10/08/2026
🌱 Sometimes Starting Again Is the Beginning of Becoming
2003–2010 | I Came Back With a Suitcase — And Rebuilt My Life From Scratch
In 2003, I made another difficult decision.
I returned to Wales so my son could have an in-person relationship with his father.
It was the right decision.
It was also one of the hardest decisions I had ever made.
I had spent the previous couple of years rebuilding a life in Brazil. I had a home, work, family, friends, my little language school and, most importantly, my son was thriving.
And now I was leaving it all behind.
Again.
I said goodbye to my family.
I said goodbye to my beautiful cat, Max, who I had taken to Brazil believing we would stay there forever.
I sold what I could.
And I returned to Wales with a suitcase and very little else.
I didn't have a home.
For a while, my son and I stayed with a dear friend. Then we moved into a tiny one-bedroom studio converted from an old stable.
We shared a bed.
And somehow, from that little space, I began rebuilding my life.
But this time, something different was happening.
I knew I needed to understand myself.
I wanted to understand depression.
I wanted to understand trauma.
I wanted to understand human suffering.
And I wanted to understand how people find their way through life's darkest chapters.
While doing my Access course at Bridgend College, I engaged in counselling for the first time as part of the support available through the college.
I continued counselling while completing my counselling qualifications, and when I eventually went to university, the course itself involved a significant amount of personal development.
For the first time, I began consciously processing what I had carried for years:
the loss of Roger,
the trauma of his su***de,
the upheaval of leaving Brazil,
the losses and upheavals of moving between countries,
the trauma of a difficult relationship,
the emotional abuse,
the years of trying simply to keep going.
I wasn't just studying counselling.
I was learning how to meet myself.
And slowly, something began to shift.
I started asking different questions.
Not “Why has this happened to me?”
But:
“What can I learn from this?”
“What do I need to heal?”
“Who am I becoming?”
So I kept going.
I secured a grant, completed my studies, worked as a learning support assistant in schools and as a support worker, raised my son and eventually went on to study counselling at the University of Glamorgan.
In 2010, I completed my degree with a high 2:1 — just 2% short of a First.
And I was immensely proud.
Not simply because of the qualifications.
But because I knew what it had taken to get there.
English wasn't my first language.
Life hadn't exactly given me a smooth runway.
But I kept showing up.
Looking back now, I can see that those years were not simply about rebuilding my circumstances.
They were about rebuilding ME.
And perhaps this is one of the greatest lessons my journey has taught me:
Sometimes starting again isn't going backwards.
Sometimes starting again is the beginning of becoming.
Every chapter was teaching me something.
Every challenge was strengthening a muscle.
And eventually, those lessons became part of the foundations of the work I do today — helping people develop self-awareness, emotional literacy and resilience, so they can stop living on autopilot and begin consciously participating in the life they are creating.
This is why my Resilience Workshop isn't something I created simply from theory.
It has grown from lived experience, deep personal work, professional learning and years of consciously putting the pieces together.
My signature R.E.S.I.L.I.E.N.C.E. FRAMEWORK and Emotions Formula are practical tools born from that journey — designed to help you understand yourself, navigate your emotions and strengthen your resilience muscle.
🌱 If you're ready to stop simply surviving and start consciously shaping your life, this may be your next step.
💛 RESILIENCE WORKSHOP
📅 Wednesday 16th September 2026
⏰ 7:00pm – 9:00pm
📍 CF61 Community Centre, Llantwit Major
👥 Small, intimate group — maximum 10–15 people
💷 Investment: £36
✨ For anyone ready to reclaim their power and learn how to work with their emotions more effectively.
🌱 Especially valuable for young people navigating stress, pressure and confusion in an increasingly fast-paced world.
The booking link will be in the comments.
And remember:
Resilience isn't something you're simply born with.
It is a muscle.
And you can strengthen it.
To be continued… 🌻
Eliana Regina