06/07/2026
Communication starts long before first words.
At just 12 weeks old, we’re already sharing the beginnings of a conversation here..
Notice how I’m following his lead, getting face to face, repeating back his vocalisations, pausing to give him time to respond, and treating every smile, look and little coo as meaningful communication.
These simple back and forth interactions are often known as serve and return. Every time we respond to our child’s attempts to communicate, we’re helping build the foundations for speech, language, attention, social connection and emotional development.
It’s also important to remember that communication is always a two way process of connection and co-regulation. Some babies can become easily overwhelmed or overstimulated, and in those moments, they may need us to gently do less rather than more. That might look like softening our voice, reducing input, giving them a little space, or simply pausing and waiting for them to come back to the interaction in their own time. Stepping back slightly can actually help them regulate and re-engage when they’re ready.
Try these simple tips at home:
• Get face to face so your baby can see your expressions.
• Follow your baby’s lead and notice what captures their attention.
• Use a warm, animated voice if your baby is enjoying the interaction, but notice if they need things quieter or slower.
• Pause and wait. Those few seconds give your baby space to take their turn.
• If your baby looks away, becomes fussy, or seems overwhelmed, gently reduce stimulation and allow a break before re-connecting.
• Respond to every look, smile, movement and sound as part of the conversation, while respecting when they’re signaling they need a pause.
You don’t need expensive toys or planned activities to support communication. Some of the most powerful moments happen during everyday interactions, with your face, your voice and your responsive presence.
Every interaction matters & all communication is valid and important 💙.
