Jess Goes Social

Jess Goes Social Raising awareness of the importance of social skills through activity ideas, training, educating and

Hi I’m Jessica and I founded Alice Benzie Teaching in response to the limited awareness and resources available with regards to Social Skills. I am an ex-early years and primary teacher, who has worked as an Speech and Language Therapy Assistant Practitioner for the past 8 years; the last 5 years of the role mainly focused around working with children on their social interaction and communication.

Social Skills are some of the most important skills we will acquire in our life time but the least ‘taught’. There is often an assumption that children will simply pick up these skills; whilst this might be the case for some others will struggle with them. Failure to adequately teach social skills can have a long-term negative outcome. As children get older social skills become much more complex and they will need to draw on different strands to engage effectively with others. A child may have difficulty in only one or two areas of social skills but this can have a knock-on effect in other and can lead to a break down in social communication. Social communication skills cover; interaction, eye contact, looking, attention and listening, waiting, turn taking, sharing, memory, proximity, volume and rate of speech, pragmatics, emotions, awareness of self, awareness of others, handling constructive criticism, developing opinions, handling difficult situations, giving and receiving praise, saying ‘no’. I mainly support young children but have worked with young adults up to 16. My aim is to support individual children and families, as well as offering training and advice to schools and other education settings or professionals.

Lots of learning opportunities going on in this little section of our aquarium.So far we have -🐙 taken turns 🐙 counted🐙 ...
13/03/2021

Lots of learning opportunities going on in this little section of our aquarium.

So far we have -
🐙 taken turns
🐙 counted
🐙 sorted
🐙 ordered
🐙 hidden
🐙 engaged in imaginative play
🐙 explored textures
🐙 discussed habitat
🐙 discussed food chains 😬

(And expressed opinions- "mummy I don't think this was one of your good ideas" as the turtles shell fell off when she picked it up! 🤣)

I love food play but at the same time I am aware that, for too many families, food is a scarce commodity.So here are a f...
10/03/2021

I love food play but at the same time I am aware that, for too many families, food is a scarce commodity.

So here are a few ideas that can help keep food play sustainable and still allows children to use their senses to explore.

🎶 Our little music area has instruments and song prompts for choice making and interaction. 🌊 I tried to do a wave sound...
07/03/2021

🎶 Our little music area has instruments and song prompts for choice making and interaction.

🌊 I tried to do a wave sound with the talking tin but it just sounded like weird heavy breathing! 🤣
🦈 Instead I did the Jaws theme!
My little one is able to do her own recording and has done some singing and naming of sea animals.

🎶 She makes choices about the instrument she wants to play and gives the other to me. We then play as we sing, try to make loud/ quiet sounds, play fast or slow and think about what the instruments sound like (e.g. waves crashing, a seahorse swimming)

🎶 The idea was to use song prompts to chose between 12345 and A Sailor Went to Sea- however everytime I try to sing she tells me to stop! 😂 Instead she has sung her own songs and told stories.

We've covered
- interaction
- joint attention
- choice making
- listening
- copying
- turn taking
- loud vs quiet
- fast vs slow
- using technology
- fine motor skills
- gross motor skills

🐠 Set up an underwater area this week, lots of different learning opportunities involved.🐙 We spent a little time the we...
05/03/2021

🐠 Set up an underwater area this week, lots of different learning opportunities involved.

🐙 We spent a little time the week before painting and making.

🦈 Set up took about 30mins (that included searching for items in all the wrong boxes before I found them 🤣)

🐳 I'll post more over the next couple of days with more details and explanations.


I can honestly say we have read all of these books. Multiple times over.One of my favourite development stages, which sh...
04/03/2021

I can honestly say we have read all of these books. Multiple times over.

One of my favourite development stages, which she is just going through now, is her reading the books to us. It's such a joy.

📚 one easy strategy you can start from the moment they are born and you are reading books is to move your fingers below the words as you read them.
This helps children to understand that these 'squiggles' mean something.

