Get The Love That You Deserve

17/08/2026

He went cold because somewhere along the way you abandoned yourself, you stopped speaking your truth. You skipped over your own boundaries and lowered your standards. As soon as you lose respect for yourself, he will mirror and leave. Before you start chasing him let’s do some deep inner self love work so that you know if he does come back it’s because you have levelled up and feel worthy. Many of my clients by then have already decided they want a secure partner who is in line with their new secure self. Comment the word secure and I will send you a link to my free master class.

15/08/2026

Maybe you are not anxious.

Maybe you have never had enough experience of being pursued steadily by a man who is actually ready for you.

A man who does not make you guess.

A man who makes room.

A man whose actions make it easier to relax, not harder.

You can have chemistry AND consistency.

You can be soft AND have standards.

You can stop calling chaos a connection.

Comment DATE and I will send you my free training on how to choose differently.

14/08/2026

Wanting CONSISTENT honesty, plans, affection and a relationship that is going somewhere is not asking too much comment Love for my free master class.

14/08/2026

The anxious-avoidant trap that no one names - the avoidant often gets all the blame. But the anxious person is just as avoidant. Yours is just dressed up as care and concern. Mothering. Managing. Testing. Three ways you push away the exact person you are trying to hold onto. Comment HEAL below and I’ll send you the framework to break the cycle.

28/05/2024

My latest article comments for Marie Claire on AI in the dating world. On BBC Newson Thursday at 8.30pm live discussion on AI and relationships.

When a serious relationship ends, falling in love with someone new can feel impossible. Kate Hollowood speaks to different women about navigating love after loss.