Rainbow tots

It sounds dramatic, but it's the plain & simple truth. PLEASE READ.

When we talk about the challenges we are seeing in early childhood, delays, sensory seeking or sensory avoidance, difficulty cooperating, regulation struggles, trouble following directions, weak frustration tolerance, limited focus, difficulty initiating and sustaining play, we have to be honest about what has changed.

Children are not playing the way they once did. Not in the volume, the depth, or the intensity their developing brains and bodies require.

In infancy, movement is increasingly contained. Walkers, bouncers, seats, swings, activity centers. A baby who should be rolling, pivoting, pushing, crawling, and coordinating both sides of the body is often propped and positioned. Those early months are when the sensory systems are wiring rapidly. The vestibular system, which supports balance and spatial orientation. The proprioceptive system, which gives the brain information about joint position, force, and body awareness. The tactile system, which shapes body boundaries and emotional security. These systems build the foundation for regulation, attention, motor planning, and executive function. When whole body movement is limited, that foundation is weaker.

Then toddlerhood arrives, and we increase expectations for sitting, waiting, table tasks, prolonged circle time. When toddlers do run, climb, or explore, they are often met with constant correction. Be careful. Too high. Not like that. You will fall. Go play over there. Use it this way. The child who has already had limited sensory freedom now has limited autonomy. Instead of expansive movement and experimentation, they receive redirection and containment.

By preschool, the expectations intensify. More structured days. More controlled behavior. Often more extracurriculars layered on top of already full schedules. All of this unfolds alongside a significant rise in screen exposure, which again keeps the body still and quiet while reducing real world sensory input.

We have slowly and systematically reduced authentic play. And whatever remains, we tend to manage and direct.

Children need to run, climb, jump, swing, roll, carry, push, pull, fall, and get back up. These experiences stimulate the brainstem and cerebellum, which are critical for balance, coordination, and automaticity. They strengthen neural pathways that later support focus, working memory, impulse control, and academic learning. Physical play is not separate from cognition. It is a prerequisite.

But children also need creative autonomy. They need to invent storylines, negotiate roles, build structures, solve problems that do not have predetermined answers, tolerate frustration, and try again. When adults constantly hover, correct, or script the experience, it may look like play, but it functions more like a controlled activity. True play requires ownership.

Extracurriculars have a place when children are developmentally ready and genuinely interested. But they cannot replace daily unstructured time. A child’s day is already heavily organized. Without protected space for free, child led exploration, there is almost no opportunity for the kind of deep play that wires flexibility, resilience, and independent thinking.

Across intelligent species, play is a biological drive. Rough and tumble play calibrates force and builds social awareness. Risky outdoor play strengthens motor planning and emotional regulation. Highly sensory play integrates the nervous system. These experiences refine the connections between lower brain structures and the prefrontal cortex, the area responsible for reasoning, decision making, and self control.

We have taken over childhood in ways that feel productive and protective, often with the best of intentions. But intention does not erase impact. When expectations do not align with development, children are labeled, shamed, diagnosed, and sometimes medicated for behaviors that are, in many cases, adaptive responses to environments that do not meet their biological needs.

Of course some children require intervention and targeted support. That is real. But there are also many preventable circumstances rooted in environment, not pathology.

If we do not speak to this with urgency, the cycle will continue. Play in early childhood cannot simply be valued in theory. It must be fiercely protected in practice.

With this hot weather this is really important to remember

Glycerol is often used to create the slush effect. But in high quantities, especially to small children, glycerol can cause shock, hypoglycaemia (low blood sugar) and loss of consciousness.

That’s why slushies containing glycerol are not recommended for children under seven. And, older children should be limited to just one slush a day.

Sometimes when things are tricky it’s very easy to not bother and do something else, my tots showed some great perseverance earlier this week when they tried to walk across a wobbly, rounded balance beam in the park. For 1 tot they kept trying for the best part of 15 minutes but it really paid off when she finally made it all the way across! They also showed some amazing teamwork and problem solving when trying to get onto the seesaw too

First day of the Easter holidays and we headed to the zoo! Lots of running about looking for the zoonormos eggs and seeing all the animals

We had a lovely morning with a tiger (and a story or two)

With World Book Day this week we chose to focus on our favourite stories. We’ve read Owl Babies, Mog, lots by Julia Donaldson, Open Very Carefully and lots more! We’ve listened to stories, told our own stories and shared stories with our friends. We visit the library regularly and share books everyday but it’s been so lovely to spend even more time with our books this week!

What a lovely day yesterday was! I asked my older girls what they’d like to do as they arrived and they chose to go to the zoo, we had the best day and one of them said to me “the sunshine makes me so happy Emily” I think the animals agreed as we saw so many yesterday although the highlight for them was most definitely being above their ankles in muddy puddles making potions 🤣🤣

There has been some negative press about childminders recently. I won’t reference the source, as I don’t believe it warrants further attention. However, it does feel reflective of a wider narrative that increasingly pushes for very young children — even babies — to be placed into formal school-based settings.

As a nursery that has evolved from childminding, I am incredibly proud of my childminding roots and stand firmly alongside my childminding colleagues.

Childminding shaped my professional practice in ways I will always value. It taught me the importance of meaningful relationships, deep connections, and truly individualised learning. It supported me throughout my studies and allowed me the time and space to develop a clear understanding of my beliefs around childhood, care, and education.

I wholeheartedly believe that the unique and bespoke role of childminders — those who welcome families into their homes and lives — is invaluable. The care, continuity, and relational depth they provide cannot be replicated elsewhere.

Childminders: we see you, we value you, and the early years sector absolutely needs you.
Stay strong. 🫶

We had so much fun with Ethan helping us last week, from crafts at toddlers to soft play, the farm and time doing activities at home it was wonderful to have an extra helper!