When your little one makes her toys sit around a steam mop! Apparently they were having a tea party!!!!Imagination is a ...
03/03/2021

When your little one makes her toys sit around a steam mop! Apparently they were having a tea party!!!!

Imagination is a vital part of early child development.

They don't always need lots of props. See what they come up with and go with that.

⭐ If your child struggles with imaginative play support by
- limit the amount of items you are using
- provide items which have no fixed play e.g. boxes, containers, pieces of fabric
- offer suggestions and model different ways to use items.
- copy what they do with a different item

This week it is Eating Disorder Awareness and this is a subject very close to my heart.For more than 20 years I struggle...
03/03/2021

This week it is Eating Disorder Awareness and this is a subject very close to my heart.

For more than 20 years I struggled with an eating disorder and it took so much from me.

It is why I never use food as a 'reward' with my daughter.

Food is nourishment, it gives us energy, it supports our development, it helps us grow.

ALL food can be part of a balanced diet.

We need to stop teaching our children that food is connected to reward or punishment. That if you are 'good' or 'well behaved' you get a 'treat', if you are not (therefore you must be 'bad') you are punished by missing out. Food shouldn't be tied into self worth.

Some of my earliest memories are around traumatic food experiences; being forced to eat items I didn't want, even when clearly distressed. Having adults not listen to what I was telling them and not having any control over the situation.

If my daughter tells me she doesn't like something I don't make her eat it, I respect her boundaries. Yes I still put it on the plate but beyond that it is up to her.

Maybe some people will think that I'm too lenient on my daughter and she has too much control (she won't always have what we are having but her own version) but if I can make her feel confident and happy around food there is a better chance that she will not encounter this insidious illness. And I will do everything in my power to ensure that.

A simple, play activity which can be done with any toys.The focus of this was long V's short.As well as numeracy this co...
27/02/2021

A simple, play activity which can be done with any toys.

The focus of this was long V's short.

As well as numeracy this concept is hugely important in phonics.

Why? Because sounds can be long or short (terminology may vary according to the scheme being followed but it means the same.)

Teachers cover a lot of general skills before they start teaching phonics, e.g. listening, matching, looking and so forth.

It is worth considering if your child is ready before starting with more formal activities. Whilst it might seem like a good idea it can actually cause frustration, confusion and lead to a reluctance to learn.

🦚 So simple, so fun- use feathers to create peacock tails. You can glue them if you want or just keep mixing the pattern...
26/02/2021

🦚 So simple, so fun- use feathers to create peacock tails.

You can glue them if you want or just keep mixing the pattern up.

Great for-
🦚 interaction
🦚 choice making
🦚 language development
🦚 pattern making
🦚 critical thinking

👶Babies don't need lots of toys.❤You are the best toy your baby has.Here are some simple activities which will encourage...
24/02/2021

👶Babies don't need lots of toys.

❤You are the best toy your baby has.

Here are some simple activities which will encourage early social communication.

👀 Peek-a-boo (you can use your hands to hide behind or use a scarf) encourages eye contact and interaction

🖐 Tickling is great for eye contact and anticipation

🎶 Singing and dancing supports interaction and listening

🦕 Walking the dinosaur (make a dinosaur by putting your middle finger out infront and use the other fingers as legs. Walk on different parts of your baby's body) helps eye contact and interaction

🧙‍♀️ Making toys disappear by moving them out of childs eye line supports early looking and anticipation

👂Magic sounds (making gentle noise on different sides of your baby's body) encourages early listening and interaction

Choose moments when your baby is alert.

Take your cues from your baby, they will let you know if they are enjoying it. 😃

Feathers are a great way to get a childs attention.You can then take turns blowing them.Who can blow theirs the furthest...
24/02/2021

Feathers are a great way to get a childs attention.

You can then take turns blowing them.

Who can blow theirs the furthest?
Who can blow theirs the highest?


❤ this chart.It is so important to remember that there are lots of different types of play which help develop different ...
23/02/2021

❤ this chart.

It is so important to remember that there are lots of different types of play which help develop different areas.

Children need to be playing in lots of ways. Whilst repetition is good try not to become over reliant on one style of play.

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