24/01/2026
From “Mysterious Minds”.
Parent: I'm Struggling...
Camhs: You’re not Struggling enough yet.
Services: You seem to be managing realy well.
School: They’re fine here.
Parent: OK seriously I’m really Struggling please help me...
Camhs: Ok, we will help in 18-24 months.
Services: You are coping so well it’s brilliant.
School: Still fine in school.
Parent: I'm begging you, I can’t do this...
Camhs: Only 12-18 months left to wait.
Services: You’re not parenting right, take a parenting course.
School: We don’t see any issues apart from the fact you’re always late.
Parent: My child is out of control and a danger to themselves and others, I can't cope, I’m Struggling, please help me...
Camhs: Fine you’re on the urgent pathway, see you in 4-6 months
Services: You can't keep your child safe, we are sending a Social worker, you should really be trying to help your child.
School: If they have anymore time off you will get a fine, they cope fine once they are here.
Parent: Why is no one helping me?...
Camhs: ........................
Services: .....................
School: .........................
Parent: Omg we finally got here...we are going to get the help we need!...
Camhs: Yes they have Additional needs there is a diagnosis report on its way in the post.
Services: Here’s some leaflets.
School: Ok that’s fine we will continue to do what we have being doing, we will just tick a box on some paper.
Parent: So what now...Who do we receive help and support from?
Camhs: ....not us sorry....
Services: ....not us sorry...
School: ....EHCP? No you don't need that, also not us sorry....
This is reality of what we go through, the truth, the Struggling, the lack of support, empathy and general lack of resources... if you too are going through this, Im sorry, just know you are not alone, keep going, one day the clouds won't be as heavy
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