07/05/2025
A true story shared anonymously with thanks for a very strong, protected, brave, courageous, blessed, special lady. For obvious reasons, I trust it resonates and inspires those of you who have yet to find your voice and re-establish your worth, set your boundaries and learn to say NO! Once and for all x🧠🌱❤🙏
"I have a tiny tiny problem see I left 8 years ago..I got tired of everyone using me up and never requesting me for my soul..only the need of me..
And certain skill sets..
Murals.. i paint im an artist.sewing full wedding dresses and and the brides maid dresses too and throw in the flower girls dresses..oh and some prom dresses too..christening gowns..with hand made lace made by my hands..bonnets..knitted sweaters..custom curtains..there were times i sewed until my fingers bled to get the fininishes done on time..i planned every funeral every christening..every wedding..every event..i even fixed cars and tractors.. and hunted deer..and i canned the meat..raise my child for awhile..to making full meals for holiday functions..home made apple butter..pies cakes cookies..home made wine...haircuts..i was a female barber for 8 years..write my childs essay for college entry..oh so and so needs a home made baby blanket.. free of course..aww youre so sweet..my whole life..you get the idea..i couldn't breathe anymore for so much pressure..i never said no..i loved them..so when my last child was of age..one day I packed up my Antique Chevy truck and I took off for the Appalachian Mountains and straight into more HELL.. I took TF OFF..I did..I was tired of being a Fu***ng superhero..
So now im back 7 month's now..
Safe on FB..so my daughter wanted me to open up an Instagram account last week so we're could share funny clips and geek..and now all of these people that I had left and avoided are all now finding me and following me..
I'm getting announcements on my computer 2 phones and a laptop every minute of names I know...On Instagram as far away as Guam..
Ping ping ping ping..
Yikes..just yikes...But my boundaries are high now and my answers will be No..
People will use you up for your skill sets your whole life and yet..
NEVER MISS YOUR SOUL...
ONLY THE USE OF YOU..
My boundaries are super high now
And I'm very selective...where my skills and my time is spent..
The whole 8 years that I was gone I had no help..none...
Not until there was a need for me.
And now I'm Home fulfilling that need.. that no one else had the stomach for..
And when I am done here I'm selling this House and taking off again..
I'm nothing but a commodity..
Oh Kittens home I need her to make me summer dresses..
The answer is No..the answer is No and my boundaries are very high now...No..
I'm ignoring it all each and every one of them..except for yall..that found me on Instagram..
A lifetime of servitude my answer is No..I gave so much of myself to people who never missed my SOUL..
They never miss your SOUL.. Only the use of you..
Let this be a lesson to my sweet souls on here..you give and you give..and the second that they can't use you anymore..you are forgotten and hated...despised..
How dare you up and leave..none of us know how to do these things...Come back..
And they never miss your SOUL..
There actually is such a thing as being too sweet...
Where were all of these people when I needed help?.. crickets and they left me to Rot..
Ping ping ping ping on...I say..
Take one from my page.. Don't give all to base ass people who will leave you to Rot when you need help...
My SOUL is priceless and it's not for SALE..not anymore..
God knows..He saw it all..thats probably why I survived..
SOUL... some of you missed my SOUL..thats nice thank you..I felt it
Boundaries High...I paid a price for nice..I would have kept doing it until it killed me..
And now I live my best Life.." ❤😇
