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Are you taking your existing customers for granted?Think about how much effort goes into winning a new customer; The mee...
15/10/2026

Are you taking your existing customers for granted?

Think about how much effort goes into winning a new customer; The meetings, the calls, follow-ups, proposals, promises.

Then, finally, they say yes. But what happens next?

It’s very easy for our attention to move straight onto the next prospect. After all, there’s always another target to hit or opportunity to chase. Meanwhile, the customer we worked so hard to win can quietly slip down the priority list.

We call them less. We stop asking as many questions and assume everything’s fine because they haven’t complained. And that’s when we risk giving a competitor an opportunity to start a conversation.

Winning a customer takes effort. Keeping them deserves just as much attention.

So here’s something simple to try. Pick a couple of existing customers this week and give them a call. Not to sell them anything. Just ask: “How are things going, and is there anything we could be doing better for you?”

You might be surprised by what you learn. And your customers might be pleasantly surprised that you asked.

Read more in our newest blog https://intelligentdialogue.com/resource/what-your-customers-know-about-your-business/

How customer-focused is your business, really?A process can make perfect sense internally, but be hugely frustrating for...
14/10/2026

How customer-focused is your business, really?

A process can make perfect sense internally, but be hugely frustrating for the person on the receiving end.

For example:
• Forms that ask for the same information twice.
• Processes with too many steps.
• Being passed from one person to another.
• Rules that make perfect sense to you but none at all to your customers.

It’s easy to design processes around what makes life simpler for the business, then wonder why customers find you hard work. So, take a look at your processes from the other side. Are they genuinely designed around your customers, or are you simply expecting your customers to work around you?

If you spent a week as one of your own customers, would really believe that your business is as customer focused as you say?

Read more in our latest blog https://intelligentdialogue.com/resource/what-your-customers-know-about-your-business/

Would your customers get the same experience whoever picked up the phone?One of the biggest challenges with customer ser...
13/10/2026

Would your customers get the same experience whoever picked up the phone?

One of the biggest challenges with customer service is consistency. Everyone has their own personality and way of communicating, and that’s a good thing. Customers don’t want to feel as though they’re talking to a robot.

But there’s a difference between having your own style and giving customers a completely different experience. One person bends the rules, another sticks rigidly to the process. One promises a call back today, someone else says it will take three days. One takes ownership of a problem, another passes it on.

For the customer, that can quickly become frustrating. Consistency doesn’t mean turning everyone into robots. It means agreeing some basics:
• What does good service look like here?
• What can people decide for themselves?
• When should something be escalated?
• What promises can we realistically make to customers?
• How do we make sure everyone has the same information?

The aim isn’t for everyone to sound the same. It’s for customers to feel they can rely on the same standard of service, whoever they deal with.

How consistent is the experience your customers get across your team?

Would your customers agree that you put them first?It’s Customer Service Week and today’s focus is Leadership for Challe...
07/10/2026

Would your customers agree that you put them first?

It’s Customer Service Week and today’s focus is Leadership for Challenging Times. It raises an important question for any business leader. You may say customers come first. It may even be written into your values. But would your customers agree?

Because customer service is what the customer experiences, not what the business intended to deliver. A customer doesn’t know about the system that isn’t working, the process that has to be followed or the pressures your team is dealing with behind the scenes. Nor should they need to.

They simply know they wanted to do something and whether you made it easy or difficult. And when something did go wrong, they remember whether somebody took ownership and helped them sort it out.

That’s why good customer service leadership means looking at your business from the outside in.

Read more in our new blog https://intelligentdialogue.com/resource/what-your-customers-know-about-your-business/

Great customer service shouldn’t come at the expense of the people delivering it.This week is National Customer Service ...
06/10/2026

Great customer service shouldn’t come at the expense of the people delivering it.

This week is National Customer Service Week 2026, celebrating the importance of great service and the people who support customers every day. Today’s focus is Service for a Better Society: Service with Respect Day. And there’s a good reason why this matters.

Research from the Institute of Customer Service found that, among customer-facing workers who had experienced abuse:
• 37% had considered leaving their job because of aggressive customer behaviour
• 26% had taken time off work as a result

Those figures are a reminder that difficult customer behaviour doesn’t just make for an unpleasant conversation. It can have a real impact on people and businesses.
We can’t prevent every difficult situation. But we can make sure customer-facing teams have the skills and confidence to handle them well.

At Intelligent Dialogue, we help businesses develop practical customer service skills that work in real conversations, including the difficult ones.

