26/01/2026
So many parents of neurodivergent children carry this fear quietly, because they see what it is costing their child to get through the day.
And it’s not that they don’t care about their education. But they see the spark in their child disappearing.
💔They notice the anxiety that starts the night before.
💔The physical symptoms that appear with no clear medical reason.
💔The emotional release after school that tells a very different story to “they were fine today.”
And yes - attendance matters, but NOT at the cost of their health.
For families, these worries are hard to voice — especially when systems prioritise compliance over wellbeing, and concern is mistaken for resistance.
But if you’ve ever doubted yourself after being told “this is normal,”
If you’ve ever felt uneasy even when everyone else seems reassured, if you’ve ever wondered whether school is meant to feel this heavy…
You’re not imagining it.
You’re not being dramatic.
And your concern isn’t a problem — it’s information.
Parents who feel this fear are often the ones paying the closest attention. And that matters 💛
