27/03/2022
Do you find it hard to make small talk in social situations? Or lack confidence to speak out in meetings when you have something to say?
And instead you stay quiet because you're afraid of making mistakes in English? 🤐
Firstly, please don't worry. You are absolutely not alone!
I have been there! 🤚When I was living in Germany learning German, there were so many times where I would sit with a group of people at work or over dinner and I wanted to join in when I felt I had something to say, but my fear of being judged for my non-perfect German was so big that I would say nothing and watch as the conversation continued. I would judge myself for it and I would also feel embarrassed when friends and colleagues would ask why I was so quiet... Which made the whole thing feel worse!
However, little by little, bit by bit, I started to challenge myself and accept that there is no such thing as perfect. Especially with learning languages. I started to join in with conversations a little more and accept that if I needed to speak slower than other people, or repeat what I said sometimes, that was OKAY!
In fact, everybody around me was so supportive, understood I was learning, and were so patient with me 🤗
In a matter of weeks, my fear decreased, my confidence grew and my German improved dramatically! 😁
You can do it too!
If you're afraid of making mistakes whilst speaking - speak more, accept mistakes and soon you'll realise that mistakes don't matter. Your progress will be so much more empowering! 🙌
Let me know in the comments below:
What do you find MOST DIFFICULT about speaking in meetings or making small talk?
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I help ambitious professionals and academics become effective communicators in English by developing speaking fluency.
📚🗣️🇬🇧 TEFL-qualified English teacher.
🎓 Currently studying MA Cognitive Science and Language.