15/09/2026
âEducation is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.â
So if education keeps pouring more and more information into a child, without igniting their interests and curiosity,
the pail begins to overflow. And when that child also has additional needs,
this can result in loss of confidence, anxiety, overwhelm & low self esteem. And all of this means,
learning is harder or impossible, mental health suffers, sense of belonging is lost, the child doesnât see themselves as a learner, enjoyment of learning is damaged & the childâs needs become a barrier that they never needed to be. But,
this cycle can be broken!
How?
Encourage your childâs hobbies and interests. This shows them that the things that matter to them are important and valued, and opens up opportunities for learning. And,
praise the qualities they can control, like patience, persistence, curiosity, creativity, self-reflection, problem solving, kindness, focus, bravery. And,
co-regulate with them, and model your own regulation:
âI understand this feels challenging. Shall we try it together?â
âwhen I get an anxious feeling in my tummy, it helps if I take 5 deep breathsâ
âI can see youâre feeling overwhelmed, shall we take a walk together?â
And remember,
you arenât alone, and you arenât responsible.
School anxiety has risen by over 50% since 2020.
Anxiety related school absence is higher in learners with SEND.
Undiagnosed needs often initially present as anxieties around school.
And, importantly,
anxiety around learning doesnât define your child.
And, with the right support, it can be healed.
Could Hannahâs Hub support your family?
Hannahâs Hub is a group of tutors across Yorkshire with a passion for inspiring confidence and a love of learning for children and young people with SEND.
Our approach is holistic, tailored and neurodiversity affirming.
Our tutors come to you, and our ârelationship firstâ tuition is designed around your childâs needs, strengths and interests.
So,
Get in touch with Hannah and arrange a free of charge chat to discuss how we can support your childâs needs and your tuition goals.
07745723953
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www.sendtutoryorkshire.com
Weâd love to hear from you!