02/10/2021
Things donāt always go to planā¦
Yesterday I had to do a lot of problem solving and self-regulation! After a 5:30am start, a dodgy car, torrential rain and gale force winds I finally got the horses in from the field ready for work. But Fen just wasnāt feeling it. She usually gets on the horsebox without hesitation but she planted her feet on the ground and refused to move. The temptation to just explode with frustration or lie down in the horsebox with Mabel and cry was strong, but I decided to take some deep breaths, ask a friend for help and really listen to what Fen was telling me. She didnāt want to go, it was too much for her that dayā¦
Luckily another pony Brandy was able to step in and keep Mabel company on the school visit, and Fen had a rest in her stable. Despite the initial stress, the rainbow in the sky was that this was such a great talking point with the pupils, some of whom struggle with emotionally based school avoidance. We spoke about what Fen was feeling that morning, what itās like when you just canāt face a day at school and what you can do to regulate and take it one step at a time. The pupils also learnt all about how horses keep themselves warm and how their vision differs from ours. It ended up being a fantastic day of learning and connecting - and of course I couldnāt have done without the wonderful ponies Mabel and Brandy!!! ā¤ļøā¤ļø