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This is how someone with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder hears you when you speak.

What is school phobia?

Some common features seen in children diagnosed with school phobia are as follows: Pain, which is mostly observed in the mornings of school and disappears on holidays: such as headaches, stomachaches ... Nausea, stomach cramps that can turn into vomiting from time to time...

Children who are not sent to school are happy to stay at home, get rid of their complaints after a short time, regain their health, and live in peace at home until the next school day.

The child who comes to school crying, forgets his complaints when he reaches the classroom; She spends a good day at school, returns home smiling at the end of the day, as if she wasn't the child who left home crying in the morning…
However, this cheerful mood of the child lasts until bedtime. In the evening, he goes to sleep saying "I will not go to school tomorrow" before going to bed, and wakes up the next morning saying that he does not want to go to school. In some cases, it is observed that this situation lasts for a few days and disappears thanks to the positive approach and determined attitude of the family.

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This is how someone with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder hears you when you speak.

“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

Nelson Mandela

Things to Do for Your Child to Get Used to School

* Return home from vacation two weeks before school starts.
* Regulation of children's sleeping hours.
* Prepare for school with your child.
* Before starting school, give importance to activities that will support your child's freedom.
* Do not compare the child with friends or more successful siblings.
* Try to understand her school-related anxieties and let them know that you are there to overcome them.
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“A new school year means new beginnings, new adventures, new friendships, and new challenges. The slate is clean and anything can happen.”

Denise Witmer

A child has 3 parents

* As a result of the urinalysis studies, it has been seen that the families with problematic relationships between the parents secrete stress hormones in their children.
* Your baby is greatly affected by conflicts at home. Don't think 'he doesn't understand anyway'. Parents shouting at each other in the presence of babies and their use of violence negatively affect their development. You can understand how much he is affected by the reactions such as crying more, restless and not wanting to sleep. A quiet environment at home where you treat each other well is good for everyone.

”Each child has three parents; Mother, father and the relationship between his mother-father. Pay attention to the third parent!”

Byron Norton

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💥🚫Why are we hitting our child?

* Because we think we discipline our child,
* To calm our anger,
* Since we couldn't find a better way of training (out of desperation),
* Since we do not have time to apply other training methods (for lack of time),
* We beat because it is the best method of discipline we know (as it has been applied to us before).
Now go back and read the reasons above again. Regardless of his fault, does your child really deserve to be beaten, that is, disproportionate physical blows, for these reasons?

“When a child hits a child, we call it aggression.
When a child hits an adult, we call it hostility.
When an adult hits an adult, we call it assault.
When an adult hits a child, we call it discipline.”

Haim G. Ginott

Criticizing your child in front of others:

Think about it as an Adult; How would you feel if your spouse voiced his dissatisfaction with you in a crowded environment? This is exactly what your child feels when you act like this. You should stop constantly criticizing your child, looking for his faults and flaws and expressing this frequently. You should give our children the opportunity to make mistakes and guide them where you deem necessary. This is the healthiest way to find the truth for them. By ignoring their mistakes and reinforcing what they do right, you can provide positive behavior change.