18/12/2025
So true. I would also like to add that some do pick it up quicker than others, and it's crucial not to compare ones self to another. We are all individual learners. The outcome may be the same, but it takes most 'normal' people a long time to get there. Be comitted, don't compare, and relish in the small improvements.
I saw a FB post today where someone was asking how he could speed up the process of learning the piano.
Good luck with that, sunshine.
Itās like these āget fluent in a language in three monthsā ruses. Insanity.
The complexity of learning a skill like playing the piano is off the scale. Aside from the physicality of actually playing, the complexity of the coordination and cognitive changes that must occur is utter madness. It takes years. Itās absolutely marvellous.
Same with learning languages. Aside from rattling around with French for the last three years, Iāve recently come back to Spanish, which really Iāve not worked for over sixteen years.
Sometimes itās overwhelming to think how much work I need to put in to develop properly. Hours every week of listening, speaking, watching stuff and reading, bits of grammar (because Iām self taught, and have many grammar gaps), vocabulary revision. No amount of piddling around on Duolingo is going to turn me into a more confident and fluent speaker.
Point is:
You have to be attached to the process, and not the outcome. Iām still learning how to play the piano. Iāll never stop. Good job I love it. Iāll never say Iāve got there.
When youāre attached to the outcome, you will live in a constant state of not being enough.
When you can sit, however, and unpick little bits of music, and revel in the sound and the gradual development; when you can love the music and see it as a long term relationship with a piece rather than a quick fling, a consumption of the music before moving on to something else to feed your hungry, gobbling gremlin that is your need for accomplishment personifiedā¦.
ā¦well, only then will you be a pianist, my
son.
Dodgy Kipling reference, but you know where Iām coming from.