24/08/2026
I CAN’T BELIEVE…
My son has done his first year at secondary school and is about to start year 8! This time last year we were both so nervous about what the year ahead would bring. I could not be prouder of how he has managed this past school year, he has thrown himself into life at secondary and taken up opportunities given to him, made lots of new friends, found his favourite teachers who support him in all aspects of school (not just their lessons) and found a confidence that he’s continuing to grow by himself. Some of the key things we have worked on to get here are:
Talking about and understanding emotions. Identifying them in ourselves and others.
Coping with and expressing them in appropriate ways.
Showing our children that we find things hard too! Adults don’t have it all worked out! Talking (appropriately) about our stressful days and how we overcame them, if we did. Knowing that tomorrow is a new day.
Nothing is permanent, everything changes and it can all be worked out, together.
Making time and space for hard conversations, this isn’t always easy when life is so busy but we try to make sure that the time is available. Having the puppy has helped. Side by side walking is an amazing way of talking to teens/tweens, as well as in the car.
All a work in progress and obviously there are ups and downs but taking this year as a massive win 🏆
Here he is helping me on his ‘take your child to work day’ where he joined me doing yoga at one of my nurseries!