28/08/2026
I've only just seen Daisy aka The Neice wrote this 😊 it's so nice.
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There are people who pass through your life, and there are people who quietly shape it. For me, one of those people was Monty Roberts.
When I first met him, he guided me through my very first Join-Up. I remember wearing enormous wellies and being convinced I was going to trip over. Monty would calmly say, “Walk left… now right…” and I was so worried I’d get it wrong that I held my hands out in front of me - one like an L so I remembered that was left.
Years later, as a frustrated teenager, I stormed into my auntie’s house, threw my school bag into the sitting room and heard an American voice say, “Ouch!” Mortified doesn’t quite cover it. I’d just launched my school bag at Monty Roberts.
Over the years he was there for so many milestones. He cheered me on at Hickstead and HOYS. He taught Pie to jump ditches and Joey how to tie knots. He taught me to lasso… and then, with impeccable timing, let me be the one being lassoed while I ran away laughing.
He had time for people. He had curiosity. He had an extraordinary gift for helping both horses and humans feel understood.
People will always have different opinions about methods and horsemanship. That’s true of anyone who changes an industry. But whether you agreed with every aspect of his work or not, it’s impossible to deny the difference he made.
He took an unimaginably difficult childhood and turned it into a lifetime of trying to create more understanding, more kindness and better relationships between horses and people.
What a legacy.
Thank you, Monty, for the lessons, the laughter, the encouragement and for being part of so many of my happiest horsey memories. Sorry about hitting you with my school bag - violence is never the answer!
Rest easy, Monty.