08/02/2023
Protecting ourselves from mistakes is the worst thing we can do for our resilience.
I understand why you might want to avoid mistakes, because we've likely been brought up with an 'avoidance mindset' that mistakes are bad, embarrassing or are a weakness, and we might want to protect the kids in our care from experiencing this too.
But, this is like trying to make toast but refusing to put the bread in a toaster... Weird analogy I know, but the toaster is crucial to the process of the bread coming out as toast!
Mistakes are our toaster! To build resilience and persist through the inevitable challenges we'll face in life, we NEED to make mistakes...and often!
Resilience is a muscle that is built through making mistakes.
If nothing changes in our approach towards mistakes, then we‘ll end up with a society that are overwhelmed by challenges, are flummoxed by mistakes and are unable to cope at all when bigger life setbacks inevitably hit. This has a big impact on productivity, absence and happiness.
We can either stick to avoiding mistakes and be flummoxed when life challenges hit, or start approaching mistakes as an inevitable part of life showing us opportunities for progress.
What’s your view on mistakes?