ParentingSuccess

ParentingSuccess Helping you become the parent you want to be. Group workshops and one-to-one coaching.

ParentingSuccess Coaching's mission is to support you to become the best parent you can be. Our host of dynamic and non-judgmental workshops offer easy to implement tools and strategies no matter the age of your child. We also offer private parenting coaching, home hosting of workshops and support through schools.

Helping parents move from overwhelmed to clear - one parenting dilemma at a time
31/07/2026

Helping parents move from overwhelmed to clear - one parenting dilemma at a time

Comment Summer Support Circle if you'd like to more 🧡
30/06/2026

Comment Summer Support Circle if you'd like to more 🧡

The summer holiday can both be wonderful. It can also feel exhausting The past week has maybe offered a flavour of what'...
28/06/2026

The summer holiday can both be wonderful. It can also feel exhausting
The past week has maybe offered a flavour of what's to come with the summer holidays looming.
The thing that can easily confuse us as well-meaning parents is that;

🧡 children often need some structure, even when they're asking for freedom

You might imagine that your worries about loss of routine over the holidays needs fixing with a colour coded schedule to survive the many weeks together.

In reality, most kids don't need rigid routines. They need predictable anchors - a rough rhythm to the day.
Knowing when meals happen, when screens happen, when you'll reconnect. That's very different from planning every hour
🧡 more screen time is often a symptom, not the problem

When routine disappears- screen time often increases - along with guilt and battles.
The issue isn't usually the screen itself. It's that screens become responsible for providing structure, stimulation, regulation and connection all at once.

That's a heavy load for any device

🧡 feeling overwhelmed doesn't mean you're doing it wrong

If summer feels harder than you expected, it doesn't mean you're failing.
The summer holidays asks a lot of parents.

You're trying to meet your children's needs while also managing your own. That's hard. And it's okay to acknowledge that.

I'd love to know: what do you find hardest about summer parenting?

I've never found the birthdays of the loved ones I've lost in my life more difficult than any other day. The missing is ...
24/04/2026

I've never found the birthdays of the loved ones I've lost in my life more difficult than any other day. The missing is the same.

But my grandma and my dad were born on the 23rd and 24th of April and every year around this time, memories of my time with them become more vivid and an overwhelming sense of gratitude for having known them and been loved by them fills me.

My dear dad was just about to enjoy the fruits of his labour and had retired his surgical knife when he himself became a patient of an incurable disease that he died from 2 weeks before I became a mum for the 2nd time.

A scenario that feels impossible. And was hard, felt unfair, and surreal all at the same time. But somehow, alongside all the grief, he managed to give me permission to tend to the little life I was growing and this little girl lying in the hammock in Sweden, next to him - only 8 months prior.

I'm so moved by the grace he showed and the way that my mum was able to hold up the sky even when it felt like our world was falling apart. I felt parented and protected at such a crucial time..

Today I'm taking a moment to feel grateful for him, for life and all the beautiful things and people in it 💙

For many women, doing things that feel pleasurable can feel unsafe. Audacious maybe and too indulgent. Especially when t...
23/04/2026

For many women, doing things that feel pleasurable can feel unsafe. Audacious maybe and too indulgent. Especially when the choir off voices who call your name, need you for something and just want you around, never goes quiet.
'When there's a break- I'll take a moment to ...'
In your mind you can't even think what that ...... is ... so you end up prioritising doing chores, because at least that way you feel a sense of control. Something is in order - even if just for 5 minutes.
And because we push ourselves at all times, our children's emotions will feel triggering. There's no space within to hold space for them.. so we shut them down, shush, tell off and disconnect.
What if, starting small and in little ways, you practiced doing little things for yourself to honour your own needs:
- sitting down with a drink and a book/magazine when the kids are playing
- taking a stroll in the garden, putting your fingers in the soil
-listening to your favourite podcast while walking or having a bath
- closing your eyes for 10 minutes before getting the kids after school
Our nervous system is flexible and can learn to find safety in things our past tells us is wrong.
And when we do - everyone benefits 💛

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