If you’re thinking about customer service training, we’d be happy to talk through what your teams are facing and how training could help.

Call us on 0845 450 0988 or get in touch: https://intelligentdialogue.com/contact/

It's Customer Service Week, and we're celebrating the people who make a difference to our clients. First up is Jacqui Bu...
05/10/2026

It's Customer Service Week, and we're celebrating the people who make a difference to our clients. First up is Jacqui Burton, our Business Support Manager.

Great customer service isn't always about grand gestures. More often, it's about making life easier for the people you work with, anticipating what they need and doing what you say you're going to do.

And that's where Jacqui comes in.

From the moment a client books a programme, Jacqui makes sure everything runs smoothly. She coordinates dates, organises materials, keeps everyone informed and takes care of all the little details that can make a big difference.

She's often our clients' first point of contact and the person they turn to when they need something sorted.

Her patience, sense of humour, eye for detail and willingness to go the extra mile mean our clients can concentrate on their businesses, knowing that everything is in safe hands.

Great customer service is about making things easy for your customers, and Jacqui does exactly that.

Thanks Jacqui, for looking after our clients (and us) so brilliantly.

Clarity creates energyPeople tend to do their best work when they understand what matters, why it matters and what’s exp...
02/10/2026

Clarity creates energy

People tend to do their best work when they understand what matters, why it matters and what’s expected of them.

It sounds obvious, but when that clarity is missing, even very capable people can become hesitant, frustrated or simply busy doing the wrong things.

Of course, managers could try recruiting people with telepathic abilities. It might be easier just to have better conversations about roles, priorities and results.

A good place to start is with one simple question:
“What are you paid to do?”

Then listen carefully to the answer. Does it match what you think their role is? Are you both clear about their priorities? Do they know what a good result looks like?

Creating that clarity isn’t an administrative exercise or something to revisit once a year at appraisal time. It’s an ongoing conversation and one of the most practical things a manager can do to build confidence, accountability and better performance.

If you asked everyone in your team that question today, what answers would you get?

Contact us, we’re here to help https://intelligentdialogue.com/contact/

Leaders - do your people really know what matters most?It’s easy to agree a list of priorities. The harder part is makin...
29/09/2026

Leaders - do your people really know what matters most?

It’s easy to agree a list of priorities. The harder part is making sure those priorities actually influence what people do when the day gets busy.

New requests come in, customers need something, emails arrive and someone asks for a ‘quick favour’. Before long, the original priorities are competing with a whole new list of work.

That’s why clarity needs to be an ongoing conversation, not something agreed once and filed away.

When something new comes along, encourage your people to ask themselves:
• How important is this?
• Is it really part of my role?
• What will need to move to make room for it?
• What result are we actually trying to achieve?

And when they are clear about what matters, they can make better decisions for themselves. It also makes conversations about performance much easier because everyone understands what good looks like.

So, if you asked your people today what their three most important priorities are, would their answers match yours?

We've shared more practical ways to clarify roles and responsibilities in our latest blog.
https://intelligentdialogue.com/resource/clarifying-roles-and-responsibilities/

Confusion drains energyWhen people aren’t clear about what’s expected of them, what matters most, who is responsible or ...
28/09/2026

Confusion drains energy

When people aren’t clear about what’s expected of them, what matters most, who is responsible or what happens next, they have to keep filling in the gaps themselves. And that takes more energy than we sometimes realise.

Research from the Headspace Workforce State of Mind 2026 report found that 39% of UK employees say unclear or shifting priorities are a major source of strain at work.

It’s not difficult to see why. When priorities aren’t clear, people spend time interpreting what was meant, checking they’ve understood, second-guessing decisions and worrying about getting things wrong. Work can get repeated, misunderstandings need correcting and people end up making decisions about priorities that should already have been clear.

Over time, that uncertainty can lead to frustration, hesitation and a loss of confidence.
Sometimes someone who appears unmotivated isn’t lacking commitment. They may simply be spending too much of their time and energy trying to work out what they’re supposed to be doing.

For managers, there’s a useful question to ask:
How much easier could we make people’s jobs simply by being clearer?
Clear expectations, clear priorities and clear ownership can remove a surprising amount of unnecessary effort.

Read more practical ways to clarify roles and responsibilities in our latest blog.
https://intelligentdialogue.com/resource/clarifying-roles-and-responsibilities/

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Henry Ford says it beautifully.
24/09/2026

Henry Ford says it beautifully.

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