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24/10/2025

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Your brain believes what you tell it, whether it’s true or not

Here’s something that will change how you think about thinking. Neuroscientists have found that your brain doesn’t actually care if your thoughts are true, it simply believes whatever you repeat often enough. Every time you think a thought, you strengthen a neural pathway. Repeat it long enough, and your brain treats it as fact.

That means when you constantly tell yourself “I can’t,” “I’m not good enough,” or “I’ll never change,” your brain starts wiring those beliefs into your identity. But the same rule works in your favor too. When you repeat positive, empowering thoughts, your brain builds new connections that support confidence, motivation, and resilience.

It’s called neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to rewire itself based on what you focus on. Scientists say it’s one of the most powerful tools we have for personal growth. Your thoughts literally shape your brain’s structure, one repetition at a time.

So be careful what you tell yourself. Your brain is always listening, and it believes every word you say.

14/01/2025

So how was 2024? What did you achieve or overcome?

I finally got back into running, completed a Couch to 5k, then ran a 5 mile night run.
It was amazing! I feel stronger mentally and physically. Bring on more running challenges in 2025.

19/09/2024

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Talk about what you want not your problems. We attract what we say.

12/06/2024

Mum's Advice: The Magic of Almonds

As I picked up a bag of almonds in the supermarket, I was reminded of how my mum always roasting almonds in a frying pan with a little salt. She’d hand them to me as a snack saying they were good for me. At the time, I didn’t fully understand the benefits, mum often talked about which foods to eat when we were unwell or recuperating but I often ignored what I thought were unsubstantiated claims. However, science is proving just how right she was.

Here’s why:

Rich in Nutrients: Almonds are loaded with essential vitamins and minerals like magnesium, vitamin E, and healthy fats that nourish your brain and body.

Stress Buster: The magnesium in almonds helps combat stress by regulating neurotransmitters, which play a crucial role in mood and relaxation.

Energy Boost: With a perfect mix of protein, healthy fats, and fibre, almonds provide sustained energy, keeping you motivated throughout the day.

Brain Health: The antioxidants in almonds, especially vitamin E, protect brain cells from oxidative stress, supporting cognitive function and clarity.

Dopamine Production: Magnesium is essential for the production of dopamine, the "feel-good" neurotransmitter that plays a key role in motivation and happiness. Almonds are a great source of magnesium, helping to keep your dopamine levels balanced and your spirits high.

Better Sleep: Eating almonds can help regulate sleep patterns, thanks to their magnesium content, which promotes relaxation and a good night’s sleep.

Mum’s wisdom about the power of almonds was spot on. What foods did your mother or grandparents feed you for health benefits? I’d love to read your stories in the comments!

27/05/2024

When NOT to Rely on Intuition for Career Choices 🚫

Hey seasoned pros and savvy entrepreneurs! Ever wondered if your gut feeling is leading you astray in your career decisions?

Intuition is a fantastic tool, especially when you've got years of experience under your belt. It can help you:
- Quickly assess situations
- Make decisions with confidence
- Tap into your accumulated knowledge and expertise

But let's face it, even the best instincts can be clouded by emotions, biases, and outdated beliefs. Don't let these factors trip you up!
To sharpen your intuition and reap its full benefits:
- Clear those limiting beliefs
- Balance your emotions
- Kick biases to the curb

Ready to make confident, aligned decisions that serve your highest good? Contact us today to discover how you can fine-tune your intuition and trust your choices!

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24/05/2024

To change emotional state, change the breath.

24/05/2024

Becoming An Adult Orphan

Amongst individuals aged 55-64 in the UK, 54% have experienced the loss of both parents. As an adult orphan, one navigates a distinct journey marked by grief and newfound independence. Here are some reflections:

1. Loss of Stability: The absence of parents can leave us feeling adrift. The familial home, once a place of refuge, now exists only in memory. For me, this loss also severed ties to my Birmingham heritage, leaving me feeling disconnected from the city I once called home.

2. Independence and Support: While some may lean on siblings for support, not everyone has this option due to geographical distance or strained relationships. However, this shift has also grants the opportunity for self-care and social connection after a period of caring for a parent.

3. Festivities and Isolation: In cultures that prioritise family gatherings, you may look on from the periphery. Parents, especially mothers can serve as a bridge to extended families and old traditions.

4. Crafting Our Own Story: Each individual copes with parental loss in a unique way. Some mourn the loss of support and guidance, while others find relief from caring. Relationships with siblings and extended family may strengthen or falter, ultimately shaping our sense of identity beyond being a son or daughter.

As changes in family dynamics and caregiving obligations impact our personal lives, it is important for employers, colleagues and friends to acknowledge and accommodate these realities.

Consider now, your systems of support and preparedness in the event of becoming an adult orphan?

23/05/2024

18/05/2024

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06/05/2024

Have you ever rock climbed?

I used to rock climb a lot in my 20s and always considered the pursuit a wonderful reflection of our self talk. When rock climbing, fear can result in 'disco leg' the uncontrollable shaking of the leg. I recall, that when climbing I would constantly talk to myself using my first name - 'You can do this Gurbax' to keep this phenomenon at bay and encourage myself. Little did I know that this innate strategy was increasing my self efficacy.

In this article the importance of using your first name or the pronoun 'you' when encouraging yourself is discussed. Using your name or 'you' increases self efficacy, defined as; 'confidence in one's ability to develop strategies and complete tasks necessary to succeed in various endeavors' (Bandura, 1977).

Therefore higher levels of self efficacy motivate us to achieve our goals whilst low levels of self efficacy mean we give up on tasks as we don't feel we can successfully achieve them.

So although self doubt is normal, if we increase our self efficacy using a more objective self talk, we can improve our chances of success and perseverance.

Do you use your own name when you encourage yourself or do you use the pronoun 'I'?

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03/05/2024

Transform Your Wellbeing: A Journey from Pain to Empowerment

Are you over 45 and facing those nagging health issues that seem to creep up uninvited? It's easy to let worry and anxiety take the driver's seat, but here's a message from someone who's been in your shoes: Don't let fear dictate your future.

In my 30s, I was diagnosed with severe psoriatic arthritis. Walking became a daily battle, and pain was my constant companion. But I refused to let my condition define me. With determination, I overhauled my diet and embraced mindfulness—and it changed everything. My limp of 2.5 years, disappeared, and my vitality was restored.

I understand the emotions you're grappling with—worry, anxiety, the feeling of failure, fear of the future, and isolation. But I'm here to tell you that there's hope. You can take control and transform your physical and mental wellbeing.

Follow me for authoritative, compassionate, and kind guidance on making positive life changes. Together, we'll explore tips and techniques that will empower you to improve your health and mindset, creating a more positive outlook and enhancing the possibility of better medical outcomes.

Take the first step towards a brighter future. Follow me now for a journey to better health and happiness.