07/09/2026
This is how one of my regular tutees arrives for our sessions. A blanket over his head. And you know what? This is when he learns best.
His sensory needs are real. Managing overwhelm, finding his comfortable space, regulating his nervous system – these aren’t distractions from learning. They’re the foundation for it.
When I started working with him, I could have said “sit properly, focus, no blanket.” Instead, I watched. He’d independently figured out what he needed. The blanket creates his safe space. It filters the world. It lets him concentrate.
And it works. Under that blanket, he engages with phonics, tackles literacy activities, and makes genuine progress.
There’s no “right way” to learn. Neurodivergent children often know exactly what their bodies and brains need – they just need us to trust that, not override it.
Comfort isn’t a luxury. It’s the threshold to learning.