The Ultimate Breakup Coach

This is 10 years of therapy in under a minute and it is the best video that I have seen … if you like it all I ask is that you hit follow? 🤗🤗🤗🤗

You don’t need saving. You need reminding who the hell you are.

**WAKE THE LION** was written for the man who knows, somewhere underneath everything, that he is capable of more.

More confidence. More discipline. More self-respect. Better relationships. Stronger boundaries. A life that actually feels like his.

This isn’t a book about becoming harder, colder or louder. It’s about becoming the man who no longer needs validation from everyone around him. The man who can walk away from what disrespects him, take responsibility for what he can change and stop wasting his life tolerating what he knows isn’t good enough.

You do not need to have everything figured out.

You just need to decide that you’re done living beneath your own potential.

The lion was never gone.

He’s just been asleep.

**WAKE THE LION. It is time. 🦁**

Available now on **Amazon, Kindle and Audible.**
Find the link on my main page.

How do you deal with rejection? …. Best breakup book recommendations … Can’t stop thinking about the one person who didn’t want you? You are not broken, sweetie, and you are not obsessed because you loved them the most. You are obsessed because your brain never got to finish the story.

If you have ever found yourself checking their Instagram at midnight, replaying the same conversation for the hundredth time, or convincing yourself there was some deep unfinished connection between you, this is exactly what Rejection Breeds Obsession is about. Why rejection creates obsession. Why we fixate on people who hurt us instead of the people who were good to us. Why silence from someone makes us want them more, not less. The psychology of limerence, unrequited love, and why your mind keeps circling back to someone who chose to leave.

This book walks you through exactly why it happens and, more importantly, exactly what to do to break the cycle, get your peace back, and stop handing your power to someone who already made their choice.

If you have ever asked yourself “why can’t I stop thinking about him” or “why can’t I stop thinking about her even though they hurt me,” this one’s for you.

Grab your copy, link in bio.

Nobody will fall out of love with you quicker than somebody who thinks that they have found Better.

NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. 🦁

If you’re a man living a life that doesn’t feel like yours anymore, you do not have to stay there.

Maybe you’ve lost your confidence. Maybe you’ve spent years tolerating relationships, work, habits or circumstances that you know are beneath what you’re capable of. Maybe somewhere along the way you stopped asking yourself one very important question:

Is this actually the life I want?

Nobody is coming to save you. That isn’t bad news. It’s bloody brilliant news.

Because it means the power to change your life is already in your hands.

You can rebuild your confidence. You can raise your standards. You can stop accepting a substandard existence simply because it has become familiar. You can work out who you actually are, what you want, what you deserve and start building a life that makes you wake up on a Monday morning feeling … proud to be the man living it.

That is exactly why I wrote Wake the Lion

This isn’t a book telling men to man up, become harder or pretend they don’t have feelings. It’s about becoming the man you know you’re capable of being.

Wake the Lion is available now on Amazon in print and Kindle, and you can also listen on Audible. You’ll find the link on my main page.

Nobody is coming to save you. Good.
You don’t need saving. You need to start.**

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# # # NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. 🦁

If you’re a man living a life that doesn’t feel like yours anymore, **you do not have to stay there.**

Maybe you’ve lost your confidence. Maybe you’ve spent years tolerating relationships, work, habits or circumstances that you know are beneath what you’re capable of. Maybe somewhere along the way you stopped asking yourself one very important question:

**Is this actually the life I want?**

Nobody is coming to save you. That isn’t bad news. **It’s bloody brilliant news.**

Because it means the power to change your life is already in your hands.

You can rebuild your confidence. You can raise your standards. You can stop accepting a substandard existence simply because it has become familiar. You can work out who you actually are, what you want, what you deserve and start building a life that makes you wake up on a Monday morning feeling **proud to be the man living it.**

That is exactly why I wrote **Wake the Lion**.

This isn’t a book telling men to man up, become harder or pretend they don’t have feelings. It’s about becoming the man you know you’re capable of being.

**Wake the Lion** is available now on Amazon in print and Kindle, and you can also listen on Audible. You’ll find the link on my main page.

**Nobody is coming to save you. Good.
You don’t need saving. You need to start.**

# # # NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. 🦁

If you’re a man living a life that doesn’t feel like yours anymore, **you do not have to stay there.**

Maybe you’ve lost your confidence. Maybe you’ve spent years tolerating relationships, work, habits or circumstances that you know are beneath what you’re capable of. Maybe somewhere along the way you stopped asking yourself one very important question:

**Is this actually the life I want?**

Nobody is coming to save you. That isn’t bad news. **It’s bloody brilliant news.**

Because it means the power to change your life is already in your hands.

You can rebuild your confidence. You can raise your standards. You can stop accepting a substandard existence simply because it has become familiar. You can work out who you actually are, what you want, what you deserve and start building a life that makes you wake up on a Monday morning feeling **proud to be the man living it.**

That is exactly why I wrote **Wake the Lion**.

This isn’t a book telling men to man up, become harder or pretend they don’t have feelings. It’s about becoming the man you know you’re capable of being.

**Wake the Lion** is available now on Amazon in print and Kindle, and you can also listen on Audible. You’ll find the link on my main page.

**Nobody is coming to save you. Good.
You don’t need saving. You need to start.**

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If you’re jealous that your ex moved on with somebody else just remember what your mum used to say … always give your choice to the needy

Yes. I’d make the savage version **much tighter** and give it that “oh God, I needed to hear that” punch:

They ghosted you and now you’re desperately trying to work out why.

Stop.

You already have your answer.

They ghosted you because disappearing was easier than having the decency to tell you the truth. That is not mysterious. That is not complicated. That is information.

Please stop looking for closure from someone who couldn’t even give you a conversation.

The way they treated you IS the closure.

Don’t send another message. Don’t check whether they’re online. Don’t stalk their socials looking for clues. Don’t convince yourself they’re “probably just overwhelmed.”

Sweetheart, they know where you are.

So ghost them right back.

Not because we’re playing games. Not because we want them to panic and come running back.

Because somebody who can disappear from your life without explanation does not get unlimited access to you when they suddenly fancy wandering back into it.

They showed you how little consideration they were prepared to give you.

Believe them.

Then disappear so bloody well they start wondering if THEY imagined YOU.

If you need help staying away, read *Silence Is Your Superpower*, *The No Contact Theory* and *You Deserve the Whole Damn Bakery*. Available on Amazon. Link on my main page.



That **“They know where you are”** line would also make a brilliant moment to pause in the actual video.

Will no contact make your ex come back?

Maybe. But if that is the only reason you’re doing it, you’re missing the entire point.

No contact isn’t a trick to make someone miss you. It isn’t a countdown until they panic and come running back. It’s about taking your hands off a situation you cannot control and putting them back on the one thing you can control: **you**.

Yes, your absence can make an ex curious. They may miss you. They may wonder what you’re doing. They may even come back.

But here’s the question I care about more.

**If they do come back, will you still want them?**

Because proper no contact gives you something far more powerful than getting their attention. It gives you distance. Clarity. Time to stop looking at the relationship through heartbreak and start looking at what it actually was.

That’s exactly why I wrote *Silence Is Your Superpower* and *The No Contact Theory*. Not to teach you how to manipulate someone back, but to help you understand what silence actually does psychologically and how to use that time to get yourself back.

If you have children together and complete no contact isn’t possible, *Heartbreak & Handovers* shows you how to create the same emotional distance while still co-parenting.

Stop asking whether no contact will make them come back.

Start asking what might happen if **you stop needing them to**.

My books are available on Amazon. Link on my main page.