and to consider, is this really that important that it deserves a post.
I’ll be taking my own advice from now on.
Have a lovely day.
Much love
Dave

18/01/2023

This may sound completely obvious. The road to your new life just needs you to make a start. Literally, just make that start. And then the next start. And then the next.
If you are having issues with overwhelm or procrastination or whatever, just take that first baby step, and then the next.
It is far easier than you can imagine.

If you need someone to keep you accountable book a free 1 hour call to see how we can work together.

Dave Jay is a certified life coach in Yateley, north Hampshire, who will work with you on mindset and confidence. Dave is also a pain relief and wellness practitioner, Master Practitioner of NLP and a Hypnotherapy Trainer.

14/01/2023

I often berate my teenage son for binge watching on NF or AP, that’s when he’s not on YT.
But I’ve really fallen into a most beautiful binge watching trap, The Repair Shop!
Every moment on the sofa is now TRS. My excuse? It’s just beautiful TV, none of your Simons or Craigs, just beautiful TV of people doing amazing things for others.
But it makes me wonder, and cry a little, how people can need an object of a family member or of a long past generation for connection. My father passed 5 years ago, his memory is still very fresh in my mind, but it’s never an object or a smell or a sound that triggers those memories because there were so many beautiful experiences.
I would really love to hear your thoughts on the above.
The one thing I can say, and it is a regret, I loved him so much, but could have shown it far more.
Back to TRS.
Have a blessed rest of the weekend.
Much love
Dave

09/01/2023

Let's address EVERYONES "elephant in the room", whether it be: limiting beliefs, procrastination, imposter syndrome, money beliefs, I'm not worthy, etc, etc, etc. Here's the thing, and after reading this it may be enough for you, or it may not, it's all thought!
It really is that easy, so once again, "it's all thought!"
If you get it congratulations. If you don't let's have a chat.

09/01/2023

"Let's just stop. Whereever we are at this moment, let's just stop. Let's stand whereever we are, or, let's sit whereever we are, and just stop.
Take a look around you and just wait. Can you feel it coming? Can you sense it? Here it comes... now!
Take another look around you, just feel, here comes another one... now!
Let's just stay here in the moment for a couple of minutes, allowing what's around us to wash over us.....We're a couple of minutes further on, and we're sensing another one coming... now!
After a minute, a further three in quick succession... mow... now... now!
And then another... and another... and another, infinitely.
From all of the "nows" that have gone before, there is ever only one, the now that we are all living in.
Regardless of where, and, for that matter when, we are living, we are all living in the same now and anything outside of this now... is not... reality."

09/01/2023

What do we do about beliefs?
We know that beliefs are not reality, just part of thought, but how do we handle the many, many, beliefs we “adopt”?
Let me elaborate. We can “adopt” beliefs on a daily, weekly, monthly, annual basis... forever.
When we go to visit the doctor and we receive a diagnosis, we adopt a belief that may or may not be true. If the doctor feels unsure about offering a diagnosis, they may refer us to a specialist who in turn may offer a diagnosis, a belief, which again may or may not be true. We may then talk at length with whoever will listen about our “adopted” belief of what is ailing us.
We may take our broken car to a mechanic, who will offer us his belief of what is catastrophically wrong with the car, which again may or may not be true. We will adopt that belief and again relay that belief to whoever will listen to us.
We will be offered beliefs at all corners and on all avenues of our lives. For many people those beliefs become part of their experience until well after the event, sometimes many years, “Yeah, I had that happen to me, THIS will be what is wrong.” Beliefs, beliefs, beliefs.
We start to form beliefs from a very early age, beliefs are part of nurture, and sometimes those beliefs will never change through the whole of our lives, but often those beliefs WILL become a part of our reality. Through the whole of our lives, we are nurtured in our beliefs, very few beliefs will be unique and our own.
Just a thought, but how many times have you been able to have a conversation with a family member, a relative, a friend, a client, and been able to park your beliefs, adopted or otherwise, at the door?